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I wanna ask you guys some advice, or really I just want to talk about this and get some opinions, there's this girl in my 3rd block class in school (accounting) and I suppose you could say I have a bit of a crush on her, the thing is I haven't even talked to her, she sits in the row behind me pretty close to me and it feels like shes all I can think about every time I see her, she seems nice but shes really quiet and doesn't talk to anyone, we have the same lunch period and she always sits completely alone as do I so I was thinking I could try talking to her there by asking if I could sit with her but I'm very worried she'll find me weird or annoying, I'm also a bit worried she might be a mega toxic liberal o algo since she has bright blue hair and a bunch of piercings but its not my biggest worry, i couldn't even really tell you what I like about her she just seems so perfect, shes kind of short but not super short, a little bit chubby, she's probably around my age but I'm pretty sure shes a little older, and she always has this look on her face that I just love, I don't stare or anything like a retarded gigasperg but I always find myself looking at her at lunch evendoe she never notices me, I'm just worried she'll think I'm boring or weird since I don't really stand out at all, I'm tall but I don't do any sports or anything so I really am just a boring person I guess, I don't know I just want your guys' opinions or advice about this, thanks for reading
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I don't actually know her name either but I think I once heard the teacher call it and it was a nice name, she might've been talking about another girl albeit
>inb4 fakecel faggot
I've never had a girlfriend or anything but I'm not a total truecel since girls do sometimes talk to me for answers on assignments or to ask me how tall I am
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OP gave up award
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>>66220weirdly enough i think this might be the most reasonable thing i've read in a while
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>>66220sort of this, but i think its important that OP should stay with her just a bit longer for the experience, he seems to have learned a lot since first making this thread.
Also not only am i not one of the bad actors, but my opinions are more tried and true as i have done quite a bit more than just "talked to a bunch of girls over the years" as you say.
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>>62269He knew from the beginning.
Also this thread was like a book(not in an im a retarded adhd nigger who cant read a few paragraphs), like a great story with many different characters and twists and turns and developments, character development and plot twists, if all this thread is fake then bravo go be a writer, but if not this is depressing. But the read was great
To OP, you say you are empty, before girls you didnt do much and you spend all of your time doing nothing, being depressed and having low self esteem, with no skills in any particular field. You were a broken person to begin with, the recipe for a relationship that will explode is, 2 broken people being obsessivly dependant on each other who just entered a relationship, they think they see themselves as the escape from their problems without having to face their demons themselves alone.
And DO NOT HAVE SEX, you're unskilled, depressed, with a lot of issues and you're kind of a pushover, how do you think you can get a decent paying job to be able to pay for a house and child expenses? YOU'RE POTENTIALLY RISKING A KID IN A BROKEN IMPOVERISHED HOME.
Think with your brain and not your dick or your love heart or whatever, what will the future hold for the both of you? Both of you seem unskilled in any particular field and with accounting thats gonna get replaced by AI, the job market is always messy and shaky, now people are needed to learn skills on the internet and try their best(just a degree wont carry them anymore), people need to be disciplined and willing to learn a lot of skills just to land a job, both of you are unstable, mentally ill and toxically dependant on each other, too much time spending in lala land and not preparing for the future, if you keep going at this rate, reality sets in with financial problems and all other problem life throws at you and her, then fights happen and the toxic dependancy becomes a horrible explosion, the relationship is so fucked up, you guys are heavily dependant on each other but hate each other constantly and think of each other as just dragging me down/ being not able to support a household, OP said he wants a child badly. And its gonna be years of abuse and poverty, this is just talking about the logistical problems and not the moral decay, you went from a Christian to be a pre marital sex haver, its a slippery slope which is moral decay. Moral decay such as sex and drugs are a coping mechanism to generate dopamine and feel good chemicals when life is hard, so when life and relationships get fucked up and hard(life is never perfect), you guys might end up having degenerate sex or drugs or alcohol resulting in the classic broken alcoholic home
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>>66378I can imagine the household/"family" becoming something like this. for reasons in my previous post.
To OP break up with her if you arent prepared to dedicate to facing complete change or else you will end up like the broken drug addicted impoverished man tied to a toxic relationship with a kid.
If you want serious change and want a good life with her then immedietaly stop the slippery slope of moral decay. A few sessions of pre marital sex turns into sex frequently, then the sex becomes more degenerate and you end up with a kid at a young age and you cant afford.
Some stress of life comes and she starts cutting, and if it keeps snowballing with all the other stresses she might even do something severe,
She might even get you addicted to drugs, thats what junkies do, they spread drugs to the people they love, and with drugs, you two might go from weed to stronger stuff like shrooms or lsd to harder stuff like heroin(you said she knows a lot of shady people like drug dealers who actively push drugs).
So stop the moral decay immediately and return to Christian morals and Christianize this woman as you have planned originally.
CREATE A FUTURE PLAN. Financial problems break so many couples who are fated to be perfect but the reality is so tough, they end up divorcing or breaking up, try to be more disciplined, try to acquire more skills and knowledge, create some career plan and think deeply about how you would feed a future household, how you would buy a house, how you would earn money just to be able to grant your kids a comfortable life with no worries about food or securities
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OP I think you should keep having sex with her often. It gives you lots of validation and has lots of health benefits and it bonds you to her. And you should knock her up it’ll feel super good and that’s literally what sex is designed for.
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>>66379>and Christianize this womanGEG if your going to post bait dont trick me into reading multiple paragraphs first
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>>66191we haven't done anything relating to that
>>66197shes not gonna murder me or anything
>>66220I can't just leave her, I really don't doubt that she'd commit suicide if I did and it wouldn't be right to spend so much time with her and make her feel so loved just to disengage because shes not mentally right, besides, I don't really want to, if it doesn't last I'd rather it end naturally than just break up with her out of the blue, and besides, we aren't gonna have kids at this age, I'm not trying to just play off everything you're saying but I really cant just break it off with her otherwise it'd be even more disastrous, shes genuinely obsessed with me and I'm a bit ashamed to admit that I'm quite attached too, I understand this is all a bad situation but its what I'm stuck with and I'll make the best of it
<sorry for taking so long to respond, as i've said before I get very busy with school and her
>>66346gave up on what??
>>66378I'd like to say this is all fake and I just wanted to practice writing like the 4cuck larpers but its all real, maybe I should write an autobiography from the third person perspective geg, I don't think this is all that depressing albeit, its not so bad to be dependent on someone else
>YOU'RE POTENTIALLY RISKING A KID IN A BROKEN IMPOVERISHED HOME.we aren't gonna have kids anytime soon and besides my family is well off enough and my mom wouldn't kick me out no matter what, I know it sounds selfish and makes me seem like a shit son but its true
> you guys are heavily dependant on each other but hate each other constantly and think of each other as just dragging me down/ being not able to support a householdI don't think of her like that and she definitely doesn't see me that way, shes confident that we'd be great parents and I know we wouldn't be but I'm not just gonna tell her I'm a skill-less loser with no potential
>you guys might end up having degenerate sex or drugs or alcohol resulting in the classic broken alcoholic homeI still don't drink or smoke or do any drugs but I suppose that doesn't really mean much
>>66379I'm really not good at planning things for the future or even thinking about this kind of thing, not bad advice doe
>>66380not bait, though I'm not sure if its a good sign for my life if you think this is bait
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>>66378>>66379lol guys he was never a christian geg
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>>66412>SAAR you are blackpill jeet for thinking its impossible to show a hyper-sexual out of shape selfharming junkie(who gave up xer virginity in less than a week) religion and its principles, let alone basic self-respectYou have to little experience with women and life itself to be seriously interacting in this thread little buddy..
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Let this fuckass thread die it’s over boys
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>>66557This. OP already lost and everyone here is repeating verbatim the same common sense that OP refuses to acknowledge or copes with in every reply. There's nothing more to be said. It's over.
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>>66591You're right, this thread needs to die, OP can't be saved and we are going in circles saying the same shit
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gdsfca
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>>66557give me an update if ur still there op
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>>67357why? so you can jerk off to it? weirdo.
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pee pee poop pop OP is a stinky nigger
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(OP) is dead btw
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>>67357nothing much has really happened, if something important happens I'll give more of an update but for now all that's really happened is my mom walked in on me and my girlfriend having sex and doesn't want her over at our house anymore since I have little brothers which I guess I understand but my girlfriend is sad about it and thinks my mom hates her, on a more positive note she hasn't smoked weed in 2 weeks and hasn't cut herself in a little less than a week, I'm probably gonna see her this weekend but if I go to her house my mom will probably yell at me since she thinks I'm gonna get her pregnant o algo
>>67387he only likes it when bad things happen to women so he probably cant jerk off to this geg
>>67391I'm white doe
>>67435aren't you a funny little fella
>>67443no I'm very much alive, although I do have a bump on my leg that looks like skin cancer so I should probably get that checked out
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>>67470I'm jealous of you dude. You're probably younger than me and even though your girlfriend is a girlfailure at least you have one, and the fact you and her constantly want to have sex and it's probably a no-brainer that whenever you hang out that's what you're going to do. I fuckin hate that my parents were so morally strict and raised me so sheltered and now I'm a shy goody-two-shoes who is too scared to break any rule, except now all my desires are so repressed they have warped into something really grotesque and disgusting because I have no outlet.
anyway bro sorry for making this about me, but YGMI. everyone ITT is telling you you're making a mistake and tbh you probably are, but you know what, OP, who cares? you're gonna make mistakes and learn from them and you're gonna emerge all the stronger. godspeed.
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>>67587my parents aren't that morally strict but they've always been suspicious of me for things I've never done, also I don't really look forward that much to having sex with my girlfriend but I do enjoy it enough that I do it for her each time we hang out, hopefully I'm not making a mistake being with her since she really is my whole world at this point, I love her more than anything and I'm actually a bit upset right now because she smoked weed again and called me and when I got mad at her and told her I'm not gonna talk to her while shes high and that I want her to just quit already she started crying about how she's sorry for being a bad girlfriend and that she should just die already and stuff, she threw up all over the place then went to sleep and just now I was talking to my friends but they don't really wanna play Xbox or anything so I'm sitting alone in my room feeling terrible for making my girlfriend cry even though I was just trying to be firm and not be a bitch this time like I always am, I'm so tired of the way I act but as soon as I do something different I regret it. also don't feel bad for making your reply about you because I enjoy reading about other people's experiences and this thread is basically just 300 posts of me talking about my retarded decisions and coping about random shit.
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>>67610I don’t know how you can deal with her guilt tripping you all the time man. She seems like a master manipulator. And honestly does she even want to be with you if she won’t compromise any of her morals (cutting herself and smoking weed) for you? Because you sure have compromised a whole heap for her. She’s expecting so much out of you and you deliver, you expect the bare minimum out of her and she does not. Think deeply about that and have a firm conversation with her
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>>67615I cant really think of anything I've compromised from her but you might be right
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Incredible thread, read the whole thing from top to bottom. The blowjob behind a Walmart was a truly incredible turning point. OP you're kinda retarded but I probably wouldn't do better if I had the chance. Fuck my piece of shit chud incel life
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>>67652How tall are you without shoes?
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>>677286'6 why? my face isn't that good though which is one reason I never had a girlfriend before this but my girlfriend says I'm handsome and stuff like that and I'm pretty sure she means it, I had a "glow up"of sorts over the summer albeit seeing as I lost about 40 pounds so maybe I do look better now
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>>>67728
High IQ advice dump:
Limit physical affection if she smokes weed or threaten it. threaten to break up or tactically imply you'll love her less if she doesn't take meds or therapy. if you got fit then you WOULD get approached by higher value women. Tobacco preferable to weed and nicotine gun preferable to tobacco. A few contradictions in the things you've said she told you (lies), hold some healthy suspicion and vigilance. Figure out a career path (but not electrical engineering because that is my no-competition high-pay failsafe), trades are generally low-IQ so bear that in mind. To eat lots think of food in terms of nutrients (autistically, eg. fastfood is nutritionally deficit and heart clogging so it is gross, I need to get 500 more calories by the end of the day, I should eat some carrots since I haven't gotten much vutamin A recently). It is okay to court a girl who isn't naturally attracted to you - in fact, this is preferable as you are (reportedly) ugly and have a few issues so they are high value women; obviously don't go for anyone out of your league but try reading "The art of seduction" o algo. Read "The body keeps the score" or some relevant mental health books (obviously pirate them). Read "Extreme ownership", ask anons for useful books like "What everyBODY is saying. Tell her the flesh and blood thing is creepy and makes you uncomfortable. Try gaslighting her or using other "abusive" (gigachad) tactics. The point is, stop and think and if you want to solve any problems. Remain the tiniest bit analytical (autistic) if you want to succeed.
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>>67799This is not good advice geg
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>>>67799 (You)
>This is not good advice geg
Well he isn't following other people's advice, better to follow "not good advice" than be completely retarded
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>>67799I don't really wanna get with any other girls, I love my girlfriend more than anything and in my opinion I'm lucky to have her, I just want her to stop smoking and vaping, I don't really care whether she does therapy or takes meds or anything
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>>68426You’re a horrible boyfriend if you don’t care about her not getting therapy or going on meds. You don’t care about her and want her for personal gratification and sex.
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>>68437no, I say that because therapy doesn't do shit and meds will just make her mood worse, antidepressants don't work, also tbh I don't even like having sex with her that much I just do it to make her happy because shes obsessed with sex, I just want to make her happy and safe and comfortable
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>>68526well I'm definitely not any kind of celibate now geg
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bump. tell us what has been happening since, OP.
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>>68527Yeah because you are normie nigger, kys
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GEG was going to ask for a tldr of the last month but saw theres been almost zero updates
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>>70711nothing much, I still see her at school every day and we hang out everyday weekend, she quit vaping and doesn't smoke weed unless she's with her friend which I think is definitely good, she also promised she'd stop cutting herself and while I know that's not gonna last atleast she wont do it every single time shes stressed or sad, though she has somewhat negatively influenced me in one way in the past few weeks and that's that I started smoking cigarettes since she let me try one but that's not the worst thing ever
>>70712I don't think I'm really a normie since I still have pretty bad social skills and not many friends but I'm not a total giga-autist that cant talk to anyone
>>70825yeah I haven't really been on the sharty as much especially since I'm pretty busy with school and stuff and there's not really been much going on, I know some people like to read my retarded blogposts but the majority of the users on this site would rather not see my thread every day, I don't want this to get completely slid but if it does it wouldn't really matter, anyhow there's not really much to say about this relationship anymore, on Thursday we'll have been dating for 2 months and I don't feel like we'd break up for any reasons so far, I love her very much and enjoy all the time we spend together and I know she loves me too, I've been able to somewhat influence some of her political views too since while she isn't dumb shes not very well educated so even with my average education I'm able to appear very well learned and more intelligent so she believes almost everything I say about politics meaning that I've been able to tell her how Jews run the government and all the other chuddy shit she doesn't know
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>>70865/r9k/ is a shithole, seeing your posts wabag
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nPGBeIGU fucking VVQN…