№91357[Reply]
Today, my friend showed me messages of my best friend chatting with this other friend about me. In these messages, my “best friend” was talking about how I’m hopeless, a lost cause, there’s no point in helping me, etc. That would be one thing, but there were a couple of details that stuck out to me. One, he said he was “already over our friendship three months in”, and two, there were multiple times where he was considering just blocking me while providing no reason. To be honest with you, it was kind of already apparent from the start that he was annoyed with me, but he still acted like everything was ok on the surface. Nothing ever indicated that he was this resentful towards me. But he admitted that he basically only talked to me, not for enjoyment, but as charity work. And once I read this, I went to go unfriend him. Am I a faggot for thinking I meant anything to him at all?
№91358
I was "friends", more so on good terms with someone for a good few months but I hated him behind his back, and I couldn't bring myself to just say that he's a complete autistic retard due to pity.
№91359
What do you think caused your former friend to not like you in the first place?
№91360
>>91359I initially assumed it was because I have some kind of autistic tendencies (which I am aware of), but based off of the messages, it seems more like it’s because I don’t accept help from my other friend. My other friend was offering me a place to stay at his apartment, 17 hours from where I live, and when the day came to finally leave, I left without telling my dad or any other family members. So I went to the bus station, and right before I was about to leave, my dad found me and basically made me come back home. My family was, understandably, worried about me. But when I told my friends this, they got annoyed because I was “helpless”, among other things. This is where all of my best friends hate stems from. At the time, I trusted him enough to “vent” about it, and on the surface, he was nice about it compared to my other friend. But when I looked at the messages today, he was spewing vitriolic anger about the fact that 1. I didn’t feel like continuing trying to go to my other friend’s apartment after upsetting my family and 2. That I didn’t feel comfortable living with some online friend that I barely knew for 4 months at that time. My best friend said “you can give him the world and he’ll still find a way to blame you”.
№91364
>>91360Why did they want you to move in with this friend? Geg from this post it sounds like youre just getting groomed or something.
№91749
>>91357 (OP)>Today, my friend showed me messages of my best friend chatting with this other friend about me. Bubba, let me stop you right there, how did you type any of this and not think "man this is super gay" man up. What are you looking for? a shoulder to cry on? youre a man right? fix your attitude dude, you care too much to begin with and clearly dont have the insight to know who's good company probably because you aren't critical at all who you spend time with, what is just anyone good enough for you?
Here's what you do when things don't work out or you learn someone didn't have your best interests: You man the fuck up and walk away, it isn't hard you're just being a sissy, and fuck that other weirdo too who has these messages and stuff it just sounds like one big circle of soy boys