Standard disclaimer: you're totally valid no matter what genitals you have or prefer to have. Some women and transfems have penises and are happier that way and that's great, and some women and transfems have bigenital or other unusual configurations and are happier that way, and that's also great.
But if you'd rather have a vagina, quick PSA: I had a standard modern vaginoplasty 4 years ago, and it's everything I hoped for. There's a lot of misinformation and disinformation out there about trans women's vaginas, so here's a quick run-through:
* Everything is where one would expect it to be and looks lovely
* I can orgasm
* I self-lubricate
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