/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

Being a normie matters more than looks. If you act strange you'll autpmatically be a sub5 even if u look normal

I don't think so.
People use bp as an excuse to explain why they are so miserable because it is easy to point at and it's so much easier to feel like a victim of genes rather than trying your best and actually improve yourself. If you aren't a teenager or act like one you should have realized that what matters in person is not how they look but how they act, opinions, intellect etc. If you think a girl never been with you just because of your looks chances are you are a caca figuring himself out getting validation from similarly insecure people on the internet. Is life easier if you look good? Yes. Is it the only sole thing that determines how much dating value you hold? Fuck no.
From what I've seen other stuff like having trauma, being autistic, not enjoying general interests etc. make it much worse for you to find someone, because you either don't understand people around you or people don't understand you (or both).

looks don’t matter at all, I mean yes, do to the capitalistic psyop called ”Looksmaxxing” men especially young men started to care about looks like fucking faggots and give out gazillion dollars for care products but you can see how no actual women interacts with those men it’s always men interacting with men wich makes them look like faggots. Women aren’t a monolith and sure some have their types, wich can differ too btw or some just care about status. The entire point of partnerships is eventually having kids and someone who just looks good is worthless in that field.

>>80448
untrue, good looks make negative traits attractive.

>>80447 (OP)
it obviously matters. if you are ugly people will judge you for whats on the surface. thats just our human nature and how we judge others

>>80451
yes if you are 8+/10 but most normies or high tier normies suffer if they are socially inept

>>80447 (OP)
They very much do

People subconsciously analyze every person's face and looks as soon as they see them, its not really their choice. How they think you look will then heavily influence how they treat you. Everyone you have ever met and yourself do it, its not really anyones fault. But to say they don't matter would be fucking retarded

Like another guy said though its more important to be neurotypical and not an autist or a schizo because even if you are one of those people will still treat you shitty and hate you even if you look good

>>80447 (OP)
It's way more complex a subject than most people really accept.
You could write an entire novel around how looks affect human psychology.
Yes they matter. To the extent as some people who blackpill on here? Not at all.
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Remember that women all have a 'type', and this 'type' more often than not, is related to some piece of popular media (think Twilight, some snca romance etc), Or some famous person (harry styles o algo). If you look somewhat like this person and they see you, they will find you attractive.
However, you can be very attractive in general. This will court you more attention from more people, and the opposite gender, but half of this is because they will know they are attractive, and therefor be more confident, and socially appealing.
The opposite of this, is the more articulate women, usually also admire certain personality aspects as well as looks. Women usually default to an archtype, same as men (albiet more common) and will also look for this aspect overall (if and only if, they are serious about a relationship)
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Do looks matter at 30? Not as much as when you're a teenager, but still important.
The takeaway from this is that, anyone can be attractive. Your soul shines through the flesh. With 'hard' work (excerise, basic hygiene, conversation skills, remembering to smile) you can look at a minimum 5 points more attractive than not.
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The 1-10 attractiveness scale is a psyop. There is not limit to have beautiful people can be

Looks are an extension of your status which is what women actually care about. I'm described as above-average in looks but i'm still a kissless, hugless virgin because of my shy autist tendancies. I'd go as far to say that a large portion of "looksmaxxers" are spergs that get overly-analytical to explain their social failure. Clavicular for example. But main takeaway is, if you want a girlfriend watch niggerball and eat the fucking bugs.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8FqG5DBM_o

If you are an ugly bastard, life will be harder in general
If you are a average looking guy or higher, and you have the basics like being clean, being able to hold a conversation, not smelling like shit, you are probably fine in most cases, but don't expect anything special.
If you are an aryan god people will listen to you autistically ranting about SNCA, even guys will do it to other guys to orbit around them and hope to gain some sort of reputation from being around you
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If you are a girl and not ugly you can get most things easier than men can, because cucks will bend over backwards even for the opportunity of sex, or because its practically in law. Getting a place in a uni or a job in STEM is easier for girls because basically no women want to do it and they legally have to meet quotas

>>80568
In shorter terms, if you are a ugly even charisma won't help you much, if you are normal looking and charismatic you are fine and if you are attractive people will put up with you even as an autist

for women its easier overall but if you're ugly you are probably at the same level as a male normal looking autist

looks give you an advantage, but if you want to find real love then its all personality.

looks matter because it enhances your already existing traits and features, turning some bad traits into positive traits because it is perceived as attractive when you are attractive
subconsciously you will be treated better if your looks are better because thats just how the human brain is wired
it is not everything though, you can make up for it by simply having charm, personality traits, skills, hobbies, money
the bp is the gayest and most retarded shit ever
notice how bp/incelosphere forums and websites are filled with pedophiles, NEETS, extreme autists, and niggers with no redeeming qualities?
it's easy to blame your unhappiness to simple things like looks and women, and thats why they do it