№81013[Reply]
Love was always sold to people as a end-all be-all solution to every single problem you might ever have. If you're miserable, life will magically change if you get someone who'll love you. I'm not saying that love is bad, it isn't, but obsessing over it isn't going to help you one bit. The truth is that if you want some real effects in your life you have to focus on yourself. You can't change everything, but you could educate yourself, work out, do fucking anything besides sitting on your ass and whining that no one is here to save you from what YOU ALONE have (or haven't) done. Everyone in this world has different struggles, including me and you, so find your purpose in life, learn new things, and fight to become better.
>but muh beepee
If you actively believe the BP you're retarded. It's a shitty ideology with a tiny bit of truth (soyciety is hypersexualized). Don't feed into what it preaches, because it's not an ideology that'll get you far in life.
>HOW do I change?
For starters try researching different hobbies and interests by reading articles or watching YouTube videos. For best results do it in Incognito mode to diversify your feed. Hell, you can even ask ChatBBC to list examples, just do your own research and come to your own conclusions.
>But I'm anxious.
No one ultimately cares about what you did at the end of the day. Even the dumbest of people move on, but your brain doesn't. You have to realize that if you're going to sit and ponder on everything wrong you've ever done, opportunities will pass you by. Break the cycle and agree to uncomfortable things, it's the only way to make them comfortable, and most people will at least be kind to you.
<TL;DR: Explore new things and stop rotting on your PC.
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>>81027oh my heckin evangelion reference
№81058
Heres some more advice from someone who was really depressed, but not necessarily BP'd
>I'm miserable
The whole "misery loves company" thing is a common phrase because its true. If you find yourself miserable for a long time its because you probably feel safe in that mood knowing that nothing changes because of it. You say you want to be happy but you aren't actually doing anything to change your life.
>Anxiousness
Fuck it. You and I both know that most people are genuinely stupid. Why do you care about what they think? What do you owe to these other people? Just do what you like.
Don't live with regret. If you fucked up, you fucked up. You are not the same person as your past self and you won't be the same person as your future self. You will live.
>I don't know what to do/Hobbies
If there's one thing I think I love about people is if they are extremely dedicated to some school of knowledge. What just fascinates you? Is it math, music, physics, programming, art, history, ecology? What do you wish you could just know every single thing there is to know about it? Start with that.
№81060
Honestly I couldn't agree with you more. I can't stand the faggots who obses- OH MY GOD NEUTRALPLIER LOOK OUT!
CRASH
ARE YOU ALRIGHT? NEUTRALPLIER! Oh my God someone call Nine-One-O-
IS THAT AN F-22??!!!
BOOM!!!
and then they all died
№81070
>>81057Actually its a reference to Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics and Selfhood of the Human Person by John Crosby but ig Eva fits as well. People always argue over what the moral of Eva is but I always thought it was that. "It's okay to love yourself."
№81116
>>81013 (OP)Normie posting btw
№81122
I mean good for you OP but you are clearly a child that was never really BP'd