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I wanna ask you guys some advice, or really I just want to talk about this and get some opinions, there's this girl in my 3rd block class in school (accounting) and I suppose you could say I have a bit of a crush on her, the thing is I haven't even talked to her, she sits in the row behind me pretty close to me and it feels like shes all I can think about every time I see her, she seems nice but shes really quiet and doesn't talk to anyone, we have the same lunch period and she always sits completely alone as do I so I was thinking I could try talking to her there by asking if I could sit with her but I'm very worried she'll find me weird or annoying, I'm also a bit worried she might be a mega toxic liberal o algo since she has bright blue hair and a bunch of piercings but its not my biggest worry, i couldn't even really tell you what I like about her she just seems so perfect, shes kind of short but not super short, a little bit chubby, she's probably around my age but I'm pretty sure shes a little older, and she always has this look on her face that I just love, I don't stare or anything like a retarded gigasperg but I always find myself looking at her at lunch evendoe she never notices me, I'm just worried she'll think I'm boring or weird since I don't really stand out at all, I'm tall but I don't do any sports or anything so I really am just a boring person I guess, I don't know I just want your guys' opinions or advice about this, thanks for reading
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I don't actually know her name either but I think I once heard the teacher call it and it was a nice name, she might've been talking about another girl albeit
>inb4 fakecel faggot
I've never had a girlfriend or anything but I'm not a total truecel since girls do sometimes talk to me for answers on assignments or to ask me how tall I am
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I guess I should give a description of myself so you guys can have a better picture, I'm very tall, white, I dress basically but not like a retarded sperg wearing cargo shorts and video game shirts, and I'm somewhat ugly, I'm not gonna post any pics though, I don't wanna get datamined o algo
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im also gonna quit gooning so i can talk to people better especially for talking to her, don't flood the thread with tips to quit gooning or reccomendations for the easy peasy method cause i've heard it all i just put off quitting because im a dumbass, for whatever reason i'm also insanely attracted to this girl sexually, her shirt came up a little and i saw her stomach and hips and got a boner for like 10 minutes, it's not the only reason i like her albeit, idk though i need to quit gooning
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>>62221 (OP)All of you guys who are in love with quiet alone girls, you have the perfect opportunity to start talking to them. watch some videos on good conversation starters and dont try to push for a relationship right away, get to know her first. The longer you spend doing nothing, the more potential there is for someone with bad intentions to swoop in and take your opportunity.
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>>62237I know I should just talk to her already but I'm so nervous that I'll say something stupid or creep her out, I wanna be able to make friends with her before I push for anything else but I'm terrified of making a bad impression, I've never really even been able to make friends with girls even if I don't like them so I don't know how it's gonna be different this time but I still need to try talking to her, if I don't I feel like I'll regret it for a really really long time
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congrats anon, that's a /mlp/ larper
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>>62248nooooo shes a regular girl
>>62269I know how it sounds ok but shes not like that I think
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its better to be a loner
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Why do you care if some loner weirdo thinks you're weird? I suppose she doesn't have many friends so the worst can happen is you losing your chance for some blue haired chick. If she accepts, you win. If she rejects, you still win because you won't be spending time obsessed with a girl that won't like you.
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If people aren't repulsed by you immediately you already have a foot in the door.
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i decided to talk to her at lunch and it went quite well, she's very friendly and i really like talking to her, she seemed to enjoy talking to me too and we walked back to class together, as it turns out she's autistic just like me, we talked more in class too but i forgot to ask if she had snapchat or anything, I'm really glad i got over my anxiousness and just talked to her because it went really well and i'm glad we're atleast friends, also i never noticed how short she is geg she's 5'2 shes literally eye level with the bottom of my chest i really like being around her
>>62274why doe
>>62280you're right I guess, I never really thought about it like that but I don't have to worry about that
>>62283I guess so
>>62293sorry, I never really did anything to make myself taller I just have really tall genes
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>>62301why do you apologise for your height? Be glad you are tall and lucky. Good luck with the girl, just be calm and don't apologise for anything.
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give up. Its always been over.
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>>62303>don't apologize for anythingI know people find it annoying but I'm really apologetic, I don't really know how to not be
>>62306I don't wanna give up doe I really really like this girl
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>>62301Keep talking with her and hang out with her outside of school
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>>62301that sounds promising. good luck, you've got this
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we talked more today, we were on the subject of politics and she told me she absolutely hates trump and isn't a super political person but shes more left leaning, I was kind of worried about this but she doesn't really seem to mind that I'm more centrist/right leaning, or atleast that's how I told her I am, in reality I'm very very racist and anti-immigration but she doesn't have to know, I can stop hating the heckin' whxlesome niggers for her, I'm kind of bummed out though because I asked for her Snapchat and she wrote down her username for me but I cant find it, I dont know if she just got it mixed up or gave me the wrong one on purpose but I've tried every spelling and combination and I cant find her which means I have to wait till tuesday to talk to her again, I guess I seem kind of obsessed but shes just so perfect in my eyes, shes so friendly and nice and interesting and I wish I could spend more time with her than just eating lunch and walking back to class together since I can't really talk to her much in class either
>>62312that's the goal but I don't know how to approach the subject well since we only just met
>>62321thanks mister, I'm glad you guys are hopeful for me o algo
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>>62346geg this sounds kind of embarrassing but I really am worried she gave me a fake snap for some reason or another, when I asked her she told me it and I wrote it down and she even corrected the spelling so I know this is what she meant for me to look for but I've tried all the possible alternate spellings and still cant find her account, maybe she has it on private or something but I don't know if that's even a thing on Snapchat, I'll try again later and if I really cant find it I'll just wait until Tuesday and ask her about it and this time I'll write down mine for her since she seems like she enjoys talking to me
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>>62346she gave me her TikTok by mistake I just found her on there o algo
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>>62307Dont apologize not because others may find it annoying but because you ought to be confident yourself.
>>62344>>62364If something similar ever comes up you can check the website
https://www.idcrawl.com/username-searchThat way you can search multiple platforms for the same user. btw if you were to search her name on here and found some other accounts obviously dont tell her geg
Anyways, best of luck with the girl
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>>62368thanks, I might try that website, she still hasn't messaged me back or anything but I did message her pretty late and its still early in the morning so its not that weird, I am kind of worried since her TikTok showed a lot of odd things, she has "they/them/she/her" in her bio and most of her videos are just pictures of her with random songs and the comments are just jeets asking how her day is, I don't understand any of her reposts geg they're all troonslop animation style memes, whenever I'm able to talk to her though I'll ask her about her interests so I can hear them from her and seem interested in a normal way
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>>62370>blue hair and piercings>she has "they/them/she/her" in her biojust let it go bro
>>62364you probably gave her the ick by trying to find her on every single social media
>>62392she probably hasnt seen your message yet
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>>62393I don't care if shes a little bit liberal, shes the friendliest girl I've ever met and I like her a lot
<I didn't look on every social media doe, I just asked for her Snapchat and she accidentally gave me her tiktok
<probably but I'm still worried o algo
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i decided to comment on one of her tiktok vids to see if she'd notice and she did, i got her snapchat finally and she added me back but theres one thing worrying me, she has a few emojis in her bio that i'm not sure if i like the implications of, specifically a gay pride flag, the leaves and smoke emojis, and a mushroom emoji, i'm holding out hope she's just bisexual and likes guys still because if not then i dont know what i'll do, even with all this lgbt liberal shit on her socials she still seems so perfect and friendly and beautiful when i see her and talk to her in real life, i love being around her and some dumbass emojis won't change that
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>>62398What do you like so much about her? What do you see in her?
I can relate to your situation, as my ex-girlfriend was very similar to this girl in terms of interests and how she presents herself. It inevitably didn't work because of our differing views, but this girl is even more radically different from what you're describing. I can't imagine such a relationship working between you two, but I know that feeling, especially when it's all you know or all you can get. It is obviously implied that she's a druggie, and even if she says she's 'not a political person', you can see in her appearance and how she presents both online and in real life that she's been infected by liberalism. I wish you luck and I really hope this works out with some miracle that you can fix her and give her sense, but it's incredibly unlikely.
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>>62398>the leaves and smoke emojis, and a mushroom emojidude she uses drugs, youve fallen for a hippie girl geg
>>62404>i'm holding out hope she's just bisexual and likes guyseven if she is gay and is a huge liberal that doesnt mean those things are permanent. People change, the more she grows to seriously like you the more similar both of you will become.
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>>62404>what do you like so much about her? what do you see in her?she's the friendliest warmest girl i've ever met, she's so easy and nice to talk to, she's never mean to me, it's like I understand everything she says and vice versa, not to mention other than the dyed hair and piercings she's my exact physical type, when I first noticed her in class everyday all I could think about is how pretty and nice she seemed even when she wasn't doing anything, I feel like my heart skips a beat just walking with her
<I really do hope we somehow become more similar but we don't really have any shared interests, our political beliefs are completely different, shes a druggy and I've never done anything more than sniff lighters like a retard, somehow when we actually talk in person it feels so much more comfortable and natural but it cant always be like that, tbh I could've changed some of my politics to be a bit more like her (like hating niggers less or becoming less hardcore capitalist or anti-abortion) but I cant just completely switch up on what I believe for her even if shes perfect in my eyes, also something that makes me really sad is that she clearly doesn't believe in God, also for some reason she posts pictures of her face all the time on snap and chinktok, I guess atleast she's confident but I don't really get it
>>62428>dude she uses drugs, you've fallen for a hippie girl gegI know and I'm really sad about it, I know that we just aren't similar people at all and I don't really blame her or myself, its not my fault that I fell for such a girl and she doesn't owe me anything just because she's nice to me, its not er fault that her drug habits just so happen to conflict with my personal values, she didn't even know my name last week and we're just friends
<hopefully but I have no idea if she even likes guys so there's no way to ever tell if she's interested in me, also when we were texting last night she was being really dry tbh I don't know why
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>>62301>why doeall women do is just annoy and distract. its not worth it
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>>62370nigger shut it down you are dating a proto-tranny dont say we didnt warn you
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>>62432if she is into guys and you manage to get w her, i think your religious & political values still conflict with hers too much to have a good chance at taking things to the next level. you have two options at this point:
1) just give up and try to find a different girl to date. there's a very big chance things will just eventually fall apart because of your conflicting beliefs if you stay honest. you guys just want different things in life, and that's fine.
2) become IRL dexter morgan and live a double life. don't ever bring up politics or religion around her, don't get into serious debates about current events, and if she ever does try and probe into your beliefs, stay as centrist/liberal as possible. (vague shit about supporting gay rights, taxing the rich, social programs, "free palestine" etc etc)
despite what some people on this board would tell you, it's actually very easy not to become a leaking clittycel the second somebody brings up an opinion you disagree with IRL. what you do/say you believe in on the sharty doesn't have to be known to this girl, at least not for a long while.
also, try and check some of her tiktok reposts again. what are they about? what shows/games/internet series are they about? try and find some kind of common ground interest-wise (checking the tags might help you figure it out), or maybe lie and ask "hey i've been meaning to get into X for a while now because it looks cool, what do you like about it?" shit like that will probably help her be less dry over texts and develop you a stronger connection over her interests/hobbies
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>>62438>1 thats not how people work
>2 thats not how people work
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>>62438I know, we're so different and it makes me really sad
<probably the best choice but I've never met a girl that's so easy to talk to that's seemed so perfect, I guess the trade off of trying to be with an autistic girl is that shes gonna be all liberal and lgbt
<I'm pretty good at lying and having fake opinions but I really don't want to, I feel terrible for lying to people like that and I don't think I could keep a relationship like that, I do have experience masking le heckin' autismo though
<I don't really mind at all that she has different opinions from me, I'm worried that she'll hate my beliefs
<most of her reposts were random memes and FNAF shit, I guess I could try seeing what kind of music she likes since I don't think our taste in that is too drastically different
>>62439it is quite easy to just lie and act like a completely different person and have people fall for it but I don't wanna do that, I guess my personality and beliefs are just undesirable o algo
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>>62436she doesn't annoy me though I love talking to her and being around her
>>62437its just basic leftist girl stuff its not that serious
<I forgot to mention, she really likes art, maybe I should learn how to draw better or something to impress her but I'm really bad at it geg
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>>62444its just a few stupid tiktoks its not that big of a deal, you niggers are so closed minded you all just judge off of stupid shit like sure the LGBT and weed stuff is kind of a big deal but who gives a shit if she reposts dumb videos on tiktok
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>>62445you literally said earlier that youre very racist
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>>62446yeah but she doesn't have to know that
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nigga let it go its not going to work she's a leftoid refugee welcomer and your a bald man with glasses website user its not gonna happen
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>>62448we're american so she somewhat agrees with me that illegal immigration is a big problem, she doesn't like ICE but only because of the niggas trying to deport the 'spics that are technically citizens, I'm getting off track though, you're probably right but I just can't help but be completely infatuated with her
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>>62449ok but relationships with conflicting political beliefs usually dont last long, when the conversation about trannies comes in its gonna be awkward
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>>62450yeah I know you're right, tbh I can just lie and seem way more centrist than I am albeit
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>>62443stop basing your existence around impressing women faggot. life is MORE THAN THAT
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>>62445it is a big deal, dont lower yourself to a whore skank. read a book or something nigger die young stop changing women so you can be a 80 year old loser in a toxic relationship who regrets not doing stuff
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chasing*
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>>62453tsmt, also you seem young from the way you write op, so your political views will probably change a lot
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i recommend you ghost her immediately OP, start using the computer less, and most of all start reading more. oh and of course become initiated into a real religion - american protestantism doesnt count
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>>62453I'm not basing my existence around her doe I just want to have something in common with her, is it so bad I like talking to someone????
>>62454shes not a fucking whore you retarded faggot, I don't want to be a lonely loser for my whole fucking life btw
>>62456well yeah I guess but I don't really have many crazy opinions
>>62457why would I just ghost her, she didn't do anything, and I do read occasionally, also religion is retarded I just read my Bible o algo its better than following man-made traditions
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>>62486thanks sir, I'm glad I was able to become friends with her atleast so far, she really is super friendly to me and I don't quite know why, I'll wait a while and see if she drops any signs or anything before I ask her out and I'll definitely try to get her to understand some of my perspectives politically and especially see if I can get her interested in Christianity, she says she's bisexual which isn't the greatest sign but at least she likes guys
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>>62474trust me its not worth it
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dont have relationships dont have kids the world will only get worse
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isolate yourself
before you have commitments
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>>62492what's not worth it? I'm not going to be alone my whole life because some faggot on the soyshit.tranny told me I should.
>>62494I'm not gonna die without having kids nigger, infact I plan on having all my kids before the mother is 28, I don't want to risk having retarded kids
>>62495I'm already so fucking isolated most of my friends could care less if I never reached out and I've never loved a girl this much in my whole life
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>>62491Are you a Christian? I think getting her at least interested in Christianity is a good goal at this point. It gives the two of you something good and wholesome to bond over, and even if things don't work out romantically, the heavens rejoice at even a single soul converted.
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>>62505I am, I really want to atleast get her to consider it since she doesn't believe in anything but I dont want to be too pushy
>>62506I'll try sir
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>>>62505
>she doesn't believe in anything but I dont want to be too pushy
yes, you shouldnt try bringing her into religion until your already dating, as of now feel free to mention it if the topic naturally arises. people can only come to religion on their own accord, if they feel their being led to think a certain way, they will rebel.
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>>62514true, I havent told her what I believe really but I have the cross emoji in my Snapchat name so I'm sure she can use her inference skills o algo
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testtetsyststgdhd
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>>>62514
>true, I havent told her what I believe really but I have the cross emoji in my Snapchat name so I'm sure she can use her inference skills o algo
As far as my attention span has allowed me to read these niggers haven't ever mentioned the fact that chicks love to have male friends in order to string them along for attention. Her being a libtard nigger faggot or any other bs is of no consequence. Your biggest concern is this. Women subconsiously know that men are attracted to them, almost every single relationship between an (of age) man and woman is underlined with sexual intent. The chick already knows at least on a subconsious level you like her. Don't waste too much time on her or too much time thinking of her, because it might not work out. I wouldn't spend more than two months in contact with her before making your intentions clear or making some kind of move. Even if she denies you it won't be akward for long if you communicate that you understand and wish to part amicably/stay friends. If your hoping on tips on how to get her to like you the only real thing I can say is be yourself (not your edgy /pol/ self ofc) and if you really have no personality outside of that shit get a fucking hobby o algo. Don't be afraid to invite her to some shit too, chicks love fun if you know your gonna have fun doing something with her invite her to it. If she outright rejects you or isnt showing interest go try and meet other chicks you have to learn that you are worth something and your time is a privelege to women, dont belittle yourself by giving her more attention than she is bothering to give you. Bottom line is dont be a fucking pussy and try to actually pursue her and match her energy/dont be desperate.
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Lil bros first oneitis
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>>62520I suppose they haven't, I am a bit worried about her not really being interested in me at all but idk, she seems to enjoy our time together walking to/from lunch and leaving class and stuff, I'd like to spend less time thinking about her but I spend nearly all day and night with her on my mind, and I still don't even text her since I have no idea what to talk about if I cant see her face to face which is a bit of a problem, as i've said a thrembillion times she's a very friendly person and easy to talk to but when I'm texting her she seems really bored/dry and I'm not sure why, maybe I just caught her at a bad time or something
>>62521I've had girls I obsess over before but it was always because I thought they were hot, not a good person like this one, plus they all thought I was ugly and weird and didn't like talking to me so I got over it really fast
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>>>62520 (You)
>I suppose they haven't, I am a bit worried about her not really being interested in me at all but idk, she seems to enjoy our time together walking to/from lunch and leaving class and stuff, I'd like to spend less time thinking about her but I spend nearly all day and night with her on my mind, and I still don't even text her since I have no idea what to talk about if I cant see her face to face which is a bit of a problem, as i've said a thrembillion times she's a very friendly person and easy to talk to but when I'm texting her she seems really bored/dry and I'm not sure why, maybe I just caught her at a bad time or something
could be dry in texting because
1. she doesnt have many bluds in school
2. she texts other chicks/niggas
3. she just doesnt know how to text dudes or prefers in person communication
4. the ice hasnt been broken in ur texting convos
If I had to say number 3 or 4 is probably the reason why shes dry over text.
If you don't wanna think abt her 24/7 try and meet some other girls and most importantly remember not to revolve your life or most of your free time on chicks/thinking about chicks. Thats extremely feminine and chicks will prob just end up using u for attention & validation.
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>>62551>she texts other chicks/niggaspossibly, for some reason her account has a ton of followers, like 2000, but her snapscore is only 20k
>she just doesnt know how to text dudes or prefers in person communication>the ice hasnt been broken in ur texting convosthese two are what I think too since she seems interested in talking to me in person but when I was texting her earlier she seemed really disinterested idk
>Thats extremely feminine and chicks will prob just end up using u for attention & validation.that's what I'm scared of since almost every girl I meet that wants to talk to me just ends up doing this, I don't wanna be so obsessed with her but I don't want her to feel ignored or anything either since girls will never text you first
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>>62500you will never be a normie
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>>62559nigger why are you so pessimistic? just because I'm autistic doesn't mean I'm always gonna be a lonely nigger like you
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>>62562i am not pessimistic
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probably happier than 99% of people on this board
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>>62563you are, you keep telling me I'll never succeed and that this girl isn't worth anything and that the world will only get worse and that you should never try to do anything involving women all you do is whine
>>62565probably not, there's definitely people less happy than you but there's a lot more happier too
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>>62566i am not, i just acknowledge the reality of life is pessimistic. however, an individual can escape it. (accelerate their inner iron age). and for your second point, i would beg to differ, i come on here about once a day out of habit for the hour or so i use the computer, most of the day i meditate and read.
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true emotion maturity - not saying i have this, comes from realizing all your possibilities comes from yourself and are their since your birth. i am sure it is saint paul who writes to the Corinthians that only a man who can not become truly enlightened should have a wife
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let me find it
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1 Corinthians 7
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>>62567just because life is pessimistic in nature doesn't mean you have to be lonely the whole time, this logic is stupid
>>62568well I probably wont reach true enlightenment so why shouldn't I spend time talking to someone I like
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>>62572>just because life is pessimistic in nature doesn't mean you have to be lonely the whole time, this logic is stupidwell of course not, but it is better to be. are not the majority of people insufferable? i strongly doubt the atheist leftist lgbtq foid you are wasting your time trying to date is any better.
<>well I probably wont reach true enlightenment so why shouldn't I spend time talking to someone I likenever know until you try
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but maybe i was harsh OP, if you feel it is necessary try, go with your heart at the end of the day
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>>62573>are not the majority of people insufferable?not really, I don't find any of my friends or this girl insufferable, I'm bad at talking to people but I still enjoy socializing with people I know more than being alone, its like liking a game that you're not good at
>>62574>go with your heart at the end of the dayI really do want to be with this girl but the logical part of my brain is telling me she wouldn't like me because we're too different, I don't have any problems with most of her opinions I'm just worried she wont feel the same
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I talked to her a bit more last night, she messaged me to tell me she wouldn't be at school today since shes sick and we talked about that for a little bit but I actually had to go to sleep for school since I have to get up early as fuck so I said goodnight to her and told her I hope she feels better in the morning
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she keeps leaving me on delivered for over an hour while being online the whole time and I don't know why, I can keep her interested in a conversation for the most part but once it ends she wont open my snaps or messages for hours, atleast I'll get to see her at school tomorrow
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>>62486my gf of 4 years is still a libtard.
I managed to hide my powerlevel for a long time, but she knows since 2 years that I'm a chud. Guess she figures that it's too late to break up over it by now, but I know she considered it.
We mostly avoid politics now, but I can see how it pains her when she wants to share the current thing with me but stops herself in the last moment because she knows I'll just disagree
OP, also keep in mind the implications for having kids. She will troon your sons the instant one of them doesn't violently reject the dolls she will try to make him play with. They'll watch the wokeslop movies and your daughters will be taught that promiscuity is fine and that they would make her proud for bringing back a BIPOC boyfriend.
Women also are better at socializing, so prepare to have a permanent libtard friend-circle if you get serious with her.
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>>62653interesting, I guess atleast you know she really loves you even if you guys don't agree on political things
<I am quite worried about that, my biggest fear is dying without kids and I really don't want them raised wrong or anything, the girl I like has had 4 exes btw but she's not a slut or anything, idk atleast we're both white, thanks for the advice, also both my parents are really liberal and raised me believing in a lot of libtarded shit but I turned out differently so I think it'll be fine if I ever get to that point
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>>62656yeah, it's definitely possible to make it work, and she'll probably become less extreme with age (and the influence of you), but the extend is hard to predict.
Some more complications to keep in mind:
She will probably not take your last name. (it would be a humiliation for her in front of her lib social circle)
If you are a bit neurotic or a "grass is greener" type of guy, you might forever wonder what a chuddy wife would be like if you end up making the vows to her.
If you ever want to become politicially active, she will use her full arsenal of foid tactics to dissuade you.
You want to find out as early as possible how she reacts to you setting boundaries that clash with her politics (because leftists like to call these types of boundaries "controlling"). I.e. how much time can she spend with guy friends? How revealingly can she dress?
The more pragmatic decisions like choosing a good school, you owning guns, moving away from BIPOCs or investing in whatever you like (including immoral companies) should not be a problem, leftists are a bit hypocritical in these areas and she should easily defer to you on these.
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>>62653No offense but if you have been dating for 4 years and is still libtarded she probably doesn't love you very much. Either that or her hormones are out of whack.
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>>62653>Women also are better at socializing, so prepare to have a permanent libtard friend-circle if you get serious with her.Tsmt. When I was dating my ex I hated being around all of her lgbt and actual tranny friends. So beware of this OP, this will become the people you will have to be around. One time I had to go into my workplace with my ex and one of her tranny friends and I felt like all of my coworker's eyes were on me. It's humiliating and even in private it just wasn't company I enjoyed at all, although I always preferred being alone with her regardless.
>62670My ex had 7 exes before me geg, although she was still a virgin and that's what mattered to me since I know realistically I can't do much better than this.
That's another thing OP. I really hope this girl is a virgin, otherwise you should drop her. I know it will probably be a bit before you know since usually it's pretty weird to ask if someone has had sex before, let alone their bodycount when you've just met them. Although I just directly asked my ex on our second date "Are you a virgin?" like a retard and she had no problem with it and told me she was. Although I think that's just a case of being able to get away with retarded shit because of the woman being extremely attracted to the guy, like how they'll laugh at literally any joke and find anything you do endearing. Maybe you could ask her friends about her past experiences with guys? Or just let your friendship with her naturally progress and see if you can pry that information out of her to know if she's used up or not.
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>>62662I am a bit worried about having to hang out with other liberal girls to be around her but as of now I'm only around her in a class she has no friends in other than me, we were walking back to class on Friday doe and she introduced me to this random girl she was friends with, it was this really short Mexican girl that looked pretty normal i think, shes also said before that she doesn't have problems being friends with people who have different political beliefs from her as long as they don't specifically support trump
<I really hope shes not too anti-gun because I love guns so fucking much its crazy I wouldn't wanna settle down with a girl that wants no guns in the house
>>62670well I don't know if shes ever had sex also I'm pretty sure most of them were girls
>>62671>My ex had 7 exes before me geg, although she was still a virgin kind of ridiculous, I suppose that is a possibility, one of my friends has had like 10 girlfriends in the past 3 years and he's still a virgin since he's waiting for marriage
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>>62683>most of them were girlsThat makes it even worse
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>>62656>4 exs>not a slutwhatever makes you happy anon
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>4 exes
>most of them were girls
OPcacas…
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>>62715that's such a shame holy shit
i can relate to op because a cute quiet girl would be my type too but that sounds way too bad
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>>62698does it? I would think that atleast that means she isn't just dating for sex
>>62701shes literally not doe
>>62708is that really worse than all guys?
>>62715you'd have to talk to her to understand, she's such a friendly/warm person, I was sad that she wasn't at school again but I sat with another girl at lunch instead and became friends with her and she's also really friendly and seems a lot more interested in talking to me, she even asked me for my snap and called me when I got home
>>62716I don't really have a type, I just really like her
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>>62732I think it's better most of her exes were girls, as it means she is more likely a virgin and has less experience with guys. I wouldn't really give a shit if a girl I dated had "sex" with another girl as long as there wasn't a dick involved and she gets her act together. I think they're saying it's worse doe because it shows she's indoctrinated into fag culture and is likely to be a sexual deviant.
Describe the other girl you met. Do you like her as much as the libtard girl? What is she like?
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>>62734that's what I thought but I suppose the other perspective makes sense
<the other girl is nice, she seemed really interested in talking to me and wanted to sit next to me at lunch and stuff and when lunch was over I offered to carry her bag and help her find her class since it was her first day at the school, shes a few months younger than me and actually looks pretty similar to the one this thread is about, they're both short and a little chubby, I enjoyed talking to her and we talked a lot on Snapchat while I was on the bus and stuff and I helped with some of her school work over a call, somehow though I actually don't feel super obsessed with this one, I also talked to the first girl on Snapchat more today but she kind of just texted me about random shit and called me a Twink and stuff idk it was weird, tbh with this new girl it feels like she actually kind of likes me or something, I told her I'd eat lunch with her again tomorrow but the other one will be there too so I guess I can introduce them
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>>62737I feel like if you introduce them to each other then they will get jealous of each other and be upset if they really do have romantic feelings for you. You said the girl you just met seems to genuinely really like you, so if you introduce her to another female friend of yours then in her mind she won't feel special and will know you give that same attention to another girl. I know you're obsessed with the first girl, but it isn't smart to act on your affection and especially not lust. You barely know her and you know logically that there are lots of problems that you aren't equipped to fix. The second girl is probably safer, but you should learn more about her. Just know that you'll likely have to make a choice on which you want to pursue and spend more of your time with, as you probably can't just talk to both and keep the other on the backburner. They will know and as I said, I think in their mind they will be upset that they're not exclusive to receiving that attention from you, because women love being chased.
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>>62739that's what I'm a bit worried about, tbh though I guess I have been getting a little less obsessive about the first girl, mostly because I saw her post some weird misandrist stuff and I guess its finally hitting me that she probably doesn't like me much especially with how she leaves me on delivered all the time and seems dry talking to me all the time, she also posts pictures of herself all the time everyday which bothers me a little, I still like her a lot but I'm pretty sure she doesn't/wont feel anything much for me, I'll probably end up talking to the second girl a lot more since she texts me first and seems to like talking to me more, it is a confusing situation though, this is literally my first time having any female friends in years and its all so complicated
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>>62732Lesbian/bisexual girls are always severely mentally ill. Men are sometimes just born homos without having been molested by anyone. But for women it doesn't work like that, if she likes girls she's unwell and probably has extreme childhood trauma. Don't even think about dating her nigga, she will ruin your life.
Not to mention that she has blue hair and piercing, these signs should've warded you off before you even talked to her. In the wise words of a poster above me,
ABORT MISSION NIGGA.
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>>62754because theyre desperate and would rather get the bottom of the barrel than improve themselves and find a better woman.
>b-but i look like shit!!!That's not an excuse for like 90% of the people who say that. Workout, even if its just one or two days a week, get a better diet (for example just eat less sweet things and fast food), experiment with different hairstyles and most importantly, learn how to dress.
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>>62754Hear this nigga, op
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I'll never doubt you guys again. you were all right. today I was eating lunch with her (the first girl with the blue hair) and asked her why she posts revealing pictures of herself on Snapchat so much and she flat out told me "its practice for when I sell nudes online after high school" I thought she was joking but I asked more about it and shes dead serious, she says there's no good jobs for her and that she needs money for college so this is her "only option", I tried telling her why that's not a good idea but she did not care, I think I'm finally over this dumbass crush because shes not the person I thought she was and we're too different of people, I'm not gonna completely cut her off but I atleast have the self respect to completely stop pursuing her, I'm not gonna make any sort of moves on her ever and I'll try not to think of her too much, I'm sorry for calling you guys liars because you were all right she really is a whore I should've seen the signs.
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on a more positive note I talked to that other girl that I met yesterday a ton last night and she seems to really trust me and I like talking to her too, thing is she looks really similar to the first girl too but her hair isn't currently dyed, shes really nice and as far as I can tell shes (actually) not a super political person and shes not LGBTQ or anything like that, I don't have the same blind oneitis infatuation with her but that's probably for the better since I can actually see things clearly when talking to her
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>>62753well I'm giving up on this one shes a whore
>>62754I didn't know she was like this at first I just have a weird type
>>62774my diet is bad but not in the way that I'm a fatass, I'm pretty skinny and hardly ever eat
>>62777I'm not a faggot
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>>62786Anon's first good decision in his life
Now tell us about the other girl
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>>62786I'm glad it's become clear to you. These kinds of girls are not good for you and they will always choose the institutions that preach for their "freedom" and give them privileges over common sense. God has blessed you with clarity, for unlike many other men who fixate on women they knew years ago, you were given clarity and you found another woman to ease the pain of losing what you thought was valuable before. Learn more about her and tell us the most important details like her beliefs and personality. You'll likely still have some troubles though, as she's probably a normie and you're a le heckin' bigoted xenophobic nazi MAGA groyper.
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>>62797the other girl is nice from what I can tell, shes a bit younger than me but same grade, unfortunately we don't have any classes together but we have the same lunch period, shes really nice and honest and seems really interested in talking to me but today she seems pretty sad which makes me sad, shes not super liberal or bisexual or anything but she is mentally ill, she has body dysmorphia because shes a little chubby and she used to cut herself, her family life is also not very good but all that means is that she just has a little trouble to work through which I don't mind, we talked a ton last night and she told me a lot of personal things which I think means she trusts me somewhat
>>62798I guess it's good I got the experience but I'm still kind of upset that this girl I thought was so perfect turned out to be a total whore
>>62800I've never had anyone tell me they like me like this at all so I guess I can relate
>>62803yeah, it still makes me sad though how she doesn't care that shes just throwing away her life and selling herself just because shes lazy and doesn't want to work a normal job, she's decided her literal ONLY options are to do the exact job she wants (graphic design), become an internet whore, or kill herself, that's what she told me atleast. the new girl is nice and I dont think shes a total normie, she doesn't care when I say retard atleast, also tbh I can stop being racist for someone else I'm not a total neonazi niggerfaggot I just don't like niggers that much
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>>62815what do you mean? I guess the blue haired one was bad intuition but what's wrong with the new girl
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>>62786>selling nudes onlineLol imagine ruining your life and your reputation and getting like 30 dollars a month in exchange. Someone needs to tell all those wannabe OF girls that behind every single successful OF account there is a "talent" agency that does her shoots and does all the promotion.
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>>62847it is really stupid and I tried to understand her logic behind it but apparently she doesn't care about her reputation at all and if it doesn't work she'll just kill herself, really weird I hope she can see the issue with it and not do it but she isn't my responsibility, I already tried to tell her how that's a horrible idea, she also said she might just date a rich guy and sell feet pics on feetfinder (what the fuck is this logic?) and use them to go to college
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>>62786told you so.
pahahaha let that be a lesson lil chuddie and sorry for grievances.
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>>62855maybe if you listened to us calling her a whore in this thread for like a week straight you wouldn't of had to go through that
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>>62866Never said anything about being a foid doe
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>>62786Well shit, things seem to be working out for you chud. Talking with the first girl was still a beneficial experience to have, hopefully things go smoother with the new girl.
>>62806>she is mentally illI cant make any promises, but from dating different types of mentally ill women this girl doesnt sound that 'problematic' to me. Who knows, if you support her(not 'fix', but help find personal growth) she will probably be more excepting of your chuddier views that most women wouldnt.
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>>62876I don't think shes problematic at all but shes pretty moody and has really bad depression and somewhat-bad schizophrenia which makes me really sad because I just want her to be happy, she seems happy whenever we call though which we've done every day so far
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>>>62876
>I don't think shes problematic at all but shes pretty moody and has really bad depression and somewhat-bad schizophrenia which makes me really sad because I just want her to be happy, she seems happy whenever we call though which we've done every day so far
In another 2 days there will be a third girl of which he will also defend as if his life depends on it and then something will happen and the cycle will repeat.
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>>62819>she used to cut herselfone the biggest red flags I can think of
>chubbyshe'll be fat in 5 years
>moodythis will get much worse too once she stops putting up her best side, and you'll also experience much more intensely because your ability to ignore it vanishes once you become familiar
>depressionyou will be afraid to leave her lest she kys
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last night was a lot. I was talking on the phone to that girl for most of the day, just about random stuff but also some personal stuff, she was just scrolling on some social media or something and suddenly started crying and when I asked her what was wrong she said it was nothing and hung up, 30 minutes later while I was worrying my head off she started texting me some random shit about being sorry and feeling so ugly and she called me so I picked up and she was so fucking high out of her mind on weed she was talking like a retard and forgetting half the things she said, I ended up talking to her for an hour trying to get her to calm down and go to sleep but it was a strange experience, I know you guys will say this a red flag and to be honest it is but its not something I wanna just abandon her for, shes so vulnerable yet so trusting of me, I cant just ruin that because she has a lot of problems, I'm also really mad at her dad, I want that bastard to go to jail, shes not even 18 but he's the one supplying her with cigarettes and weed and all that shit, I just wanna beat the shit out of him I cant believe he'd just enable his own daughter's addictions like that, not to mention whenever she goes out she just hangs out with drug dealers and smokes with her friend all the time, I'm so worried about her, whenever she texts me that shes up I'll see if I can call her and make sure shes alright, I just don't want her to get hurt shes such an amazing girl she doesn't deserve any of this
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>>62913she probably still does, I really want her to stop
<she has an eating disorder, I tried telling her some better ways to lose weight though
<I've already heard her crying about feeling ugly and all that jazz I'm sure shes not constantly showing her best side
<only trvthnvke but that's ok, I'll just stay with her forever until shes better and even after that
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>>62949I'm sorry OP, but this one is a lost cause as well. Still stick around to help her if she needs it, but I wouldn't pursue anything further. And pray for her, of course.
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>>62949dude, have you realised yet. my advice was correct. you do not want to be around modern women. they will drive you CRAZY. if you want to be around women for some reason ask to help out around care homes or something like that. forget about kids, forget about relationships. modern women are NOT WORTH IT
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>>62913cutting themself is a double edged sword because its also really hot when women do it
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>>62963I can't just let her get hurt and do nothing, I'm not gonna leave her alone when she obviously needs to talk to someone, shes an amazing person and she deserves better and that's what I'm gonna do for her
>>62970I know shes crazy but its ok and its not her fault, she doesn't drive me crazy I just care about her and I'd appreciate it if you'd stop insinuating that having empathy for someone is a bad thing, I'm not gonna abandon any chance of connection because some retarded faggot with no empathy told me to.
>>62971why the fuck should I be listening to you when you obviously see women as nagging sex objects that should be hurt instead of people?
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>>63001that's really not what we're talking about here, did you reply to the wrong thread?
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>>63004i know its just that a few people mentioned it (unless im schizo because it took like 45 minutes to read the whole thing)
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>>63007I guess some people mentioned it early in the thread but really I'm not super worried about how I look in this situation, I'm worried about this girl, also on a side note shes high as fuck right now, shes with her creep ass cousin that kissed her and hit on her when she was 12 and he was 30 and I want her to stay away from him but shes insisting she'll be fine, she told me she loved me earlier but I don't know if she meant it
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>>63008yea i get that just mentioning it yknow
i guess just ask her if shes okay/safe rn
also if i were you i would absolutely not take it as her meaning it
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>>63009right now shes alone listening to music, she said she'd call me back soon so that's good
<I don't think that she meant it, I just said it back because I didn't know if she was upset or something but I'm not gonna bring it up
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>>63020op can you promise to help her not go completely insane
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>>63029ok that was retarded wording i mean like help her not want to kill herself
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>>63020This second girl also reminds me of my ex. I do think you should try to help her as a friend out of empathy, but absolutely do not date her. Druggies are seriously terrible and hedonistic at heart and you don't have the means to fix her by yourself.
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OP you gotta find a basic normie girl. this girl is only going to bring u down with her
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>>63041That is basically what I was trying to say
>>63042Normie in the sense that they are psychologically normal and a pleasant person, not normie as in brain-dead tiktok-brainwashed ZOGbot
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>>63029that's the plan
>>63031yeah I got what you meant
>>63041its not her fault though its the people around her if I be just one good person in her life to keep her away from this stuff and help her break the addictions then I will
<every person in her life shes told me about sounds absolutely horrible and I hate all of them, especially her cousin, I want to smash his head in with a sledgehammer but what I wanna do instead is convince the girl that she can speak out about what he did and that she'd be safer with him in prison
>>63042even though she worries me to the worst degree I still love her and without her I'd have basically nothing in my life other than video games
>>63043unless something extreme happens I'm not just gonna give up on her
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>>62993lol nigga stop trying to be a white knight
<probably because i predicted what would happen the first time
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>>63077
how the fuck am I being a white knight? all I'm doing is caring for her, if I was less of a bitch I would've gone to her house and killed her cousin but alas all I can do is talk to her
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>>63080this
>>63081 is meant for this
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>>63065>unless something extreme happens I'm not just gonna give up on her lol you met her like 2 days ago.
before that it was a different girl
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>>63081caring for some random foid who will end up the same no matter what you do
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i tell you with best intentions chud that the best way out of this is just ghost her
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she will add nothing of value to your life. only weigh you down. and vice versa
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i am the only guy in the thread telling you how it is
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>>63083the other girl was a stupid crush, I barely knew her and it only took a few days of talking for me to realize she was a whore, I already know this new girl well and she depends on me a lot
>>63084shes the way she is because the people in her life are terrible, I can help her
>>63085if I were to just ghost her she'd probably kill herself, and she hasn't done anything wrong all shes done is just be a vulnerable person with a lot of problems
>>63086stop projecting your lack of empathy on me retarded 'jeet, close relationships are one of the most valuable things you can have
>>63087you're the only one in the thread that can't comprehend that women aren't completely evil creatures that only manipulate, not to sound like a plebbitor but you need to understand women are humans just like men and infact they are much more emotional and vulnerable
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>>63088what if he's completely right though and something goes totally wrong
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>>63088>the other girl was a stupid crush, I barely knew her and it only took a few days of talking for me to realize she was a whore, I already know this new girl well and she depends on me a lotyou will be saying that about this girl in a week
>shes the way she is because the people in her life are terrible, I can help hernot true. circumstances are only part of a person.
>if I were to just ghost her she'd probably kill herself, and she hasn't done anything wrong all shes done is just be a vulnerable person with a lot of problems well of course that is bad. but you cant be expected to dedicate your life to her because she has problems. if you are so concerned refer her to your school therapist or whatever before you ghost her
>stop projecting your lack of empathy on me retarded 'jeet, close relationships are one of the most valuable things you can haverelationships are for shortsighted people who only care about the temporary
>you're the only one in the thread that can't comprehend that women aren't completely evil creatures that only manipulate, not to sound like a plebbitor but you need to understand women are humans just like men and infact they are much more emotional and vulnerablelol ok man. stay with her for a month and then tell me your opinion on women again
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>>63089almost like that happened with the other girl because it turns out with women you can judge them by their cover
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i dont even hate women i would just rather not waste my time thinking about them/being around them because all they do is annoy and subvert
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>>63089I don't see what could, my biggest concern right now is trying to get her to stay away from her cousin because he's a creep and is likely to hurt her, she knows he's dangerous but since he's staying at their house right now and keeps asking to hang out and smoke weed, she always calls me high out of her mind telling me she's sorry and I just stay on the phone with her to keep her occupied
>>63090except I didn't meet this one with the intention of dating her, we're only friends right now and shes the one acting more clingy towards me, I love her and want her to be safe because shes been through so much and deserves to be better, not just because she's cute, and shes not a whore, she has problems but she is a virgin
<circumstances are a very important part in shaping people's habits and addictions and she isn't a bad person just sad and confused
<except I'm not dedicating my whole life to her, I have nothing else to do but talk to her because my life is boring and empty, even if I had lots to do I'd still make time for her because I care about her and she feels better when she talks to me
<human beings are made to crave connection and love, its a simple fact, I'd say something about how misanthropic you seem but to be fair I agree the majority of people are terrible
<even if something happened I wouldn't let that shape my opinion on half the entire population. its like saying all men are violent retards because I used to get in fights with niggers a lot.
>>63091nothing "went wrong" with the first girl she just wasn't who I thought she was
>>63092well they make up half the population and you're biologically wired to be attracted to them so good luck with that man
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>I don't see what could, my biggest concern right now is trying to get her to stay away from her cousin because he's a creep and is likely to hurt her, she knows he's dangerous but since he's staying at their house right now and keeps asking to hang out and smoke weed, she always calls me high out of her mind telling me she's sorry and I just stay on the phone with her to keep her occupied
this is literally white knighting geg
>nothing "went wrong" with the first girl she just wasn't who I thought she was
you failed to bang her and form a relationship like you intended
>well they make up half the population and you're biologically wired to be attracted to them so good luck with that man
life isnt all about your penis dude, if you dont masturbate for like a month you lose most urges btw. and why would i want a kid to be born into this cycle of suffering
>except I'm not dedicating my whole life to her, I have nothing else to do but talk to her because my life is boring and empty, even if I had lots to do I'd still make time for her because I care about her and she feels better when she talks to me
<except I'm not dedicating my whole life to her, I have nothing else to do but talk to her because my life is boring and empty
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>>63095yes it is white knighting
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maybe dont accept nigger weed and get high
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>>63094>if you dont masturbate for like a month you lost most urges btw.do you have any quick advice on recovering from a porn addiction? i guess if op isn't taking your advice i'll take some
one reply on this is good enough, since i don't want to be gay and totally derail op's thread
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>>63098find things that are interesting to do, for me reading and stuff like that, so that you can sustain your celibacy long term. video games maybe. but i am not sure about their long term helpfulness
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>>63093Tread carefully OP. It is good that you have empathy for her and being anti-natalist like the other guy is retarded, but he has a point. You only met her a few days ago and already you are letting her problems be let unto you, which is going to become taxing, especially with how quickly she unleashed her grievances onto someone she just met. He also made a great point on people not only being their circumstances. Yes, she is a victim to a lot of poor circumstances from what you've described, but you as a person also have to be the one to fix those circumstances yourself or through God. Nobody else can fix another, only try to lead. The idea you seem to have is that if you can lead her to becoming a better person then she can become your perfect a10 blonde aryan trad virgin waifu, but the reality is that a large part of the problems in her life is her own fault due to her weak will. Like the other guy said, why is she accepting the weed in the first place? I see no problem with you being a friend to her, but it can become a problem when she starts to become emotionally taxing and extremely dependent on you, which she already seems to have done. I absolutely see a huge problem with you dating this girl and you'll be better off alone. Even if some of it is circumstantial, the result is the same and there's nothing you can do about it. You can make the same argument for fatherless women; it's just circumstantial and isn't their fault, but regardless, it's telling of lots of detriment in their character. It seems unfair to discriminate against people for their unfortunate circumstances, but that's reality and the world isn't fair. White people being so high trust of unsavory people has only been to their detriment throughout history and especially now.
What would your parents think if you dated a girl like this?
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>>63112I feel like you guys don't understand how addiction works, she didn't accept the niggerweed for fun o algo shes addicted and I wanna help her stop smoking, also not everything she does is related to her upbringing and circumstances but it explains most of the bad stuff, also I don't know if you're forgetting but we're both in high school, its not like shes some 30 year old junkie, and I don't think she's weak willed she just hasn't had a break from the bad people in her life and everyone she knows is an enabler, shes already told me that I've helped her rethink a lot of stuff and stopped her from doing some stuff so I think maybe you guys are wrong that I have no impact talking to her, I can help her help herself, and I don't think I'd be better off without her. I don't find her to be mentally taxing and I feel like maybe I haven't emphasized enough that shes a good person in bad circumstances.
>she can become your perfect a10 blonde aryan trad virgin waifugeg she actually is blonde with blue eyes but she dyes her hair, its brownish-red right now
>what would your parents think if you dated a girl like this?they wouldn't care, I could date a hooker and my libtarded parents would still be glad I'm atleast dating someone. I know what you mean by this but my parents aren't really a good example, my friends might judge me a bit albeit, they already don't like her much from what I've told them but they wouldn't care too much, no one would, I dont think trying to scare me with the thought of dissapointing people by dating her is gonna work, I already dissapoint everyone anyway
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>>63098personally I find it pretty easy not to jerk off if I have something better to do, which I usually don't, but whenever I'm talking with a girl I don't feel like doing it at all for the whole time we're friends
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>>63132>she didn't accept the niggerweed for fun o algoBut why did she accept it in the first place? She could of said no the first time. It shows weak will.
>shes already told me that I've helped her rethink a lot of stuff and stopped her from doing some stuffThese are good signs, but it's not enough. Continue talking to her and see how far you can stretch her willpower before you consider dating her. See how many bad habits she is willing to cut out and to what extent.
>geg she actually is blonde with blue eyesI guess I understand more, it would be hard to not try to go for something greater in this situation. A blonde, blue-eyed virgin you met in highschool is basically perfect.
I still wouldn't date her any time soon. Give yourself time to know her and keep pushing her.
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>>63135>she could've said no the first timeshe was TEN YEARS OLD the first time
>See how many bad habits she is willing to cut out and to what extent.she hasn't completely dropped any bad habits yet but we've only known each other for about 5 days so you cant expect too much, shes been smoking for years so I don't expect her to stop overnight, though I convinced her to toss out some chewing tobacco earlier and to stay away from her cousin when she can, earlier when she was already high she said she was gonna smoke more but I got her not to do that either, and that's not even mentioning the numerous times I've convinced her not to cut herself in these few days, its stressful but it's worth it to know I'm making an impact and helping her just by being around and talking to her. I really care about her and it seems like I'm one of the only people in her life that does.
>A blonde, blue-eyed virgin you met in highschool is basically perfect.kind of a weird thought but that's what my mom was for my dad when they met, me and this girl are closer in age albeit so it might be better
>I still wouldn't date her any time soon. Give yourself time to know her and keep pushing her.I don't plan on dating her yet but all my friends are saying I should and that I'm retarded for thinking she might not like me, my friend with a ton of relationship experience keeps telling me I should ask her out this weekend or the next and I plan on seeing her this weekend but not on a date or anything. I'm just gonna be patient and see how much I can get her to stop doing while just being her friend. I think if I were dating her I could actually get her to stop a lot more of this bad stuff but I don't know.
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>>63136lol dude do yourself a favour and stop the white knight jargon
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OP here, my fucking cookies got reset so I think my ID is different idk, I cant see my (You)s albeit
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about the girl, she recently started making a lot more sexual jokes around and told me shes actually hypersexual cus of some trauma and stuff, it doesn't really bother me but I'm not a very sexual person and I'm really bad at intimacy and stuff so we're a bit opposite in that regard, also she says nigger which is funny
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>>63403chudette o algo
green flag
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I think she might actually like me, she asks me to hug her and pick her up every day and always wants to see me/call me and stuff, she also keeps calling me handsome and stuff so I just return the compliment and call her pretty and she seems to really like it
>>63496I know right? its so cool that I can say nigger around her
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she keeps sending me pics of her hips and thighs and stuff and making a lot of flirty sexual jokes at me and to be honest I have no idea how to respond to most of it but she doesnt seem to mind, I mentioned something about wanting to get some new clothes or something and she asked if she could have any of my clothes I don't wear much and I said I'd give her one of my T-shirts geg, we're gonna see each other outside of school this weekend which should be really nice maybe I'll try making a move instead of being a dumbass, also she seems to be happier than she was a few days ago, for some reason she also told me she was ovulating o algo I don't really know why
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>>63523I'm happy for you 'teen, but still stay cautious. Think about how you should approach her to get her to quit niggerweed. Also
>she says niggerGreen flag. What are her political opinions though? I know you said she isn't political, but I'm curious if you could get an idea of how she sees race or religion if you knew what she thought of immigration from the third world and whatnot.
>she keeps sending me pics of her hips and thighs and stuff and making a lot of flirty sexual jokes at meRed flag, you just met this girl. This in combination with her extreme dependency and trauma dumping is telling of BPD or some other disorder and she likely has a perfect idol of you in her mind, which could lead to a very bad breakup in the future. I would still pursue her doe, just the niggerweed and other stuff needs to go.
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>>63523>telling you that shes ovulatingi think shes telling you that she wants to have sex
>>63524>red flagi agree with this. being hypersexual is a red flag
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>>63531>i think shes telling you that she wants to have sexTSMT. you need to tell her that you want to save and cherish virginity until marriage, or at least i hope you are. even if you aren't you shouldn't continue to break God's covenant knowing it's wrong and especially not take away a young woman's virginity. try to see how she feels about going to church (not a gay protestant church). orthodox or catholic is optimal. but still show affection and assure her that it isn't because you don't like her, as lots of young women, and people in general, are manipulated into believing that sexuality is love.
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>>63532>not take away a young woman's virginity.she apparently has trauma so im guessing she has "experience"
>bring her to churchagreed but thats sorta something you do later down in the relationship (like 1 month maybe). OP should do their research and maybe learn more about Orthodoxy.
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you guys could probably talk about religion and discuss it and maybe plan on going some day.
>what do you think about religion? have you ever believed in God?
<well maybe?
>ive heard about Orthodox Christianity and perhaps maybe we should go check it out some time. they seem to be doing something interesting there.
<sounds like a good plan.
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99% chance shes a bpdemon
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run bro its not worth it
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>>63524thanks, I know the super sexual stuff isn't a good thing and the main thing I'm worried about is that I don't really know how she interacts with other guys since as far as I know I'm her only male friend right now
>>63531well that's kind of what I thought but she told me its why she might seem kind of moody for like a week
>>63532I'm not going to say all this but I agree and I have told her I think its good she hasn't had sex before whenever she brings it up. I'm christian I guess but I'm not really part of any denomination and as far as I know she doesn't really believe all that much but I have heard her suggest she thinks there's a God so who knows.
>but still show affection and assure her that it isn't because you don't like her, as lots of young women, and people in general, are manipulated into believing that sexuality is love.I already do this, I usually don't make any sexual jokes back and when I do it's the same kind of thing i'd say to my friends, I do show her affection albeit, every morning I walk her to class and hug her since she asks me to and last night when I was going to bed I asked i said "I love you" and she said it back
>>63534she has been sexually harassed and assaulted before but never full on raped which is a miracle with how many close calls she had when she was younger, I think the worst that happened is when she was like 12 or 13 she almost got kidnapped by some guy that said he'd give her cigarettes but instead he just groped her chest and she ran away
>agreed but thats sorta something you do later down in the relationship (like 1 month maybe). OP should do their research and maybe learn more about Orthodoxy.I'm interested in orthodoxy but live in bumfuck nowhere America so as far as I know there's no orthodox churches near by, I really wanna get her to believe in God albeit, her political and religious beliefs from what I can tell are really just basic normie stuff (doesn't like Donald trump but doesn't really know why, thinks there's some kind of God but doesn't really believe in anything specific) its not that big of a deal for me albeit
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>>63556>I already do this, I usually don't make any sexual jokes back and when I do it's the same kind of thing i'd say to my friends, I do show her affection albeit, every morning I walk her to class and hug her since she asks me to and last night when I was going to bed I asked i said "I love you" and she said it backnigga this is so corny geg id rather die alone
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>she has been sexually harassed and assaulted before but never full on raped which is a miracle with how many close calls she had when she was younger, I think the worst that happened is when she was like 12 or 13 she almost got kidnapped by some guy that said he'd give her cigarettes but instead he just groped her chest and she ran away
dont worry, she probably just made that up. women do that
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>>63556>well that's kind of what I thought but she told me its why she might seem kind of moody for like a weekmixed signals geg
>she has been sexually harassed and assaulted before but never full on raped which is a miracle with how many close calls she had when she was younger, I think the worst that happened is when she was like 12 or 13 she almost got kidnapped by some guy that said he'd give her cigarettes but instead he just groped her chest and she ran awaydamn. at least shes alright.
>I'm interested in orthodoxy but live in bumfuck nowhere America so as far as I know there's no orthodox churches near bytry checking
https://www.assemblyofbishops.org/directories/parishes/ and see if anything is nearby. a lot of people usually have to take 1-2 hour drives but hopefully the situation gets better in 10-20 years since a lot of people are converting
<glad to hear you are interested btw. i think you would love orthodoxy.
>I really wanna get her to believe in God albeit, her political and religious beliefs from what I can tell are really just basic normie stuff (doesn't like Donald trump but doesn't really know why, thinks there's some kind of God but doesn't really believe in anything specific) its not that big of a deal for me albeiti hope you could at least help her. take care.
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>>63578why are you so retarded
>>63586>mixed signals gegshe has said some things that kind of throw me off like she once said "I love you… like as a friend I mean" but I suppose I haven't really seemed interested enough for her to say anything more, we're already going out somewhere on Saturday and I plan on trying to see if I can make it more of a date or something
>damn. at least shes alright.yeah it sucks but its nothing too bad
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we were on call and I decided to just bite the bullet and tell her I like her and she said she likes me back too and asked how I was so dense to wait this long, only thing is she says she wants to wait a bit and talk more before we say we're dating or anything, not in the "I don't want a relationship right now" kind of way but like she just wants to make sure its not just a crush for either of us, I've only known her for about 8 days so it makes sense, all my friends in school that have seen me with her keep asking me if we're dating and I'm realizing we really do look like a couple
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>>63654>we were on call and I decided to just bite the bullet and tell her I like herGem
>only thing is she says she wants to wait a bit and talk more before we say we're dating or anything, not in the "I don't want a relationship right now" kind of way but like she just wants to make sure its not just a crush for either of usAryan flag
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>>63656yeah it seems like a pretty good sign to me but unfortunately I am a little impatient geg but I'm not gonna rush her or anything
<yesterday she asked me for one of my shirts and I didn't really think about it and brought an old shirt to give her and now I'm realizing how retarded I am for thinking she might not have liked me back, she literally gave me the most obvious signs ever geg
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today while we were leaving to go on the busses o algo she asked me to pick her up and hug her but she jumped up too early and made me drop her and we both fell on the concrete in front of a bunch of people geg, also she wanted to hold my hand while we were walking back from lunch which was nice I think
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>>63716heccin wholesome. i think you won a good woman OP
>>63723just keep fighting for it bro you WILL make it
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>>62567arguably the reality of life is however you make it.
<blackpillism is flawed because it assumes you cannot achieve anything if you arent given a perfect life, when humans are not perfect creatures to start out with.
>>62786thats just fucked up of her. you made the right decision.
>>62855just fucking kek what am i even reading
>>63088>you're the only one in the thread that can't comprehend that women aren't completely evil creatures that only manipulate, not to sound like a plebbitor but you need to understand women are humans just like men and infact they are much more emotional and vulnerabletruthbomb that just btfoed Nv0bOWYB
id like to keep hearing more OP. please keep blogging
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>>63723I'm sorry sir you'll find a girl someday
>>63725yeah I think so too
>>63729>please keep bloggingI was worried no one wanted to read this but I'll keep updating when anything important happens
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things like this thread remind me how far removed from the average normie I am. op why did u start using this site + what site did you immigrate from. Also how much do you deviate from the typical normie in terms of fitting into society (social skills, home life, etc)
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>>63741thanks
>>63742could i ask how (You) arent "normal"?
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>>63742>op why did you start using this site + what site did you immigrate fromfound out about it on 4cuck like a year and a half ago and fit right in, I genuinely used to spend over half my entire day every single day on /soy/ but I'm not as active on any boards anymore
>Also how much do you deviate from the typical normie in terms of fitting into society (social skills, home life, etc)I'm autistic but most of my friends are somewhat normies so I'm alright at keeping up with the latest chinktok trends, also as I said in the OP I've never had a girlfriend before and but I started going to a new school this year since I moved and decided I would do the absolute best I could to not embarrass myself and build a reputation with my classmates as a retarded sperg and so far its working, I'm still not the best at masking but I've got friends. I guess my home life was pretty good growing up, I've got both my parents and they aren't the greatest but they were never abusive so its good, though I've got really bad self esteem issues from getting bullied in middle school/early high school so I'm very unconfident and can't take compliments well, I have very bad anxiety too so that doesn't help
>inb4 snca words words wordsyou asked and I have time so I might as well answer, if you don't mind me asking how different really are you from me? as far as I know I'm on the more normal/well adjusted side of /r9k/ users but I'm still not a total normie, I'd like to know your answers to the questions you asked me, thanks for taking the time to reply.
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>>63746>>63747sure, I can explain.
> why/when did I startaround two years ago after I got banned on both 4cuck and reddit. I guess you could technically call me a reddit immigrant geg. i still scroll there sometimes…
> how do I compare to normiesI had a pretty rough home life growing up. I had a decent sized house but very little furniture. we didnt have shelves so we just kept shit on the floor. Most of my clothes (like tshirts) were things I got from school events or clubs for free. never really had many friends.
<redditparents were kinda fucked up. my mom made sexual advances toward me throughout my childhood (incest is gross btw, idk why you fags sexualize that shit) and my dad was on some age regression raisin
Thankfully as I got older I managed to straighten out my life, fix my anxiety and most of ny existential dread. Im a decently attractive dude and I have passable social skills. I’m NT, go to university and have a job. But my main issue is extreme avoidant attachment issues. I’ve burned through dozens of friendships throughout my life by ghosting them or just not giving them enough attention. its kinda like severe trust issues, and bc of this there’s a good chance I may die alone
btw im not saying all this in a ‘woe is me’ type way btw. we all have our demons. I live a pretty normal life by most standards. I merely commented because the things you described about having ‘hour long phone calls’ with your gf made me realize how abnormal I am. The idea of being with someone ‘forever’ or even for an extended period of time realy scares me
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>>63756>(incest is gross btw, idk why you fags sexualize that shit)thats a 4chan /r9k/ thing, just saying.
>Im a decently attractive dude and I have passable social skills. I’m NT, go to university and have a job.keep it up bro
>But my main issue is extreme avoidant attachment issues. I’ve burned through dozens of friendships throughout my life by ghosting them or just not giving them enough attention. its kinda like severe trust issues, and bc of this there’s a good chance I may die alonewhat makes you like this? do you not trust people because you think that they would hurt you or something like that?
<could i also ask you what your definition of "friendship" is?
>The idea of being with someone ‘forever’ or even for an extended period of time realy scares mei honestly agree with you. its crazy to think about how time passes and things come and go.
<at least in heaven theres a God who loves us
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>>63756pretty interesting, I'm glad you have a pretty stable life and it sounds like you don't have too many problems, I'm sorry you have trust issues like that though it sounds very rough, to be honest I cant really give any advice but hopefully you find a way to overcome this because I think you seem like a nice guy and people would like to be your friend
>I merely commented because the things you described about having ‘hour long phone calls’ with your gf made me realize how abnormal I am. The idea of being with someone ‘forever’ or even for an extended period of time realy scares methat makes a lot of sense, a lot of people are worried about giving too much time to other people or things like that but me and her both get attached very easily from what I can tell so that's why we call so much
>>63762helpful trvthnvke that's better than what I said
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>>63795I know I get attached too easily its kinda bad
>>63833I guess so
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I made a mistake but it doesn't really feel like one, this is kind of a long story but I don't wanna say too much without anyone asking for details, basically she gave me head behind Walmart and I fingered her until she came and I didn't get to finish, I'm no longer any celibate of any kind, I haven't told any of my friends and I'd feel bad if she knew I told anyone so for now only the sharty knows
>inb4 you're dating a whore
I know it was very quick but it was her first time so its ok, it was actually both our first kiss too , I am concerned about it but I trust that she actually loves me like I love her
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>>63883did you kiss her after she gave you head or before?
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>>63896before don't worry
>>63906idk man she instigated it I didn't wanna say no I know it was bad but we're fine
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Are you sure shes a virgin. She seems really trashy i dont think this is going to end well
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>>63958shes really really clingy towards me and I don't really know why, it makes me worried because I literally used to get bullied for being ugly and suddenly this girl is just crazy over me and I don't know why
>>63959I know I'm retarded
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Op the best way to “fix” this woman is force her to get better, you cannot fix her but you can put pressure on her to fix herself, if you tell her to stop smoking weed with her cousin and she calls you crying and you say “oh it’s okay just don’t do it again” she will never stop, if you get angry at her, tell her you won’t be able to date her if she keeps this up and tell her she’ll end up ruining her life then you MIGHT get her to stop. You have to be aggressive with people like this to get them to stop their addictions
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>>63961agreed. you need to help her out.
<also in my general opinion, i think OP made a mistake by not having boundaries for having premarital sex if he wants to be a Christian. OP, repent and don't do this again.
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>>63532Why didn't you take this guy's advice, OP… why…
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>>63883I'm really disappointed in you. The best you can do now is to never do that again and try to stabilize her. If you don't and you guys split, then you would of just contributed another net negative to the world and made another whore who can never enter any holy marriage. Please try to make it work. Be loving, but stern with her when she messes up. No promiscuity, drugs, or any bad influences. I understand the feelings, as I'll admit that I would also struggle with the willpower to say no in the moment.
I also don't understand why she offered that to you. Didn't she say that you guys should wait before dating? So is dating a bigger deal to her than sucking a guy off? That's a huge red flag if that's the case OP, unless there's information that I'm missing here.
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>>63960You’re dating an unstable whore. If she was a virgin she would not be giving you head behind a Walmart you retarded nigger. And btw you’re obviously not actually Christian if you’re entertaining this. I read through this whole thread and this girl is bad news, a definite liar, and the biggest red flag of them all. You guys are moving too fast and I suggest you break up with her or slow down before things get worse. I can envision her abusing or taking advantage of you. I was wincing at every update you posted because this is the most stupid rasin I have ever read and I truly hope you’re lying about this.
OP get help, get her help that ISNT you. Get her therapy. Holy shit this is dissapointing
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>>63994>And btw you’re obviously not actually Christian if you’re entertaining this.1. i agree that we are not supposed to sin but you forget that humans are irrational and prone to temptations. thats not an excuse for sin but im just saying
2. OP is not a Christian to begin with but he is interested in becoming one
>You guys are moving too fast and I suggest you break up with her or slow down before things get worse.this
>I can envision her abusing or taking advantage of you.how?
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>>63993this. we need more information OP. how did you possibly get into that situation?
<also my personal opinion is that you gotta get her into professional help like therapy and lead as a role model. since you guys banged already, you have the authority in this situation to help her out instead of being a douchebag who uses and leaves her.
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>>63995I don’t know, she just seems like a red flag who would take advantage of OP for things like sex, money, and all that kind of thing. I can’t explain it I just feel very skeptical
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>>64054Nv0bOWYB is a clittycel who thinks that the blackpill is real
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>>64057I see no way this situation goes well, especially now OP fucked up and had sex with her. Should have just taken it slow
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>>63961I know, she already knows I dislike her cousin, though yesterday I was actually over at her house and got to meet some of her family including her dad, mom, and cousin, I don't really like any of them but I'm friendly around them just because they're nice to me and I don't want to cause problems too early, back on topic though I know I need to pressure her a bit more to get her to stop, I don't know if this sounds manipulative but I thought that sort of "guilt tripping" her into doing drugs and stuff less until she becomes less addicted but I don't know if it'd work very well.
>>63968I know, you're right, I just wasn't thinking straight and didn't wanna disappoint her by saying no
>>63993I'm planning on staying in a relationship with her for as long as it works and helping her get better, I know I need to be more stern but I'm a bit of a passive person so even when I'm upset I'm bad at acting like it but I will do the best I can to get her to stop with the drugs, also she isn't promiscuous at all
>Didn't she say that you guys should wait before dating? So is dating a bigger deal to her than sucking a guy off?we are dating now, we basically have been since like Wednesday she just wanted to wait a week or so before we "make it official" but it is now since then at Walmart
>>63994she was a virgin doe, she has two exes but hardly even kissed either of them and they broke up with her over random stupid things, they were both from years ago too
>I can envision her abusing or taking advantage of youI'll be fine nigga, I'm not gonna get abused and I'm not retarded
>>63996>how did you possibly get into that situation?we were just walking around after we were shopping and decided to see what was around the store and went behind the store, I thought she was just looking for cigarettes or something but she said we should sit down so I thought she just wanted to cuddle a little while we were alone but then she started kissing me and we started making out and she asked me to bite her neck and stuff and then asked if I wanted her to suck my dick and at first I was saying it was a bad idea and that we shouldn't but she kept saying it was alright and I gave in but we almost got caught so we stopped and I ended up fingering her until she came twice
>>64054that guy is a retard, I understand your guys' points but he makes no sense
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>>64070>I know, you're right, I just wasn't thinking straight and didn't wanna disappoint her by saying no
>then asked if I wanted her to suck my dick and at first I was saying it was a bad idea and that we shouldn't but she kept saying it was alright and I gave in Didn’t
>>63999 just say that he felt like she was going to take advantage of you for sex? You denied it then continued to say that. Brother get a grip. She is not good news
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>>64070>I thought that sort of "guilt tripping" her into doing drugs and stuff less until she becomes less addicted>I know I need to be more stern but I'm a bit of a passive person so even when I'm upset I'm bad at acting like itYour passive approach isn't going to work. I know it isn't realistic to make anyone drop an addiction instantly, but intentionally trying to take a gradual approach by saying "no no it's okay babe!! let's try to take only 10mg of cocaine instead of 20mg." isn't going to work. It would be like trying to quit porn by only watching softcore smut and dropping BDSM content. The hardcore content will still be just as easily acceptable as the 'smaller dose' softcore content and they'll just go right back to it since they're already indulging with the act, just to a smaller extent. To be blunt, just stop being a pussy and say to her that she needs to STOP COMPLETELY. Don't be angry with her when she messes up if she's genuinely trying, but show your disappointment and emphasize the consequences of this, how important this is to you, and for stabilizing the relationship as well. She will then start using them less through this call to action.
>also she isn't promiscuous at allDude, she sucked you off BEHIND WALMART and you guys had sex at the first opportunity she saw not even two weeks after you guys met. She was being very sexual towards you within days of meeting and got super attached to you. I'm glad she's a virgin (according to you), but she clearly is promiscuous and honestly, if she met almost any other guy, probably would of ended up a whore when they inevitably dropped her and didn't care to invest into fixing a broken person. She JUST STARTED DATING YOU and logically does not know if this will work out yet she initiated all of that. She is promiscuous, saying otherwise is cope, and you need to address with her what happened that day and her hypersexuality. The only good that came out of that is I guess now you know she WAS a virgin since you would of broken the hymen (if not then she lied), but now you either have to do everything in your power to get this woman to find God and take initiative to fix her life, or drop her for your own convenience and deposit another used whore onto the world that will either never bear children or poison another man and commit adultery. You decided to inhabit a broken house, so go fix it, otherwise the house falls apart and you need to find a new one.
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>>64082I highly doubt she was a virgin from what OP had been saying. No virgin does that.
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>>64084Well OP is the one that had sex with her, so he should know by now unless he's completely ignorant on female anatomy. I'm going to trust OP isn't a total retard, but I do find it strange that she initiated all of that and didn't seem to be nervous at all from what he described. To be fair doe, it's the kiked amerimutt culture that pushes women to this ideal of "having fun while you still can" and essentially seeing it as a trophy to lose your virginity as soon as possible, so even the virgin women are often whores in the mind and practically all of them are retarded feminists.
OP should think back on the experience. If he doesn't recall her feeling any pain or any blood and she was pretty confident in initiating it, then it should be considered that she probably lied about everything and is using him for sex. If that's the case then OP needs to get the fuck out as soon as possible.
>>64087>I still think you're a fool especially if you don't have the backbone to say you don't wanna get head at the back of bum fuck where everTsmt. I understand the temptations, but come on man this was a huge mistake. Now you either have to ride or die with her. It's probably going to end explosively and horribly, especially with her crazy ass family OP described. But you chose to sleep with her and allegedly took her virginity, so you made your bed and are going to lay in it.
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I think this girl is really just what I deserve if anything, I remember all summer thinking to myself how I would date pretty much any girl as long as shes white, loyal, and loves me too, and now I have a schizophrenic weed addict hypersexual depressed girl with an eating disorder and it really isn't so bad, I love her so so much and you all act like /r9k/ users are supposed to do better than this but really I'm grateful I even met her, shes changed my life for the better a lot since I met her even though it hasn't been very long
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>>64161>I think this girl is really just what I deserve if anything, I remember all summer thinking to myself how I would date pretty much any girl as long as shes white, loyal, and loves me too, and now I have a schizophrenic weed addict hypersexual depressed girl with an eating disorder and it really isn't so bad, I love her so so much and you all act like /r9k/ users are supposed to do better than this but really I'm grateful I even met her, shes changed my life for the better a lot since I met her even though it hasn't been very longBad women can easily destroy a good man. You shouldn't be justifying yourself with cope by saying that you're just working within the unsurprisingly low standards of the incel board on bald man with glasses website. You should strive to genuinely have the best for yourself and your partner. I want this to work between you two, I really do, especially since now you took her virginity (we are suspicious on her truthfulness on that though geg). However, you're just letting yourself be influenced by broken people and accepting it.
I understand the feels, as I had some extremely retarded white e-gf who would cut, was depressed, and also experienced sexual assault. Then my first 'real' girlfriend was also this body dysphoric, depressed, cut up, sexually assaulted damaged woman with 7 exes, multiple of which were online groomers. I was always there for her when she wanted me for comfort and when I needed to tell her not to do something, but ultimately that starts to get to your psyche. When there are so many problems with her that we just feel the need that we have to fix, but we need to realize the women are their own people and they need to take responsibility for their mistakes. There is only so much you can do, and when she wasn't willing to change everything for both her own and my own sake, then we broke up. We are warning you because we can all clearly foresee a similar outcome, and being that she's a BPD druggie, this will likely end even more explosively. For awhile it's all joy and affection, which makes you feel that your relationship is perfect and immune to separation, but then in an instant an emotional rollercoaster comes in and suddenly it's over. Stop thinking you're immune.
Unlike most in the thread, I want you to stay with her, but only because she supposedly lost her virginity to you and I feel that as a man made in God's image you owe it to her now. Otherwise, if you guys (likely) break up horribly in the future, now she'll be used up and have even more trauma from having lost the person who made her pair bond. She will have no value as a wife to anyone except adulterers and you would of essentially contributed another whore into our world of liberal and feminist ideology where it is so rare to find genuine people. You constantly downplay the severity of the problems whenever we bring them up to you and you clearly aren't seeing the scale of how hugely you fucked up by accepting her offer at the back of a walmart. So I hope to God you grow a spine and take some initiative for this girl to find God and to fix her life, but that's ultimately her choice and she can very well decide to keep being a degenerative and leave you over it for "not letting her have fun at her prime" or other bullshit feminist rhetoric. This is why you shouldn't have done what you did by essentially attaching yourself to her through the pair bonding.
I don't know what else to say because you're basically ignoring everything we're telling you and coping. I'm glad you found a pretty girl that loves you, but you needed to take things much slower and now it's too late to go back. wordswordswords the left can't meme or something
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>>64220I'm not going to reply to every individual thing you said but I don't really disagree with you, I know I fucked up but there's not really anything I can do about it now and I really do love her so its alright that I have to stay with her
>>64229she isn't a pooner, shes really really girly actually geg I've been to her room and there's a 0% chance she'll ever try to become a pooner, and her hair is dyed but its just dyed brownish-red, its naturally blonde but she doesn't like having it too bright
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>>64231Okay you basically have to marry her now
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>>64231Have fun with your drug whore wife.
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>>64070>I know, she already knows I dislike her cousin, though yesterday I was actually over at her house and got to meet some of her family including her dad, mom, and cousincongratulations.
>I don't really like any of them but I'm friendly around them just because they're nice to me and I don't want to cause problems too earlyyou will have to learn to love them as well.
>I know, you're right, I just wasn't thinking straight and didn't wanna disappoint her by saying no self-respect though brother. you can't bend under pressure if the thing you are about to do is immoral.
NO means NO.
>we were just walking around after we were shopping and decided to see what was around the store and went behind the store, I thought she was just looking for cigarettes or something but she said we should sit down so I thought she just wanted to cuddle a little while we were alone but then she started kissing me and we started making out and she asked me to bite her neck and stuff and then asked if I wanted her to suck my dick and at first I was saying it was a bad idea and that we shouldn't but she kept saying it was alright and I gave in but we almost got caught so we stopped and I ended up fingering her until she came twicedid you guys literally have sex in a walmart aisle??? kek what the frick?
<also i think next time, you need to be more assertive in your own beliefs rather than conforming to another person just because you "love" them. if you wanted to take it slower, you should've made that clear.
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>>64082>but now you either have to do everything in your power to get this woman to find God and take initiative to fix her life, or drop her for your own convenience and deposit another used whore onto the world that will either never bear children or poison another man and commit adultery. You decided to inhabit a broken house, so go fix it, otherwise the house falls apart and you need to find a new one.factnuke
>>64084you would be extremely surprised.
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>>64092tsmt i agree fully with this post
>>64161>I think this girl is really just what I deserve if anything, I remember all summer thinking to myself how I would date pretty much any girl as long as shes white, loyal, and loves me too>and now I have a schizophrenic weed addict hypersexual depressed girl with an eating disorder and it really isn't so bad>and it really isn't so bad>schizophrenic weed addict hypersexual depressed girl with an eating disorder>and it really isn't so badyou do you king. i seriously hope you can "fix her" if you still want to be with her. you are in the long haul now brother.
>and you all act like /r9k/ users are supposed to do better than thisits erroneous to assume that this board is like 4chans /r9k/
>>64220read this OP. hes speaking the truth.
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I think this shit is made up. OP projects his wishes and fetishes onto this made up whore. And if it’s real you now got a fucking wreck that will abuse you and ruin your life, if you wanna break up she would probably suicide bait or something. Also funny how self proclaimed Christians act like this biggest subhumans ever geg
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>>64236I know but obviously that'll have to wait quite a long time
>>64246shes not a whore nigger
>>64334>you will have to learn to love them as well.I know but I don't think I'll ever even somewhat like her cousin, I hate pedophiles, I want to beat the shit out of him but I can't just do that
>self-respect though brother. you can't bend under pressure if the thing you are about to do is immoral. NO means NO.I know but I'm admittedly a bit of an impulsive person and I can't stand disappointing people
>did you guys literally have sex in a walmart aisle??? kek what the frick?no, we were walking around outside the Walmart and went behind since there were no people or workers, the day after I was at her house and we had sex in her room but her mom almost walked in on us
>also i think next time, you need to be more assertive in your own beliefs rather than conforming to another person just because you "love" them. if you wanted to take it slower, you should've made that clear.I know I made a mistake but there isn't really anything I can do about it now
>>64337>you do you king. i seriously hope you can "fix her" if you still want to be with her. you are in the long haul now brother.I know, I really want to help her but it is a bit difficult when I'm literally the only person in her life not enabling all of her bad habits
>>64339it is real, I'm not really sure if its better that it is doe, I'm not gonna get abused though I don't know why you all keep saying this
>Also funny how self proclaimed Christians act like this biggest subhumans ever gegI'm not really a real Christian, I believe in God but I still act like a hedonistic retard I know
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>>64229>>64334>>64337Total Frognigger Death
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I know this sounds megacucked but I feel like such a retarded faggot right now and I know its not really my fault but I can't help but feel at blame, she was smoking weed again earlier while I was talking to my friend and i think I've conveyed enough how upset I feel everytime she smokes, I don't get mad at her though it always feels like my fault that I didn't stop her from doing it by talking her out of it like I usually do, no one else in her life tries to prevent her from continuing all these bad habits so it feels like its all my responsibility, I feel like such a failure every time she calls me while high, I know I'm just being retarded but I can't help it, I just feel like such a weak-willed retard, I could've said no when she asked to have sex but I didn't, I could be more firm about her not smoking but I don't, I could be doing so much more but I never do, I knows shes doing better with me than without me but I'm still doing a bad job at everything
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>>64387I've said to you that there's only so much one person can do. Each person is still responsible for themselves. I would try to make agreements with her when she's sober and feeling awful about her habits. Take that moment of weakness to intervene with her and make an agreement on a measure you guys can take, like throwing away her current weed supply. Be more assertive (not but impolite), pray for both yourself and her, and do better.
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>>64358>the day after I was at her house and we had sex in her room but her mom almost walked in on us so you had sex with her twice?
>I know, I really want to help her but it is a bit difficult when I'm literally the only person in her life not enabling all of her bad habitsi believe in you.
>>64339>Also funny how self proclaimed Christians act like this biggest subhumans ever gegnusois cant read the thread
>>64366frogs are self-insertable though
>>64400OP also needs to start building a social circle and a safety net. hes all alone and thats gonna fuck him up later
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>>64400I'll see what I can do
>>64409>so you had sex with her twiceok, let me finally get it straight since I've miscommunicated quite a bit, the first time we did anything was last Saturday when we went to Walmart, we got done shopping then were walking around outside and went around to the back behind the store and started kissing and stuff and she gave me head and I fingered her, there were some people coming around though and my ride home was almost there so we decided to stop, the second time was on Sunday, the day immediately after, I went over to her house and we had sex (with a condom don't worry) and almost got walked in on by her mom, she came but I didn't get to o algo
>>64414niglet
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>>64465Are you sure she was a virgin doe? Did her hymen break? There should of been some blood and it should of been painful for her. If she wasn't a virgin then I think you should just break up. We find it incredibly strange that she was so confident in initiating that with you. You don't need to answer these questions itt since I don't care to know the specific gross details, but you should think about them and answer here if you suspect that she wasn't.
My other question is unrelated, but how is the other girl doing? I remember when you first met this second girl and you said you'd still be friends with her. Did anything happen with that since you started dating the second one?
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>>64471can't her hymen break from like a million different things not just sex? I know she masturbates a lot and used a hairbrush to do it a few times plus it can tear from random shit so I don't think its a reliable way to tell. I don't doubt that shes a virgin since she was talking a lot about how she had a good first time with me and always says it feels weird that shes not a virgin anymore, I guess it could all be an elaborate lie but she doesn't lie to me about anything else so I believe her
<I guess I'm still friends with the first girl, she still sits with me and my girlfriend at lunch but she talks to her other friend that sits with us, I only really talk to her in the one class we have together doe and she isn't very relevant to any of the stuff I've been posting about in this thread now
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>>64473>can't her hymen break from like a million different things not just sex? I know she masturbates a lot and used a hairbrush to do it a few times plus it can tear from random shit so I don't think its a reliable way to tell.Well I believe no matter through what means, the hymen breaking means you're no longer a virgin. A lot of people believe it's only lost if it's done with another human, but I believe the hymen is what signifies virginity. Some people would probably call me retarded for that, but I believe that's the purpose God created that organ for. If she penetrated herself deep with the hairbrush then she might of broken it. You probably don't agree with me on this definition though and I imagine you're okay with it as long as she wasn't with another guy, but I just don't see it that way and I think it's connected to lust as a whole. This might just be me and my fundamentalism doe and I won't pretend like I'm a very spiritually knowledgeable person, but this is how I feel about it and I want the best for you.
>I guess I'm still friends with the first girl, she still sits with me and my girlfriend at lunch but she talks to her other friend that sits with us, I only really talk to her in the one class we have together doe and she isn't very relevant to any of the stuff I've been posting about in this thread nowOkay, I was just wondering. If she still treats you the same and didn't start being meaner or unresponsive then that means she probably didn't reciprocate what you felt for her. Girls would get extremely jealous if a guy they crushed on started dating another girl, especially if he's around his girlfriend around her. I don't know if that information matters to you, but it's just something I noticed.
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>>64474I guess I understand your perspective but for me it doesn't really matter as long as she hasn't been with another guy, I see why you'd think this way but if we're going off this definition 99% of women are not virgins
<yeah, idk I feel kind of bad since I still find the first girl to be really attractive physically but personality wise shes very strange and whorish, I know for sure she doesn't like me in the slightest though which is probably good
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>>64387> I don’t get mad at her thoWell maybe you should, you’ve seen that the kind approach isn’t working so you can either grow some balls and shout at her and show how disappointed you are in her when she next does it, or you can keep failing and have her never stop smoking weed until her lungs collapse in 40 years and she dies a slow painful death
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>>64465did you ever think about trying to slow your relationship down before Sunday or did you only "regret it" after Sunday?
>>64473>I guess I'm still friends with the first girl, she still sits with me and my girlfriend at lunch but she talks to her other friend that sits with us, I only really talk to her in the one class we have together doe and she isn't very relevant to any of the stuff I've been posting about in this thread nowstop interacting with her. you already know that she wants to throw her life down the drain for perusing a pornography career. stick together with good people instead of hanging around with low quality people.
>>64474>A lot of people believe it's only lost if it's done with another human, but I believe the hymen is what signifies virginity.i mean, women literally had a different way of riding horses because they didnt want to break their hymen. i think its not really a good indication in the modern day but there is some truth to it.
>>64475>I see why you'd think this way but if we're going off this definition 99% of women are not virginstsmt. i agree with the opinion that if a women has had any form of sexual interaction with another person, they arent a virgin.
>>64476>Well maybe you should, you’ve seen that the kind approach isn’t working so you can either grow some balls and shout at her and show how disappointed you are in her when she next does it, or you can keep failing and have her never stop smoking weed until her lungs collapse in 40 years and she dies a slow painful deaththis. now that OP has had sex with her he has an actual authority to speak with. he has to man up and teach her to become a better person if he wants to stick with her, which is the morally good option
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>>64475>but personality wise shes very strange and whorishAre you kidding me? This new girl is also strange and seems 1000x more whorish than the first. Please stop being such a hypocrite. Think to yourself OP, would you even like this girl or reciprocate feelings if she didn’t show you attention or like you back? Because to be completely honest it seems like you wouldn’t. I want you to ask her if she would ever do only fans and get her response. What if she says that she would? Would that make you lose feelings for her? Would you consider her strange and whorish if she said yes?
You need to pray brother. Pray and reflect on everything.
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>>64549you have a solid point. i hope OP can get out of this trouble
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>>64476I know, she hasn't smoked yesterday or today but next time I'll stop being a bitch and let her know
>>64489I never really knew she wanted to do anything like that until we did it but I guess yeah
<its not like I'm super close with the first girl I only talk to her sometimes in the one class I have with her
<tsmt but I believe her that I'm the only guy shes had sex with
<tsmt
<you're probably right and since shes very attached to me I could definitely do more than others could
>>64549>I want you to ask her if she would ever do only fans and get her response. What if she says that she would? Would that make you lose feelings for her?I was once talking to her about how the other girl said she was gonna be a porn model in the future and without me giving my opinion on it at all she said that was disgusting and weird and when I agreed she said the other girl sounds like a weird whore so I think I know her perspective on that
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>>64554>I know, she hasn't smoked yesterday or today but next time I'll stop being a bitch and let her knowi dont wanna make assumptions but she is probably trying to kick the habit then (im assuming that she smokes everyday). try to refine that current progress.
>I never really knew she wanted to do anything like that until we did it but I guess yeahdid it just "kinda happen" without you realizing in that moment when you were in her room? also, i personally think that your gf wanted to have sex with you just to impress you or keep you in the relationship. i dont really see another reason other than her trying to barter her body for love. do you agree with my perspective?
>its not like I'm super close with the first girl I only talk to her sometimes in the one class I have with heroh i thought you were sitting with her during lunch. still though, id distance from her; she is not a good influence.
>tsmt but I believe her that I'm the only guy shes had sex withi honestly think you mightve been considering how women want to get rid of their virginity asap. also, how did you even find out that she would masturbate with her hair brush? did she just tell you out of nowhere geg
>you're probably right and since shes very attached to me I could definitely do more than others couldyou got this bro. be the man. you need to have a spine and control the relationship. if you actually manage to fix her, i think you will have a good woman by your side.
<do what we have been saying and try to bring good influences to her life like a Christian faith or therapy for her mental health/drug addiction.
become an example for her to follow as well.
>she said the other girl sounds like a weird whore so I think I know her perspective on thatthats a good sign
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>>63883Nv0bOWYB here.
HAHAHAHAH YOU ARE DATING A 100% HOE ASS NIGGA OP
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let me just say i told all you guys this like 2 weeks ago
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not even blackpilled btw, i just have been around women before
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>virgin
>fucks you and cums behind a walmart in like 10 minutes and initiates it
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op post an update
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welp OPs dead, he never committed to Christianity but at least he scored..
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It is with sorrow that we announce the passing of OP, who left this world under tragic and surreal circumstances. OP died unexpectedly behind a Walmart, the victim of a violent act at the hands of his girlfriend, who at the time was experiencing the fatal effects of an LSD overdose.
Though the manner of his death is as shocking as it is heartbreaking, those who knew OP will not let his story be defined only by its end. He was a loyal friend, a devoted family member, and someone who found humor in life’s late-night oddities. He had a way of lifting others’ spirits, often reminding those around him that life was too strange not to laugh at.
OP’s sudden departure leaves an emptiness in the hearts of his loved ones, but also a legacy of resilience and authenticity. His life, though cut short, serves as a reminder both of life’s unpredictability and the importance of compassion, even in the face of tragedy.
May OP be remembered for the light he brought to others, and may he rest in peace.
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OP's bpdemon gf kidnapped xim
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>>64578total factnvke I think
>>64582shes not a slut
>>64748sorry I was gone for a few days I've just been busy and don't have time for the sharty
<update spacenothing much has really happened, we hung out twice on the weekend, she came over to my house and we watched a movie which was nice, she hasn't smoked since like thursday I think but last night she cut her wrists a bit because I said she wasn't that good at giving head (retarded I know) so I spent all morning and most of our lunch period trying to make her feel better, she also wrote this long ass letter about me o algo saying how much she loves me and how I've changed her life and I think its really sweet but I'm not good at reciprocating affection so I just told her I love her too and got her a chicken sandwich on doordash cus she said she was hungry
>>64803geg
>>64816GEG she doesn't do LSD
>>64818geg she has bipolar disorder and the 'tism but not bpd
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>>64740>>64741>>64743>>64744bro came back geg. sit on your throne king.
>>64816gem
>>64867wholesome except for the wrist slitting part. keep trying to help her out.
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>>64899she took a razor and left a bunch of cuts on the side of her wrist because she felt bad that she wasn't "good at making me feel good"
>>64904I am trying saar
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>>64867>I said she wasn't that good at giving headare you retarded
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>>64935Us retard are is the white saar
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literally run before this bpdemon ruins your life (even more)
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>she also wrote this long ass letter about me o algo saying how much she loves me and how I've changed her life and I think its really sweet
just wait until she relaxes around you and the bpd sets in
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>>64935I said that cus she likes doing it but it fucking hurts my dick since she uses her teeth too much so I cant nut from it
>>64978bpd is borderline personality disorder
>>64983she does relax around me doe we spent like 4 hours on Sunday just watching movies and walking around outside and stuff
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>>65014its basically the same thing. also what kind of blowjob is that haha
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>>65015I guess they're similar but she hasn't gone psycho and stabbed me yet so I don't really care, also she doesn't intentionally use her teeth but she has a small mouth I guess so it kind of hurts
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Op died again R.I.P
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>>65130nigga just because I don't post a snca update everyday doesn't mean I'm dead, I guess I'll tell you what happened today but it was nothing interesting, I just talked to her between classes and ate lunch with her like always, she was a bit moody for no reason today but it doesn't really matter, that's just how girls are, on Friday I'm going to a county fair with her and her mom and niece which I think will be cool, she's probably gonna come over to my house again on saturday or Sunday too, and this is why I don't post updates everyday, there's no advice to be given about any of this its just snca
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>>64740>>64741>>64743>>64744My nigga came back to tell OP he's a retard, talk yovr shit king
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>>65027you should break up and start being productive.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dwi4kHLWkT0heres some nice music
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she has a shit life and is using you, and your affection, as an anchor. this is quite obvious because she sees sexual gratification(head) as a way to get your affection. This is a huge problem which makes anything negative a huge problem. you will be walking on eggshells daily.
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>>65291I don’t mean this as a bad way or some kind of "she’s doing a 3d chess move on you to get affection" or something. What I mean is that her thinking (even if she truly loves you) is not healthy. Remember that you can only help people if they want to be helped
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Why do you tell us about this?, it’s like fucking intimate and private. If i made such a thread and we got together I would just say it didn’t happened just so i can live in peace . Now you have a bunch of annoying soycacas waiting for updates and insulting your wreck of a Foid. And on top of that you get datamined and the thread will probably be here forever kek
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>>65296blogposting is aryan aldoebeit
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i really don't know usually if she likes you she'll be giving you at least some sign. ideally approaching you first.
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>i really don't know usually if she likes you she'll be giving you at least some sign. ideally approaching you first.
just look at how foids act with chad they literally approach them asking to go home with him. it's brvtal
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>Why can't internet autists fall in love with cute normal girls why do they always have to pick the bisexual junkie leftist bpdemon with brightly dyed hair and piercings.
>Fucking Ramona Flowers ruined and entire generation of boys and girls.
because the sorority blondes chase the 6'5 frat chads. i will never be le 6'5 a10 frat chad so i'll just accept my fate and date some high mtb alt/artsy girl that chases me
and some of these girls are really cvte too
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>>65323tsmt go for the cutesies and 5/10s, they’re so kind… ❤️
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>>65263I don't wanna break up with her though
>>65291I guess this is possible but I do think she genuinely loves me
>>65292factual info
>>65296for advice about this, most of my friends just laugh and say shes gonna kill herself if I forget to say good morning or something, also my data is worthless and no one is obsessed enough to care about me after the thread is slid
>>65318>>65319schizo retard babble
>>65323what're you on about nigger
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btw I forgot to ever mention but I hardly talk to the first girl anymore, I've probably spoken a total of 5 words to her this week and my girlfriend and I don't sit with her at lunch now, she has a boyfriend now too (for some reason I kinda hate him, he looks like a faggot but I digress) and I can say with 100% there is a 0% chance she ever liked me in the slightest so its a great thing I lost any feelings I had for her and that I met this new girl that I'm now dating, sometimes my girlfriend asks why I'm even friends with the first girl and I just tell her its because I needed someone to sit with at lunch before I met her
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>>65323I said normal girls not sorority blondes who date rich frat boys wtf are you talking about
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>>65342>I don't wanna break up with her thoughthats why ur gay
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>>65404Real nigger Nv0bOWYB
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>>65404I'm not gay doe you're gay
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my girlfriend is on her period and shes upset about it because she wants to be pregnant, shes sad that she didn't get pregnant from the precum when we did it unprotected a few times, I feel a bit sad for her too since I'm not actually scared of being a dad at all I'm just worried about what people would think, I don't wanna get her pregnant yet cus I'm worried her dad will beat the shit out of me or punch her in the stomach and make her miscarry or something, its very complicated and I don't know why she wants to get pregnant so bad when neither of us even have a job and we probably wouldn't be great parents
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>>65500holy shit that sounds like it will be a disaster
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>>65500its red flag after red flag and you still are in it geg. you walk the line
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>>65500No way you dating a whore trying to baby trap yuo. GEG
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>>65505he saw the red light but keeps on driving
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>>65508no way the pussy that good got the nigga brainwashed
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>>65515what succubus pussy does to a lonely chud..
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retarded-beyond-belief OP has his first kiss, it is the first kiss of this girl as well, and 30 seconds later she is licking his penis. this all happens behind a dumpster at ShartMart btw. he is going to have to explain this to his future wife, which is inevitably NOT going to be this woman.
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>>65520trvthnvke
im glad i didn't give my virginity to some mentally unstable bitch i won't be with in a year
>>65529>I'm not actually scared of being a dad at allhe has no idea
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>>65529If OP has a baby with this skank, he needs to be neutered, stopping his retarded genes from passing on
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>>65503what would be a disaster? I think I wouldnt be the worst dad and if she quits smoking she could be a good mom
>>65505how is wanting to get pregnant a red flag, atleast I know shes not gonna abort my kid if it happens
>>65506shes not trying to baby trap me doe I think
>>65515I'm not being brainwashed nigger, you sound like my friends
>>65516shes not an evil succubus demon doe
>>65520first off it wasn't 30 seconds later and second off the only reason I wouldn't marry her is if she cheats and she'd kill herself before that
>>65529we only did it unprotected 3 times its fine
>>65532>mentally unstable bitch i won't be with in a yearwhere is this idea that I'm gonna break up with her soon coming from? its retarded I'm not gonna leave her
>he has no ideaabout what? I'm sure being a father cant be too bad, besides my biggest fear is dying without kids so I don't mind doing it early
>>65533shes not a skank and I'm probably not retarded
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>>65500Op this would be beyond retarded. Bpdemons and Bipolar women are all awful mothers. This girl cuts herself, is hypersexual, smokes weed, and you fear that she'll kill herself. You're a pushover who never tries to harshly stop her, thus encouraging such behaviors. Especially as someone with a Bipolar mother I would never wish this upon my worst enemy.
Besides that how was she only a virgin when she met you despite having boyfriends previous to you? If she fucked you in the first week what stopped her from doing this to the ones who came before? This women will never be normal and if she could you would not be the sole harbinger of her sanity. I would suggest shock therapy.
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>>65543you don't even have a job or any true independence yet and you think you're going to take care of kids? try thinking of that more
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>>65543Nigga i’m going to lay it out for you straight and if you see NO problem with this at all you need a reality check, not even in a funny way but a completely serious talk to a trusted adult way.
>You’ve known this girl for 3 weeks>You’ve been dating her for 2 weeks>She’s addicted to weed>She cuts herself (ongoing too, not used to, she DOES.)>She’s “Hypersexual”>She’s “Bipolar”>She’s “Autistic”>Told you she loves you after a mere TWO WEEKS>Gave you head behind a Walmart>Cut herself because you said she wasn’t good at giving head>Jobless>Shitty family>Trying to convince you to get her PREGNANT after 3 weeks of knowing you>AND EVERY OTHER GLOWING BLARING RED FLAG THAT YOU’VE SAIDYou are the biggest fucking retard known to man. Do you really think having a baby with this landmine of a chick would be a good idea? It would be selfish. The child would be born into a horrible family (her side of the family), would probably inherit the addiction gene, bipolar, and autism from her. And by the sound of it she would probably not handle pregnancy well at all considering the emotional outbursts she seems to have even when not pregnant. She’d be fucking cutting herself and smoking niggerweed while pregnant. Not to mention the lack of jobs you both possess. She can’t support a child when she can barely support herself you retarded fuck. This girl is mental and how are you not seeing it? The bad outweighs the good and you’re totally enabling her too.
She is trying to baby trap you. It’s obvious that she’s unstable and obsessed with you OP, she’s scared that you’ll leave her or don’t love her so she wants a baby in the picture to keep you with her forever. I don’t know how you cannot see that. It’s extremely obvious and you lack context clues and deep thinking. Plus when you guys inevitably break up you’ll be releasing yet ANOTHER single (presumably teen?) mother into the world, which is setting her up for failure for life and that is extremely selfish.
>shes not a skank and I'm probably not retardedShe’s a skank, and you’re most definitely retarded. Skank behaviour is giving a BJ to a dude you’ve known for 2 weeks behind a Walmart. What do you call that if she’s not a skank? Cause that’s not normal behaviour. And you’re fucking retarded cause you put up with this and see no problem with it.
OP, you’re just as bad as her for enabling this. You need to get her into therapy before this gets worse, or break up with her now before it’s too late and you get yourself in too deep. You’re still in very early days of the relationship and it is not too late to back out my guy. If anything, the longer you leave it the worse it’s going to get, the more she’s going to brainwash you, the more you’re going to enable her. It’s really selfish of you encouraging this whole pregnancy thing.
You’re in danger and I mean it. Take this whole message and truly think about it. Don’t overlook it and take none of what I said seriously. TAKE ME SERIOUSLY. This relationship is dangerous for the both of you. Your girl needs therapy before anything. You need a reality check, and you need to confide in someone older and more experienced than you (Mom, Dad, Cousin, Friend, Counselor, Anyone).
I’m going to pray for you brother, please make the right decision. You know deep down this girl isn’t the right thing to continue with.
God bless.
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OP, can you also explain to us what your GF looks like? you havent given us a good description other than "blonde hair dyed brown".
<what is her height, weight, eye color, piercings, tattoos, clothing style, etc?
>>65543>we only did it unprotected 3 times its finenigga theres no hope for you unless if you have some self control.
>>65548this. if i wasnt religious, id at least wear a condom if i was having premarital sex with an alt-girl as a broke college student.
>>65568id have to agree with you on everything.
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OP I know what youre feeling, this is the first girl who has EVER truly loved you, I understand why you feel so attached to her, this isn’t you looking at a relationship from the outside in, you yourself are experiencing a girl who at the current moment in time is genuinely in love with you and it makes you feel great I’m sure how every you need to know this will NOT last forever. What you don’t get is A) you’ve proven to her you’re weak B) she’s a BPDemon who will take advantage of your weakness.
A) you’ve folded to her whims at every opportunity imaginable, she wanted to make the relationship more sexual? She did by ducking your dick, she wants to have full on sex with you? You do it multiple times, this is despite you not really wanting to yet. Considering how in board you are with having a kid with her you’re just really proving to her that she is the man in the relationship and you’ll just do what she says. You don’t even have the balls to get mad at her when she doesn’t stop smoking.
B) BPDemons will manipulate you at every opportunity and the weakness you’ve shown will only motivate her more to do this and also allow her to be more successful.
OP, she will NEVER convert to Christianity, she will NEVER quit drugs if anything her drug habit will increase, she will NEVER not be a whore and one day she is going to grow bored of you and either dump you on a whim or make the rest of your life hell out of spite.
You have two options right now, take any notion of a marriage out of your mind and just treat her as a practice GF or dump her right now. If you do not pick either of these options your life is over and it is your fault.
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>>65571>OP, can you also explain to us what your GF looks like?well, shes 5'3, a bit chubby (BMI around 28) but sees herself as fat, blue eyes, no piercings or tattoos, shes really obsessive about her makeup and thinks shes ugly without it but I think she has pretty good features and always looks good, and I guess her clothing style is kind of alternative but not full on attention seeking goth girl shit
>nigga theres no hope for you unless if you have some self control.the only condoms we had were kinda small and hurt my dick doe.
>>65548my mom would never kick me out no matter what but I know its selfish, I guess I mispoke, I don't wanna be a dad yet but its not a big fear of mine, I'd love to be a dad SOMEDAY but not yet
>>65545I think she'd be an ok mother and we aren't gonna have kids yet I'm not retarded, I definitely need to make her stop smoking first and she has said she'd stop if she got pregnant
<I asked her again since I never really tried to make conversation on it and she's actually only had one boyfriend before me, it was like a year ago and he was a few years older than her and they never really did anything, I think she technically kissed him once but it was like a peck on the lips, she didnt really like him she just thought she'd seem cooler dating some older guy
>>65547just being honest
>>65575I haven't done everything shes asked though I can say no, and she's not "the man in the relationship", I do tell her I'm mad when she smokes and everytime she calls me when shes high I tell her she needs to stop and that I'll call her later when she isn't high, its gotten her to stop somewhat
<she isn't manipulative, as far as I know shes never really lied to me about anything shes just good at convincing me about things
>>65568saving the longest for last to reply to
<once again I don't think she'd be a terrible mother in the future but right now I need to help her with all her bad habits and stuff and we're young to be parents
<tbh i think she does actually want a family with me but she also is worried I'll leave her so it could be both. I don't see any reason I'd have to break up with her so unless I die she wont be a single mother
<I know we should've waited but she really wanted to and I'm not sure why, I dont think shes a skank though I think she just really likes me
<I'm doing my best to be the only person in her life NOT enabling all her bad habits and behaviors but it's hard when she hardly sees a problem with half of them and her own parents, brothers, and friends all do the same things, I know therapy would be good for her but she doesnt wanna take any medication or anything even for her schizophrenia and therapy hasnt helped much in the past apparently, and I wanna get this point across real quick, I'm not just gonna back out of the relationship as long as she cares about me and cares what I say
<I'm not in fucking danger, shes not gonna stab me to death for forgetting to say good morning or something, she has problems and therapy would probably help but that doesn't mean she deserves to be left all alone, and I have friends to talk about this with
<I appreciate it but I'm not gonna leave her over any of this.
<unrelated to this specific post but one thing she said that worries me a bit is telling me I have a "Twink build" as a joke one time because I'm very skinny and she gets really happy when I eat since I don't eat much and have no appetite, it kind of worries me that she might see me as weak or something because of it, she was once complaining to me that my hips are too skinny and she can feel the bones poking her when we cuddle or hug
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>>65588>I guess her clothing style is kind of alternative but not full on attention seeking goth girl shitcould you go more in depth?
>the only condoms we had were kinda small and hurt my dick doe.buy larger ones. its cheaper than getting shotgunned into a wedding because you accidentally nutted in her.
>I'd love to be a dad SOMEDAY but not yetkeep studying hard; you will make it
>I think she'd be an ok mother and we aren't gonna have kids yet I'm not retardeddude you only knew her for a few weeks. lets take it slower
>its gotten her to stop somewhat great to hear.
>shes just good at convincing me about thingsyou need to also stand up for your own beliefs. if you know something will harm her like having careless sex, you need to cut it out of her life until she fixes herself. guide her and become a role model.
>but it's hard when she hardly sees a problem with half of themred flag
>that doesn't mean she deserves to be left all alonei dont want to be the selfish fuck, but OP… you cant save everyone. you will lose yourself brother. if you can do it though, ill be proud of you.
<keep God in mind and pray. He will help you. start going to church with her.
>unrelated to this specific post but one thing she said that worries me a bit is telling me I have a "Twink build" as a joke one time because I'm very skinny and she gets really happy when I eat since I don't eat much and have no appetite, it kind of worries me that she might see me as weak or something because of it, she was once complaining to me that my hips are too skinny and she can feel the bones poking her when we cuddle or hugdo you work out? start doing that and try bringing her as well to the gym.
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>>65592I'm not really into fashion and I'm tired so I can't really think of the best way to describe it but its kind of like goth style like ripped leggings and big boots and stuff but like she also wears more basic clothes sometimes, I'll look at some pictures and see if I can find anything to link you to but I'm not gonna post any pics, I don't really see why you care so much
<I know that's the logical solution but it can wait
<all I said is I don't think she'd be a bad mom in the future, I don't think that's a crazy judgement to make with how much I talk to her
<I think so too
<I try to but even with other people I'm a bit of a pushover which I dislike about myself
<I know
<I know I can't do everything for her but I can do my best
>do you work out?no, I know I should but I'm not very disciplined and i find it very hard to eat right, I don't know if anyone connected the dots due to my typing style or some other random detail but I'm actually the same guy that had the 300 reppeys blogpost with the pictures from JoJo's, I'm not some reputable namefag or anything but a few people called me jojosfag, I guess that's all just to say my eating is not very good, I almost certainly have some kind of eating disorder and its caused me to get a bit weaker than I used to be
>start doing that and try bringing her as well to the gym.I don't think she'd much like that, I really hate to sound mean but she is quite a bit heavy and doesn't like too much exercise, besides I think losing weight is the last thing I should be asking her to do and I don't mind how she looks at all since I kind of have a thing for bigger girls. shes not fat doe which is good.
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>>65594that's interesting, i had a feeling you were that guy
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>>65500>>65543>>65588I could nitpick every single thing you said since you're not thinking ahead or just misunderstanding what we're telling you, but I just don't feel like it. We've laid out all of the problems for you and this situation has just gotten more and more ridiculous and she continues to show even bigger red flags. You're not listening to the obvious truth everyone is trying to give you even though you said early on in the thread "I will never doubt you guys again". I hope this works out and she can somehow improve everything and become a great partner, but from all of the details I have then I just have to honestly say that I can't see this relationship lasting. This girl is crazy and you just keep saying whenever someone points out a huge red flag "it's not a big deal" or "i can fix it" and you just let her get her way and always assume she is being truthful or righteous. You made an advice thread, yet don't listen to any advice and instead cope about everything. You're on your own bro, I don't have words anymore.
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>>65588>she doesnt wanna take any medication or anything even for her schizophreniaBrother, first it was Bipolar, then it was Autism, now it’s Schizophrenia. I don’t know what to say except she’s lying out of her ass. I know you’re going to combat the claim, but I am 22 and not as Naïve as you are. It is easy to see through the bullshit.
She’s known you for 3 weeks and already revealed all these mental illnesses she has, seemingly with ease or little embarrassment as she’s told you in such a short time, she doesn’t take meds (because she doesn’t need them, she hasn’t been diagnosed or prescribed.), if she actually had all of these things like she claims she would be made to take medication by her family or doctor because that’s dangerous for herself if she doesn’t. You guys seem very young and Schizophrenia is something diagnosed between the ages of 15-20 those being the absolute youngest whereas it’s much more common and likely for a diagnosis to hit in your 30s. I don’t know your age but take that as you will.
Your girlfriend is a liar dude, an attention seeker at that. And for the cherry on-top, surely if she genuinely wanted to get better she would be taking meds and making an attempt to stop cutting herself, which it’s evident that she isn’t. Look for inconsistencies, bond with her family and slip in questions like “How can I support {GF NAME} with her Bipolar/Schizophrenia/Autism” and see what her parents say, even ask her friends maybe. I guarantee you that they’ll be shocked that she apparently has all of these disorders.
You’ve lost it. You seemed to have morals at the start of the thread but now they’re slowly fading away. I know that you said that you’re not gonna break up with her but I hope you’ll come to realise it’s the best thing to do. As S3t1!C!6 said, we have laid it all out for you and it’s obvious that you’re not going to listen when you absolutely need to. Take everyone giving you advice seriously because it’s out of good faith even though you cannot see that. As a collective everyone is worried.
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OP you need some self respect and know that you deserve better. There are normal nice girls out there who would love u and this absolute mess is not the love of your life.
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>>65568pahaha this is hilarious
>>shes not a skank and I'm probably not retarded>She’s a skank, and you’re most definitely retarded.geg
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wow seems like everyone is starting to realise i was right 3 weeks ago
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>>65628hard not to see it that way
it feels like op is in too much denial of everything
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>>65617alt girls are hotter tho. paradox of a foid i guess
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Look I hate to be a latenigger bumpfag but what nobody else in this thread seems to understand is that women do not have agency. My stepsister is exactly like the girl you’re describing, she even used to be a pooner. But she started hanging around normal people and if memory serves she now has a boyfriend who makes Hitler jokes. Back when I was a freshmanfag a lot of my friends were actually pooners. And they’re all basically ok with my racist beliefs. As long youre sufficiently masculine (not in a tatenigger way) she’ll be into you, and if she’s into she’ll agree with you. The only caveat is if she has a network of other shitlibs controlling her, even a single fat friend (every cute girl has one) can ruin your chances. There’s a reason so many women talk about how evil it is that “narcissists” separate them from their social connections. It because they don’t know who they are without them. Now of course She may be some sort of hyperautistic überfemale to whom none of this applies but from your description I’m not so sure that’s the case.
In short, women don’t hold beliefs based off of rationality, in fact, most people don’t. Women base their beliefs on what others think of them.
Hang in there buddy, I get what you’re going through and I’m rooting for you.
(If I phrased this horribly please read this article he explains a lot of these ideas better than I can )
https://open.substack.com/pub/newaltright/p/you-should-date-a-libtard-feminist?r=45py2x&utm_medium=ios №65646[Quote]
Never fackin mind I jumped the gun and didn’t read the whole thing
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>>>62913
>cutting themself is a double edged sword because its also really hot when women do it
Aryan
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>>65615I guess in retrospect it does seem odd but for some reason she didn't seem embarrassed about having depression or anything but when she told me she had schizophrenia and bipolar she begged me to not think she was weird and shit like that and went on for half an hour about how she hates all the hallucinations and shit from the schizoness, she called me crying one time because she was upset that the crazy shadow nigger demons she sees wouldnt leave her alone at school, and bipolar isn't really uncommon with these kinds of girls so I don't doubt it, the one thing that was weird is that she seemed extremely ashamed when she said she has autism, like she was begging me not to think she was retarded or weird and didn't tell me about until we already started dating and not when we were "just friends"
>>65617>there are normal nice girls out there who would love uliteral falsenvke, literally no other girl has ever given me any kind of attention like this and that's fine
>>65642well I've already got her to change some of her views on abortion but she doesn't like talking about politics much, I have heard of this concept before though
>>65648this is literally a jartynigger 4cuck opinion
>>65607I guess I'll just be honest, I know so many of these things are red flags and I know this is selfish and gay but I feel so much happier just being with her, everytime I see her its the highlight of my day, I used to think about killing myself literally every single day and now I actually feel like I have a reason to live, I guess I didn't really fully explain this earlier on but there's not exactly a life of mine for her to ruin, I used to do literally nothing all day but just play video games and I replaced that with talking to her, I have no real skills or potential and I cant see myself living past 25, so while I'm here why not try my best to help this girl that's shown me so much care and love for practically nothing? why would I break up with her when I'm substantially happier with her? why would I try to find another girl when none of them have the same kind of sense of humor, the same way of carrying a conversation, the same way of being energetic enough to brighten my whole day, why would I want another girl when I already love her and she loves me? that's why I'm coping about everything, all of your advice is just large-scale negativity about how shes so horrible and I need to break up with her, when all I'm looking for is advice on what to say or do about specific situations that come up
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>>65650>I guess I'll just be honest, I know so many of these things are red flags and I know this is selfish and gay but I feel so much happier just being with her, everytime I see her its the highlight of my day, I used to think about killing myself literally every single day and now I actually feel like I have a reason to live, I guess I didn't really fully explain this earlier on but there's not exactly a life of mine for her to ruin, I used to do literally nothing all day but just play video games and I replaced that with talking to her, I have no real skills or potential and I cant see myself living past 25, so while I'm here why not try my best to help this girl that's shown me so much care and love for practically nothing? why would I break up with her when I'm substantially happier with her? why would I try to find another girl when none of them have the same kind of sense of humor, the same way of carrying a conversation, the same way of being energetic enough to brighten my whole day, why would I want another girl when I already love her and she loves me? that's why I'm coping about everything, all of your advice is just large-scale negativity about how shes so horrible and I need to break up with her, when all I'm looking for is advice on what to say or do about specific situations that come up №65653[Quote]
most sensitive young man award
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>>65650>I guess I'll just be honest, I know so many of these things are red flags and I know this is selfish and gay but I feel so much happier just being with her, everytime I see her its the highlight of my day, I used to think about killing myself literally every single day and now I actually feel like I have a reason to live, I guess I didn't really fully explain this earlier on but there's not exactly a life of mine for her to ruin, I used to do literally nothing all day but just play video games and I replaced that with talking to her, I have no real skills or potential and I cant see myself living past 25, so while I'm here why not try my best to help this girl that's shown me so much care and love for practically nothing? why would I break up with her when I'm substantially happier with her? why would I try to find another girl when none of them have the same kind of sense of humor, the same way of carrying a conversation, the same way of being energetic enough to brighten my whole day, why would I want another girl when I already love her and she loves me? that's why I'm coping about everything, all of your advice is just large-scale negativity about how shes so horrible and I need to break up with her, when all I'm looking for is advice on what to say or do about specific situations that come upORIGINALORIGINALORIGINALORIGINAL
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Emasculated young man award
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>>65658>I hope she miscarries or you wake up and beat her so hard she miscarries out of fear, you have cursed yourself with this BPD whore and it is all your fault.why the fuck would I beat her, I'm not a fucking nigger, I don't hit women, and I don't know why you hope she miscarries, kind of strange
>>65653>>65657>>65652>>65655I'm not gay or emasculated i'm just being honest
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>>65662>I'm not a fucking niggerYou are lying again, like when you said she isn't a whore, her schizophrenia, or whatever the fuck she has is rubbing off you, you stupid nigger
> why you hope she miscarriesIf your ESL soinigger self, procreates and has your spawn roam the earth we're doomed
< Yes you are gay, get that through your head
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>>65658no thats not the way. all he needs to do is just walk away
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>>65658>beat her so hard she miscarries out of fearwhat the fuck
>>65665tsmt
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OP u need to find self love/respect and hobbies. ur low self esteem and depression is obviously making u cope and think this is girl is it. What would u do if she were to cheat or leave you? since she gets attached quickly it wouldnt be a shock for her to cheat on someone who is "better". anyways just dont get her pregnant and tell her its way too soon for a baby & you're both unfit to be parents. Also set clear boundaries since its like shes controlling you
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first, what year of high school are you, OP?
second, and you may be too naive/retarded to see this, but as someone who has experience, this relationship is not going to last, and you are going to have to live with the shame of it having happened. not that you're going to change your course of action, but I just want to leave this here to say "I told you so".
<P.S., the following advice is more for lurkers in this thread.
someone mentioned Walt Bismarck. DO NOT listen to whatever advice that degenerate millennial goonnigger has to "offer". especially you, OP, in your state of mind. (his writings are self-admittedly highbrow jerk-off fantasies for himself)
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THAT SAID,
OP, congrats on making this entire thread jealous. yes, you are objectively being a retarded mongrel, but half of the "advice" you are getting is from selfish little fucks who are envious of the fact that you've stuck you penis into a girl's vagina.
it is clear at this point you are a lost cause, effectively a lolcow, and this thread is nothing more than a vicarious porn fantasy for anons to masturbate to. enjoy your IRL pussy, OP, and everyone else in this thread needs to take a hard look at themselves, because your "advice" is thinly veiled crab-in-a-bucket cope for your inceldom.
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>>65650Don't you remember who I am? I'm probably the only person in this thread who wants you to stay with the girl. Albeit it's only because you took her virginity like a retard, which I'm still suspicious on but I'll take your word for it. The advice isn't just "break up with her", that's never what I said. I and many others are telling you to BE FIRM, SET BOUNDARIES, AND BE AN EXAMPLE FOR HER TO LOOK UP TO. Instead, you submitted to her whims to have all of the premarital sex she wants and you've only barely addressed all of her other problems like the weed addiction. You should of never had sex with her so you could take this slower, since if she seemed unfixable, which it really is starting to seem that way, you could of just left. Now you put yourself in this situation and you aren't doing nearly enough in your power to try to change her for the better, which now you're even entertaining the idea of you both being parents to her? I know you said you wouldn't do it now, but you shouldn't be entertaining this idea with her at all when she says SHE WANTS TO BE PREGNANT WITH YOUR BABY RIGHT NOW. Do you not see the glaring issue with this? This girl has severe attachment issues, thinks of lust as love and a way to show it to you, severely mentally ill, and has horrible influences around her. As
>>65642 said, women don't have agency. They're just drops in the ocean. They go with the flow and their environment influences them and what they believe. Can the blind lead another blind person through a maze? Because that's effectively what you're trying to do. Even worse is the fact that she has even greater influencers of wickedness in her life, being her entirely family and effectively her whole social group except you. You are a blind person trying to lead another blind person through a maze full of demons. There's no advice to give except to grow some balls and improve yourself for the better to be a role model for this girl, which you've said you'll do, but have failed horribly at. The other option is to leave; to accept the fact you massively fucked up and created another useless whore of a "woman" that will never fulfill her purpose.
>>65642Tsmt, you should definitely consider these words OP. My ex-gf was a "judeo-Christian" who had some trad beliefs and I was able to influence her into being racist, but because her entire network of friends were pooners, trannies, and shitlibs in general, she eventually broke up with me because I was "too controlling" because I didn't let her get a perm and red-dyed hair. I saw her at the store I worked at not long ago and unsurprisingly, her hair looks fucking stupid like I told her it would be, which my coworker who saw her on a separate occasion said the same thing before I could geg.
You're the man, so take authority in the relationship. My best advice for OP is to try to make her cut out all bad influences from her life, but that's going to be difficult or impossible because you're effectively telling her to cut out all of her family (whom she lives with) and friends. Stop coping and realize the incredibly dire situation you've put yourself in. Fixing this girl is practically impossible because you need to somehow separate her from everyone she knows.
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>>65681OP is not going to take this advice because his schizophrenic BPD girlfriend wears the pants in this relationship. If this wasn't the case — if OP wasn't a desperate loser whose lack of self respect enables him to live out the plapjak meme — then he would not be dating a trailer-trash art hoe.
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>should of №65685[Quote]
>>65678well said
this does call me out for not really being able to offer much advice, but i still feel like op could have given his virginity to a better woman
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>someone mentioned Walt Bismarck. DO NOT listen to whatever advice that degenerate millennial goonnigger has to "offer". especially you, OP, in your state of mind. (his writings are self-admittedly highbrow jerk-off fantasies for himself)
I’ll admit that I totally misread the situation as the advice he gives about women are for very different sorts of men. Doe I do think he does some good work with the Tortuga Society and whatnot helping out upwardly mobile young ARYANS despite his obvious moral failings.
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>>65696Yeah that article you linked was really gay, but I agreed with what you said in the reply.
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get the impression from that article that walt is a secular jewish band kid who discovered the alt right through pilleater and tried to make politics his thing
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>>65594wtf you are the eating disorder jojos avatarfag? insane i never expected that
>I don't think she'd much like that, I really hate to sound mean but she is quite a bit heavy and doesn't like too much exerciseyou have to market it as a social activity to bond over. itll give her a good discipline thatll actually convince her to get off of her bad habits. if she isnt spending her time doing something productive, whats stopping her from doing something destructive out of boredom?
>>65607>>65615id have to agree. im just here to see how this all plays out at this point.
>>65628did you know that this is a completely different girl from the original post? im assuming you didnt read all 300+ messages
>>65630lienuke. it represents instability. its like a poisonous frog that shows its colors to ward predators.
>>65642this is what i was thinking.
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>>65650>literal falsenvke, literally no other girl has ever given me any kind of attention like this and that's finehave you tried talking to them?
>why would I try to find another girl when none of them have the same kind of sense of humor, the same way of carrying a conversation, the same way of being energetic enough to brighten my whole day, why would I want another girl when I already love her and she loves me? that's why I'm coping about everything, all of your advice is just large-scale negativity about how shes so horrible and I need to break up with her, when all I'm looking for is advice on what to say or do about specific situations that come upkinda real asf
>>65665this
>>65677hes in college afaik. also i agree.
>>65678>OP, congrats on making this entire thread jealous.didnt read the thread award
<if this isnt bait, you are naive if you think that OP is the first soyteen to ever have a girlfriend or any romantic/sexual experience.
>>65681i personally think that OP should stay with her as well but he doesnt have the spine for it. he needs to become a leader and an example to follow. i agree with your post
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>get the impression from that article that walt is a secular jewish band kid who discovered the alt right through pilleater and tried to make politics his thingNah Walt was an og alt-right nigga.
https://murdoch-murdoch.net/html/walt-bismarck.htmlHe’s also Irish not Jewish.
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>hes in college afaik. also i agree.
He’s in high school
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>>65792The OG alt-right was atheist and really gay and stupid.
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>>65767>did you know that this is a completely different girl from the original post? im assuming you didnt read all 300+ messagestold op to not bother with any women
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>lienuke. it represents instability. its like a poisonous frog that shows its colors to ward predators.
all women represent instability at this point in the cycle. id rather orgasm with the hottest ones
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Tee bee aych just become your atman and leave women because women are naturally infernal now and they will just drag you down if you havent dragged/be born down your soul at this point in time anyway
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>>65792unfunny show hate right wing culture its so gay its almost as bad as left wing im not a centrist or whatever but the right wing since post the medieval ages to speak in dualism because of course for them it was tradition or not but since then like even the scholastic schools was a descent and if they were clowns then this guy walt bismark (crypto jew) (if not in race in spirit) is a clown (probably not even human)
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>Tee bee aych just become your atman and leave women because women are naturally infernal now and they will just drag you down if you havent dragged/be born down your soul at this point in time anyway
Indian or Evolian call it
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Welp this thread is DNB I dinna think there’s much more to say. Moral of the story is that being a faggot will screw you over even if ye can get pussy.
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I have a lot to respond too it seems, sorry for taking so long I'm just busy and don't have as much time for the sharty now
>>65663I'm not gay or ESL dumbass
>>65669I know my self esteem isn't too great but I don't think I'm really depressed, I can take care of myself just fine other than eating enough, also if she were to cheat I would definitely leave her, I know it seems like I'm making excuses for a lot but cheating is something I could never tolerate, at that point if she cheated or something I wouldn't even care if she died
>tell her its way too soon for a baby & you're both unfit to be parentsbasically what I did tell her, she isn't confident that she'd be a good mother anyway and wants to wait until she gets better mentally and stops cutting herself to have kids
>>65678it doesn't seem like anyone is that jealous of me but I am happier with her than I was before
>>65681you're right about her family being terrible but she only has one friend and she hates her family so as soon as we can move out she'll be away from the majority of her bad influences
>>65684she doesn't live in a trailer home you gay nigger
>>65767yeah, I guess I've done well to not be a total attentionwhore since no one could tell
<that does make sense, also she loves going on walks with me so its not like shes a total lardass that never moves, she just eats too much
>>65768yes, with zero success
<exactly, I guess I haven't talked about her good qualities enough but she really does have a great personality and I love talking with her and just being around her
>>65793I am
>>65894I'm not a faggot
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>>>65894
>I'm not a faggot
You are *being* a faggot.
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she told me something a bit concerning today, she told me she gets turned on thinking about human flesh and blood and stuff and said she wants to bite me next time we have sex, I don't really know what to think of this and tbh I'm kind of just worried about any potential bite marks bruising or something
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little update for the niglets that care, nothing has really happened but she hasn't smoked in over a week and says she still thinks weed isn't that bad but will only smoke on the weekends now, she also worries about my eating a lot and thinks I need to eat more and gain weight so I told her I'd stop losing weight if she stopped smoking and she agreed to try
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>>66188>gets turned on thinking about human flesh and bloodthat's kinda fucked up, and I hope for your sake that ts doesn't escalate. don't do anything that makes u uncomfortable, she'll understand
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>>66188I haven't replied to this thread in a while, but please get out of there OP. I know you care about this girl and all, but it is going to end in disaster for the both of you.
I will pray for you and her.
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>>66188OP. It’s currently 1:36 in the morning where i’m from, and I have exams tomorrow at 8. I read the whole entire thread word for word, bar for bar. You’ve received a lot of shitty advice from incels, virgins, KHVs, whatever you want to call them. I hope you’re smart enough to distinguish bad actors from people who actually make an attempt at knocking some sense into you.
As one guy who’s talked to a bunch of girls over the years, and who has had his fair share of both good and bad experiences…
PLEASE, for the love of everything on this holy fucking earth, disengage! It’s not too late. It’s not over. It’s not the worst thing you can do right now brother.
I know you love this girl. It’s obvious from the way you speak about her, you care about her and want the best from her. But you’re slipping, man. You’ve dropped down from the morals you had at the start. And that’s understandable! I’ve been in love too, I’ve dropped some parts of me that i no longer agreed with, after spending time with others. I consider myself to have grown, but brother, what you’ve demonstrated isn’t growth. You’re in a bad position and it only gets worse, with all that flesh biting shit. I’m sorry to say, but it’s absolutely horrifying. From every word you said here, there’s absolutely not a snowballs chance in hell you are gonna end up married to this girl. She’s severely mentally ill and you’re completely infatuated with her. THIS IS THE WORST COMBINATION YOU CAN FACE. I’m not going to blame her for her illnesses, or blame you for liking the girl. I’m just saying that this can’t end well.
You know her for a month, a God damn month, and you’re telling us about her wanting to get pregnant by you? Brother… I fear you don’t understand how fucking awful everything you’re going through is. The love your heart is experiencing drowns out every single other alarm bell that should be ringing. If you keep talking to her and trying to help, and she keeps doing these scary fucking things like not quitting drugs or being into flesh/blood/whatever, without any major signs of improvement soon, you’re just going to make it worse for you two when you either
1. eventually get tired of her/ get pushed past a red line, can’t take it anymore
2.she eventually gets tired of you, or you mess something up causing her to develop intense sadness, resulting in self harm or worse. :(
Again. It isn’t your fault for liking her. That’s fine, even if it isn’t completely sound. What is NOT fine is even entertaining the thought of a serious relationship with her. What you said about her father shotgunning you into a wedding shook me to my core man. No man, no kid as young as you should ever have to go through this. You may not even realize how scary this situation is. You don’t have jobs, how can you support a child? How can you make sure that the child won’t become an awful person because their parents are just kids who have no clue what they’re doing?
Brother, you’re responsible for everything you say to this woman. She very obviously does not have mental capacity for autonomy emotionally. Not blaming, just stating facts. YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF HOW THIS GOES. My advice to you is to break this off. If you feel like you can maturely still be friends and in good terms after the breakup, do so. If not, separate. It’s very likely that in the case of a fight between you two (P.S. fights are inevitable in any relationship. You are two separate human beings, you WILL disagree), you’ll get blamed wrongly, and you’ll take that blame because you can’t possibly imagine it’s not your fault. I don’t want that to happen to you man.
I’m not gonna preach any jesus shit to you, it’s obvious it’s not what you care about right now. Right now, you need to care about NOT having a god damn child at high school age with a girl you, between you and me, barely know more of than what she hastily shared to you.
Today may not be that day brother but please, reflect on this. I will pray for you either way
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>>66220wholeheartedly agree with this.
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>>66220THIS. SO MUCH THIS. Thank you for taking the time to read this thread. Dude needs help and it’s not gonna get any better if he stays
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>>65893neither evola is alright tho
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OP gave up award
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>>66220weirdly enough i think this might be the most reasonable thing i've read in a while
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>>66220sort of this, but i think its important that OP should stay with her just a bit longer for the experience, he seems to have learned a lot since first making this thread.
Also not only am i not one of the bad actors, but my opinions are more tried and true as i have done quite a bit more than just "talked to a bunch of girls over the years" as you say.
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>>62269He knew from the beginning.
Also this thread was like a book(not in an im a retarded adhd nigger who cant read a few paragraphs), like a great story with many different characters and twists and turns and developments, character development and plot twists, if all this thread is fake then bravo go be a writer, but if not this is depressing. But the read was great
To OP, you say you are empty, before girls you didnt do much and you spend all of your time doing nothing, being depressed and having low self esteem, with no skills in any particular field. You were a broken person to begin with, the recipe for a relationship that will explode is, 2 broken people being obsessivly dependant on each other who just entered a relationship, they think they see themselves as the escape from their problems without having to face their demons themselves alone.
And DO NOT HAVE SEX, you're unskilled, depressed, with a lot of issues and you're kind of a pushover, how do you think you can get a decent paying job to be able to pay for a house and child expenses? YOU'RE POTENTIALLY RISKING A KID IN A BROKEN IMPOVERISHED HOME.
Think with your brain and not your dick or your love heart or whatever, what will the future hold for the both of you? Both of you seem unskilled in any particular field and with accounting thats gonna get replaced by AI, the job market is always messy and shaky, now people are needed to learn skills on the internet and try their best(just a degree wont carry them anymore), people need to be disciplined and willing to learn a lot of skills just to land a job, both of you are unstable, mentally ill and toxically dependant on each other, too much time spending in lala land and not preparing for the future, if you keep going at this rate, reality sets in with financial problems and all other problem life throws at you and her, then fights happen and the toxic dependancy becomes a horrible explosion, the relationship is so fucked up, you guys are heavily dependant on each other but hate each other constantly and think of each other as just dragging me down/ being not able to support a household, OP said he wants a child badly. And its gonna be years of abuse and poverty, this is just talking about the logistical problems and not the moral decay, you went from a Christian to be a pre marital sex haver, its a slippery slope which is moral decay. Moral decay such as sex and drugs are a coping mechanism to generate dopamine and feel good chemicals when life is hard, so when life and relationships get fucked up and hard(life is never perfect), you guys might end up having degenerate sex or drugs or alcohol resulting in the classic broken alcoholic home
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>>66378I can imagine the household/"family" becoming something like this. for reasons in my previous post.
To OP break up with her if you arent prepared to dedicate to facing complete change or else you will end up like the broken drug addicted impoverished man tied to a toxic relationship with a kid.
If you want serious change and want a good life with her then immedietaly stop the slippery slope of moral decay. A few sessions of pre marital sex turns into sex frequently, then the sex becomes more degenerate and you end up with a kid at a young age and you cant afford.
Some stress of life comes and she starts cutting, and if it keeps snowballing with all the other stresses she might even do something severe,
She might even get you addicted to drugs, thats what junkies do, they spread drugs to the people they love, and with drugs, you two might go from weed to stronger stuff like shrooms or lsd to harder stuff like heroin(you said she knows a lot of shady people like drug dealers who actively push drugs).
So stop the moral decay immediately and return to Christian morals and Christianize this woman as you have planned originally.
CREATE A FUTURE PLAN. Financial problems break so many couples who are fated to be perfect but the reality is so tough, they end up divorcing or breaking up, try to be more disciplined, try to acquire more skills and knowledge, create some career plan and think deeply about how you would feed a future household, how you would buy a house, how you would earn money just to be able to grant your kids a comfortable life with no worries about food or securities
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OP I think you should keep having sex with her often. It gives you lots of validation and has lots of health benefits and it bonds you to her. And you should knock her up it’ll feel super good and that’s literally what sex is designed for.
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>>66379>and Christianize this womanGEG if your going to post bait dont trick me into reading multiple paragraphs first
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>>66191we haven't done anything relating to that
>>66197shes not gonna murder me or anything
>>66220I can't just leave her, I really don't doubt that she'd commit suicide if I did and it wouldn't be right to spend so much time with her and make her feel so loved just to disengage because shes not mentally right, besides, I don't really want to, if it doesn't last I'd rather it end naturally than just break up with her out of the blue, and besides, we aren't gonna have kids at this age, I'm not trying to just play off everything you're saying but I really cant just break it off with her otherwise it'd be even more disastrous, shes genuinely obsessed with me and I'm a bit ashamed to admit that I'm quite attached too, I understand this is all a bad situation but its what I'm stuck with and I'll make the best of it
<sorry for taking so long to respond, as i've said before I get very busy with school and her
>>66346gave up on what??
>>66378I'd like to say this is all fake and I just wanted to practice writing like the 4cuck larpers but its all real, maybe I should write an autobiography from the third person perspective geg, I don't think this is all that depressing albeit, its not so bad to be dependent on someone else
>YOU'RE POTENTIALLY RISKING A KID IN A BROKEN IMPOVERISHED HOME.we aren't gonna have kids anytime soon and besides my family is well off enough and my mom wouldn't kick me out no matter what, I know it sounds selfish and makes me seem like a shit son but its true
> you guys are heavily dependant on each other but hate each other constantly and think of each other as just dragging me down/ being not able to support a householdI don't think of her like that and she definitely doesn't see me that way, shes confident that we'd be great parents and I know we wouldn't be but I'm not just gonna tell her I'm a skill-less loser with no potential
>you guys might end up having degenerate sex or drugs or alcohol resulting in the classic broken alcoholic homeI still don't drink or smoke or do any drugs but I suppose that doesn't really mean much
>>66379I'm really not good at planning things for the future or even thinking about this kind of thing, not bad advice doe
>>66380not bait, though I'm not sure if its a good sign for my life if you think this is bait
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>>66378>>66379lol guys he was never a christian geg
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>>66412>SAAR you are blackpill jeet for thinking its impossible to show a hyper-sexual out of shape selfharming junkie(who gave up xer virginity in less than a week) religion and its principles, let alone basic self-respectYou have to little experience with women and life itself to be seriously interacting in this thread little buddy..
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Let this fuckass thread die it’s over boys
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>>66557This. OP already lost and everyone here is repeating verbatim the same common sense that OP refuses to acknowledge or copes with in every reply. There's nothing more to be said. It's over.
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>>66591You're right, this thread needs to die, OP can't be saved and we are going in circles saying the same shit
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gdsfca
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>>66557give me an update if ur still there op
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>>67357why? so you can jerk off to it? weirdo.
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pee pee poop pop OP is a stinky nigger
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(OP) is dead btw
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>>67357nothing much has really happened, if something important happens I'll give more of an update but for now all that's really happened is my mom walked in on me and my girlfriend having sex and doesn't want her over at our house anymore since I have little brothers which I guess I understand but my girlfriend is sad about it and thinks my mom hates her, on a more positive note she hasn't smoked weed in 2 weeks and hasn't cut herself in a little less than a week, I'm probably gonna see her this weekend but if I go to her house my mom will probably yell at me since she thinks I'm gonna get her pregnant o algo
>>67387he only likes it when bad things happen to women so he probably cant jerk off to this geg
>>67391I'm white doe
>>67435aren't you a funny little fella
>>67443no I'm very much alive, although I do have a bump on my leg that looks like skin cancer so I should probably get that checked out
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>>67470I'm jealous of you dude. You're probably younger than me and even though your girlfriend is a girlfailure at least you have one, and the fact you and her constantly want to have sex and it's probably a no-brainer that whenever you hang out that's what you're going to do. I fuckin hate that my parents were so morally strict and raised me so sheltered and now I'm a shy goody-two-shoes who is too scared to break any rule, except now all my desires are so repressed they have warped into something really grotesque and disgusting because I have no outlet.
anyway bro sorry for making this about me, but YGMI. everyone ITT is telling you you're making a mistake and tbh you probably are, but you know what, OP, who cares? you're gonna make mistakes and learn from them and you're gonna emerge all the stronger. godspeed.
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>>67587my parents aren't that morally strict but they've always been suspicious of me for things I've never done, also I don't really look forward that much to having sex with my girlfriend but I do enjoy it enough that I do it for her each time we hang out, hopefully I'm not making a mistake being with her since she really is my whole world at this point, I love her more than anything and I'm actually a bit upset right now because she smoked weed again and called me and when I got mad at her and told her I'm not gonna talk to her while shes high and that I want her to just quit already she started crying about how she's sorry for being a bad girlfriend and that she should just die already and stuff, she threw up all over the place then went to sleep and just now I was talking to my friends but they don't really wanna play Xbox or anything so I'm sitting alone in my room feeling terrible for making my girlfriend cry even though I was just trying to be firm and not be a bitch this time like I always am, I'm so tired of the way I act but as soon as I do something different I regret it. also don't feel bad for making your reply about you because I enjoy reading about other people's experiences and this thread is basically just 300 posts of me talking about my retarded decisions and coping about random shit.
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>>67610I don’t know how you can deal with her guilt tripping you all the time man. She seems like a master manipulator. And honestly does she even want to be with you if she won’t compromise any of her morals (cutting herself and smoking weed) for you? Because you sure have compromised a whole heap for her. She’s expecting so much out of you and you deliver, you expect the bare minimum out of her and she does not. Think deeply about that and have a firm conversation with her
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>>67615I cant really think of anything I've compromised from her but you might be right
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Incredible thread, read the whole thing from top to bottom. The blowjob behind a Walmart was a truly incredible turning point. OP you're kinda retarded but I probably wouldn't do better if I had the chance. Fuck my piece of shit chud incel life
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>>67652How tall are you without shoes?
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>>677286'6 why? my face isn't that good though which is one reason I never had a girlfriend before this but my girlfriend says I'm handsome and stuff like that and I'm pretty sure she means it, I had a "glow up"of sorts over the summer albeit seeing as I lost about 40 pounds so maybe I do look better now
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>>>67728
High IQ advice dump:
Limit physical affection if she smokes weed or threaten it. threaten to break up or tactically imply you'll love her less if she doesn't take meds or therapy. if you got fit then you WOULD get approached by higher value women. Tobacco preferable to weed and nicotine gun preferable to tobacco. A few contradictions in the things you've said she told you (lies), hold some healthy suspicion and vigilance. Figure out a career path (but not electrical engineering because that is my no-competition high-pay failsafe), trades are generally low-IQ so bear that in mind. To eat lots think of food in terms of nutrients (autistically, eg. fastfood is nutritionally deficit and heart clogging so it is gross, I need to get 500 more calories by the end of the day, I should eat some carrots since I haven't gotten much vutamin A recently). It is okay to court a girl who isn't naturally attracted to you - in fact, this is preferable as you are (reportedly) ugly and have a few issues so they are high value women; obviously don't go for anyone out of your league but try reading "The art of seduction" o algo. Read "The body keeps the score" or some relevant mental health books (obviously pirate them). Read "Extreme ownership", ask anons for useful books like "What everyBODY is saying. Tell her the flesh and blood thing is creepy and makes you uncomfortable. Try gaslighting her or using other "abusive" (gigachad) tactics. The point is, stop and think and if you want to solve any problems. Remain the tiniest bit analytical (autistic) if you want to succeed.
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>>67799This is not good advice geg
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>>>67799 (You)
>This is not good advice geg
Well he isn't following other people's advice, better to follow "not good advice" than be completely retarded
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>>67799I don't really wanna get with any other girls, I love my girlfriend more than anything and in my opinion I'm lucky to have her, I just want her to stop smoking and vaping, I don't really care whether she does therapy or takes meds or anything
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>>68426You’re a horrible boyfriend if you don’t care about her not getting therapy or going on meds. You don’t care about her and want her for personal gratification and sex.
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>>68437no, I say that because therapy doesn't do shit and meds will just make her mood worse, antidepressants don't work, also tbh I don't even like having sex with her that much I just do it to make her happy because shes obsessed with sex, I just want to make her happy and safe and comfortable
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>>68526well I'm definitely not any kind of celibate now geg
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bump. tell us what has been happening since, OP.
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>>68527Yeah because you are normie nigger, kys
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GEG was going to ask for a tldr of the last month but saw theres been almost zero updates
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>>70711nothing much, I still see her at school every day and we hang out everyday weekend, she quit vaping and doesn't smoke weed unless she's with her friend which I think is definitely good, she also promised she'd stop cutting herself and while I know that's not gonna last atleast she wont do it every single time shes stressed or sad, though she has somewhat negatively influenced me in one way in the past few weeks and that's that I started smoking cigarettes since she let me try one but that's not the worst thing ever
>>70712I don't think I'm really a normie since I still have pretty bad social skills and not many friends but I'm not a total giga-autist that cant talk to anyone
>>70825yeah I haven't really been on the sharty as much especially since I'm pretty busy with school and stuff and there's not really been much going on, I know some people like to read my retarded blogposts but the majority of the users on this site would rather not see my thread every day, I don't want this to get completely slid but if it does it wouldn't really matter, anyhow there's not really much to say about this relationship anymore, on Thursday we'll have been dating for 2 months and I don't feel like we'd break up for any reasons so far, I love her very much and enjoy all the time we spend together and I know she loves me too, I've been able to somewhat influence some of her political views too since while she isn't dumb shes not very well educated so even with my average education I'm able to appear very well learned and more intelligent so she believes almost everything I say about politics meaning that I've been able to tell her how Jews run the government and all the other chuddy shit she doesn't know
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>>70865/r9k/ is a shithole, seeing your posts wabag
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nPGBeIGU fucking VVQN…