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tits or gtfo
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not even mildly interesting bait
№83769[Quote]
I'm gonna try to give you the most honest advice as possible. Even though I know this could be bait or just a fake scenario, it's also just as possible you actually need help. Be honest with him about your situation. This is a relationship-breaking scenario IF you try to conceal this any further. And if I was the boyfriend in a question, I would lose my shit if I was not aware of this going on. Obviously, I don't expect his response to be fully positive even if you tell him, but it is by far and away the best option you have if you truly want this relationship to work. If you have never orgasmed during sex, and your libido being satisfied is a defining part of what you want in a relationship, then yeah chuddy you guys are gonna have to work around it through alternative means. I'm not a sex therapist but this is smth ygs have to settle together. I strongly encourage you to, in companionship w your bf, look up and apply nofap research and methods. No one can guarantee they will work, and ultimately the decision to do quit will be yours: but what matters is constantly making effort to change, if it's what you want to do. I don't think your relationship is over because of this, and this really depends on how your boyfriend and you are able to communicate this and find a solution together, because obviously, yes, being addicted to masturbation and such things is a personal issue, but in the context of this relationship and you're feeling unsatisfied from sex, this is something you two need to work on collaboratively. You'll be alright chuddy
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post tatas please
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>>83769TSMT TSMT TSMT GOOD ADVICE ALARMERINO IS TRIGGERED OH NOOOOOOOOO
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>>83759 (OP)Listen to
>>83769We can't be of much help if you're genuine about this since most of us are men. I don't know why you have such high libido or the implications of that for a female, so there isn't too much I can say. I can only confidently say that you do need to quit masturbation if you want to receive more pleasure during sex, which I think would be very important to your partner. I say this as a virgin so I wouldn't know, but I would feel very let down and disappointed in myself if I could never make my partner orgasm. Maintaining this relationship should be top priority for you because, if not, you'll be used goods at best for some other guy and you'll never pair bond again; that's assuming you didn't already do this with another guy before.
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>>83769>>83773thank you guys for taking me seriously. not finishing during sex or should i say from penetration has been an issue for me since i started masturbating i guess, it’s not because of my porn use it’s because i genuinely can’t from penetration. i guess it doesn’t really help that he doesn’t touch me in other places during sex which i should probably talk to him about. of course it feels good i just can’t finish and i told him this before we started doing it. he made me finish one time and it’s the only time it’s happened from penetration. i know this all all tmi especially coming from a girl but i do think it’s important context and i don’t mean to make anyone feel uncomfortable when saying what i need to.
i think my plan of action will to just go cold turkey, i mean i won’t really have time for it anyway since we’ll always be together so i think it’ll make everything a bit easier. if it’s still a big struggle for me i will tell him straight up. i don’t want to shock him with this information as soon as we move in and cause an argument although i doubt it would. we’ve talked about porn together casually and i know he watches causally and he thinks i do too, but it’s not causal for me it’s constant.
my question is, does the easy peasy method work for girls too or is it exclusive to helping guys? i’ve heard good stuff about it but don’t wanna waste my time on something that doesn’t apply to me.
in the back of my mind to keep me motivated i’m going to keep thinking that if i stop masturbating i’ll enjoy sex with my bf more, which i want desperately.
genuinely thank you for the help i wasn’t expecting anyone to take the post seriously but it means a lot to get help from an outsiders perspective
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>we’ve talked about porn together casually and i know he watches causally and he thinks i do too, but it’s not causal for me it’s constant.Oh, it shouldn't be a big deal to have that conversation then. I think what
>>83769 and I had in mind was that you would see porn as a form of cheating (imo it is, but I'm not here to lecture you on your relationship) so your boyfriend finding out would be a big deal. If you let each other view porn casually then I don't think he will be very upset if you come and say that you think you have an addiction with it; he would likely be very understanding if anything. I don't think you're the type to want to practice what I'm about to recommend, but as someone that has been practicing semen retention I think you and your bf should both drop the porn altogether. It would help both of you a lot sexually, in your general life, and since you both seem so casual about the usage of porn, you can monitor and support each other if you guys did this. If you think I'm a crazy schizo that's fine, but at minimum I think it's safe to tell your boyfriend about this.
> i guess it doesn’t really help that he doesn’t touch me in other places during sex which i should probably talk to him about.Yeah, you should tell him. He shouldn't take issue with wanting to please his girlfriend more, but I wouldn't know because I'm a virgin like I said.
>my question is, does the easy peasy method work for girls too or is it exclusive to helping guys? i’ve heard good stuff about it but don’t wanna waste my time on something that doesn’t apply to me.No clue, I'm not a woman geg. Only one way to find out.
>in the back of my mind to keep me motivated i’m going to keep thinking that if i stop masturbating i’ll enjoy sex with my bf more, which i want desperately.Sounds like a good plan. Like I said, I think it would be even better if you got your boyfriend in on this too.
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>>83779thinking about it more i think i was a little more anxious about this than i needed to be. i guess if we both watch porn it probably won’t be happening when we move in due to embarrassment i guess.
lol i definitely can’t practice semen retention. although i am a sperg and have researched it myself cause i see a lot of conversations about it on here but it kind of seems to be less effective/beneficial than preached on here? but who am i to know geg
but, thank you a lot this has definitely eased my mind and makes things less scary to approach. thank you chud
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>>83781This is
>>83769 talking: I agree with the last guy that was talking about you guys quitting porn. I think it is by far and away the smartest thing you can do. I understand that it may seem like it's completely impossible, and don't worry, that's how it is for everyone. Definitely tell the guy that he should do a better job of touching you during sex. Compared to the past reply, I am not a virgin, I've had sex a fair bit: I think that proper communication would have fixed pretty much every single issue I've had during my sexual life, ever, and so I heavily recommend you do it too. And I don't know how old you guys are, I'm 18, but it's just that these things get harder to communicate with how a relationship ages, because even if both of you guys have autism or whatever condition you may both have, you're still human and expectancies always set in at some point. So definitely try to talk about this as soon as possible if you feel like it's rly affecting your sex life
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>>83782yes i think quitting porn is the way to go for me. to be honest i don’t mind if he still watches causally but for my own sake i need to quit fully.
i’m not a virgin either, which i have many regrets about and wish i could take what i did back. but i agree that communication is what went wrong for me, i never stood up for myself or communicated what i wanted and it’s something i need to work on. im very anxious when it comes to this stuff and i think i need to attack my self esteem issues too to make my sex life better because im in my head a lot whenever i have sex. and hopefully quitting porn can make me more confident in myself as i can say that it has effected how i see my body which is another sign that i need to quit. it’s been hard to talk about because i never hear about females with porn or masturbation addictions, only males. and even doe i doubt any other girls will comment on this thread im glad that i can get some advice from a demographic that porn mainly effects. i’m only 18 too so i need to get to the bottom of this stuff while im still young and my brain is still malleable so i can train myself out of the addiction
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unironocally let him cage your clitty
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>>83786True it is very weird
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>>83786idk i don’t use ‘cord i’ve been here for maybe a year and a half now, i found the sharty cause i used to have no friends and was really online and absorbed into internet culture, coding, politics, etc and i tried 4cuck once and hated it then found the sharty. i’ve larped as a dude on here for the entirety of my time here except this post because it felt relevant to share that im a girl because i guess things become a little more complicated in this situation
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>>83759 (OP)10 gorillion % serious advice incoming, ready?
>but yeah, i’m a foid or something>i’m moving in with my boyfriend and i have a porn and masturbation addiction and he doesn’t even know that i watch porn.Yep, thats it. Its fucking over. Just ropemaxx already
>i have an incredibly high libido that he can’t catch up with all the time.>i’m scared that im never gonna be able to have an orgasm again because of this whole dilemma but also knowing me my porn addiction will probably take overYou need to quit porn. Since you're a foid (I'll play along sweetie dont worry) I'm going to assume you have 0 willpower whatsoever, which kinda makes it easy.
First you need to get your T levels checked. This is usually it with high-sex drive women. Unfortunately it also increases your odds of ovarian cysts and infertility.
If its not high-T you can to go to a shrink, complain for a couple hours until he gives you zoloft or some other SSRI, which also works.
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>>83792i do have high t for a woman because i have pcos which is probably a contributing factor, i take hormonal birth control and metformin to help with it but it hasn’t slowed my libido or anything. i was assaulted in middle school so maybe it’s got something to do with that as a trauma response idk i see people throwing around the term “hypersexual” but to me that’s not a real diagnosis and just some chinktok buzzword. if it is real it’s probably that but i’m not the type to self diagnose because that’s cringe
i’m just gonna quit porn all together and smoke a cigarette or something when i feel the urge to masturbate. if it gets bad i’ll just have a serious conversation with my boyfriend about it but im a little scared he’s gonna be disgusted with me
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>>83759 (OP)Just go and fuck chad o algo. Women have had this problem all the time, and there has always been a single solution. If he's not enough, fuck someone else.
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>>83792>>83793note : ssris literally make you fucking retarded. And you'll not cum more from sex.
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Really? Most of us here don’t even know what a loving embrace feels like. Let alone have any understanding of female autonomy. I’m a seasoned nofapper, as cringy as it sounds, but I have no idea how female sexuality works. I guess you can read the Easy Peasy Method. I think you’re better off asking your BF if you can use a vibrator or something; then you don’t need to tell him that you can’t get off and risk offending him if he’s sensitive like that.
<reddit spaceEasy Peasy Method:
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>tfw there are foids on MY bald man with glasses website
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>>83816I thought this was my truecel safe space…
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>>83793> i have pcosin that case I've got good news, just get pregnant
pregnancy permanently cures your pcos, my mother had it when she was young but she first birthmaxxed at 18 and OMGSISA and snopes said she's cured
dont do this if the pcos is in your ass or dick though
plus its literally impossible to goon when your baby is kicking (I think, probably, do NOT try ts)
>>83804yeah but it probably fixes the gooning addiction though
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>>83820birthmaxxing also curbs the test somehow but do not quote me on that because I still need experts to tell me EXACTLY what to think
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you literally said your boyfriend doesn't do anything extra. Tell him youd enjoy sex more if he does the stuff you want him to, and he will probably agree. If he goons to porn he might be 'tarded enough to think that the reactions women make to the tiniest of bibisi entering are real. Ask him to do it in whatever way you want, how tf is a man going to know what a woman wants sexually.
Possibly bait o algo
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>>83822It is bait. It still baited me albiet
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>>83803i don’t want to fuck anyone else i love him so much. and look, i shouldn’t be focusing on the sex he does so much for me in life that i shouldn’t be putting this issue on the back burner
>>83820uhhh i don’t wanna have a baby rn cause im 18 and that would be selfish im not ready to support a child. plus my type of pcos has higher infertility rates, there are different types. plus i’m scared cause all the women in my family have had very dangerous pregnancies
>>83822yes i’m planning to have this conversation with him soon
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i remember when bait was good
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>>83830>cause im 18 and that would be selfish im not ready to support a childidk where people got this from, there's no 'getting ready' to have a child, you'll end up being a hysteric helicopter parent and thats not good either
most parents tend to figure it out as they go along, no amount of jew wipes, cribs, little jew toy playthings for your little CHOPPED dick goyim boy will make you a better mom than hoodrat Shaniqua Mbongo who got RAN THROUGH by 30 other niggers and she dunno who her babee daddy izzz, sheeeeeeeeeeeeeet
> plus i’m scared cause all the women in my family have had very dangerous pregnancies thats not necessarily the pcos though, are xey omgsisa BBW's by any chance?
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>>83836Tsmt. Please, whoever’s reading this, never become a helicopter parent. Unless you want your kids to end up like me.
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GTFO femoid
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>>83810kill yourself big nigger lips spammer
>>83842sage it retard
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>>83836bruh i have no money to care for a child and nor do i really even want one tbh. i have other things going for me in life and i don’t need a kid to fulfill it and again im scared ill die during birth. and no none of the women in my family with kids are fat or obese they’re just average sized
>>83837i don’t dissociate during sex i’m very vocal and he wants me to get on top most times so i dont have time to just lay there nigga my legs are now strong af
>>83838i don’t want kids until im in my 30s i have like 6k saved up thats not enough to support a child, especially when i work a lot, plus i dont think our new roommates would appreciate a child in the house geg
>>83839trvke my neighbour is a helicopter parent and his kid looks like the souls been sucked out of him. he’s 14 and not even allowed to go to a birthday party alone or walk down the street to a friends house
>>83845>>83848dont worry or feel sad, shit will probably hit the fan for us at some point. moving out at 18 and 19 while only dating for 6 months is probably a recipe for disaster especially when you’re a sperg prone to meltdowns i’ll probably put him off me by accident cause of this cause he still thinks autism is funny and a meme when i struggle
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If there wasn't any bait there wouldn't be a shardee…
>>83852my mom had -20k when she got me and my siblings, now she's +5k
>cortisol spaceI HATE these open-source trannies. I THOUGHT I was going to make a silly little edit of a png… WRONG!
no you cant just… edit? a png sweetie, you need to use an SNCA PLUGIN FOR MUH HECKIN' GRADIENTS AND GUESS WHAT? NOW GIMP CANT OPEN A PNG BECAUSE THIS FUCKING TROONSLOP PLUGIN YOU DIDNT ASK FOR, YOU DIDNT CHOOSE, CANNOT ESTIMATE THE CANVAS SIZE OF YOU PNG
KILL GIMPTRANNIES, BEHEAD GIMPTRANNIES, ROUNDHOUSE-KICK A GIMPTRANNY INTO THE CONCRETE
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tell him to fuck you harder and longer while you quit porn at the same time
most relationships fail because of retards like you two who are unable to communicate
simple as
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>>83856gimp lost anyway
medibang and firealpca vvon
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>>83852Once again this is the first guy who seriously replied. Why the hell are you moving out, AT EIGHTEEN, AFTER DATING SOMEONE FOR SIX MONTHS. This is so retarded to me I genuinely don't understand. I already know you are American just from this statement because no other people on earth do this. Idk what's up with Americans and moving out the second they're 18. I sort of lived with a situationship of mine for about a week or so, just for funsies because she was visiting and I stayed at her airbnb, and I cannot imagine fully moving away from my parents house at this young of an age (even tho she also fully moved away at 18… americans). I knew her for 3 months and it seemed WAYWAYWAYWAY too early for me to ever even entertain the idea of like moving away forever. I doubt 6 months is much better than that.
On another note I see why this website has the retarded reputation it has, because why are there like 3 r9k threads sperging that a person of the opposite sex exists, sub30 iq behaviour and that is why you will die virgins inshallah
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>>83863>On another note I see why this website has the retarded reputation it has, because why are there like 3 r9k threads sperging that a person of the opposite sex existsI know, right? There should really be way more people telling this bitch to kill herself.
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>>83863tbf seppo parents are usually retarded so it makes sense why someone wouldn't want to live with them and move out ASAP
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>>83883to be specific you should try the prone bone method with the pillow in the specific position, also look into CAT (coital alignment techniques), maybe even some toys (clit suckers that work during PIV), and tell us how it goes
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>>83863i’m not american, we moved in because we both lived in really inconvenient spots for our jobs and university. i live in a small house that’s going to be demolished soon and my bfs house is very small with a lot of siblings so he can never get privacy or a quiet place to study. the place has amazing rent for what we’re getting. a masssive room with an ensuite, amazing location, friendly and respectful roommates. he was over at my house 4-5 nights a week anyway. i’ve also known my bf for 6 years before we dated too.
yeah and that’s why i larp as a fucking man on every post or thread i contribute to.
>>83883>>83885thanks xister, i’ll have a read. i have a lot of sex toys but i feel embarrassed asking him to use them on me because i don’t want him to feel like he’s not good enough. because he is, it feels great, i just can’t finish without clot stimulation
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go away foid
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stay here beautiful SISSA
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Baited everyone
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>>83973Xhe's probably not 9 years old so you might not be interested mr muzziepedo
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>>84007Found the guy from a country where the age of consent is below a double digit number
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>>84011Marge it's 14 here
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>>84013Nigga that’s worst
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>>84013that does not make it sound better