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I’ve been contemplating my life recently and I’ve realized there’s not much going on for me. I spend my days working a shitty job and jerking off to whatever bullshit is on the front page of pornhub. I’m jewed out, have no friends, and no purpose. Why shouldn’t I just hop off a building or some shit? Why keep going? I need some hope /soy/

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Find others in your situation and start a sharty militia for the removal of browns

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Make the world a better place

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Guys can I get some serious shit here

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>>16834979
I'm not joking. Start an anti nigger/brown group and patrol your area. Theres nothing to lose

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>>16834983
For jannies patrol does not mean violence

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>>16834983
I think you’re too young to use this site

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>>>16834979
>I'm not joking. Start an anti nigger/brown group and patrol your area. Theres nothing to lose

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Do not go to 4chan, Reddit, or Discord. Stay away from sexually arousing content (this is the same as porn, btw). Make a habit out of staying away from that sort of thing and your mind will clear up, and you need to do it the hard way or you'll fill your time with some other mind-destroying vice. You need to take things one step at a time.

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>tl;dr
Get off the internet or any other shit you do all day or in free time
But just watch the video, save it and rewatch from time to time

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What do you like doing? Maybe go to trade school or college? Be useful to society.

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>>16834983
There's actually a lot to lose.
>>16834971 (OP)
OP, do you work out? How many hours of sleep do you get at night? How well do you eat? Outside of uncontrollable conditions (i.e. BPD), mental health is ultimately a reflection of your physical health. I'm serious. It is the single-most impactful thing on your mental health by far. There's also that it will effect your life in such a positive manner that your other problems (lack of friends, likely coming from a lack of self-confidence, which comes from hormones likely out of your control, except that working out completely changes your physiology and thus makes that genuinely go away), and from that, you can find a girlfriend and a (better) job, and then have kids, and then you will be really happy that you didn't throw your life away before it began. So go to the gym.

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>>16835012
that your other problems go away*

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>>16834971 (OP)
What do you believe in spiritually?

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>>16835020
I’m a Christian

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>>16835006
I like entomology but that’s a dying trade with AI taking over identification and study of insects. It hurts to see what I always dreamed of doing becoming obsolete

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>>16835012
I don’t have friends primarily because I’m fat and gay and a nazi.

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>>16834971 (OP)
At least you have a job man. I can't get one to save my life.
>have no friends
I've had a lot of shitty friends over the years. Being alone is better than being surrounded by shitty people.
>no purpose.
You have your peace, that's what alone people have. Yes, of course I wish I had friends and a partner. But I've been around enough bad people to know that loneliness can be a form of solitude. You have your own schedule to do what you want because you're alone.

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>>16835020
Flagroll geg. GymCHAD here: spirituality is a great avenue for finding self-purpose, but for me personally, I was too much of an asocial sperg to go anywhere near a church until I was a couple years into going to the gym. Consider this: have you even seen a very buff chad who's asocial or unpopular? It's not because only people who are successful/popular go to the gym, a lot of gymbros will tell you that they started out as lankey, unathletic losers. It actually transforms your brain in proportion to how much it's transformed your body. It also raises your IQ. I'm stressing this because I was given (and searched for) a ton of advice while in the same position as you, and it completely and totally worked to an unbelievable degree.

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>>16835086
I have no excuse to not go to the gym. I have money I have time, but I just don’t. Honestly I think my general laziness has ruined my life. I am the definition of Aristotle’s natural born slave. I don’t know how to feel about that.

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>>16835095
Do you not have any motivation to do anything greater?

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Where I live, being gay is pretty prosecuted (don’t blame them, if I had a choice I wouldn’t want to be a faggot) which makes it hard to meet new people. I try my best to blend in with my autism as well but it doesn’t work out. I’m just too spergy to make friends for a long time. though

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>>16835106
As I said, I want to be an entomologist- I want to make medicine and tools and use the most fascinating subset of creatures on this planet for good. But it’s so fucking hard to find any job in that field since ai took over. It’s all so tiresome.

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>>16835107
>don’t blame them, if I had a choice I wouldn’t want to be a faggot
https://pro-lgbt.ru/en/7489/
There is a way out

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>>16835095
Only real thing to do is to do it and for not having friends its okay and it sounds stupid but going on facebook and joining some group that does stuff your interested in is great
<reddit
Also meantioning your christian even if your not super into it just try ans go to church and put your self out there its never over chud just keep on

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>>16835107
I'm an autistic bi and I'm glad I'm a fag. It's really easy to hookup with men (if I want to) and they will ask you out sometimes, so it's not like they hate dating. I don't really care if it's "degenerate". I'm wired this way and it will never change.

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>>16835123
I wish this shit worked, I really do. I remember staying up at night for hours on end, praying to god to not let me be a faggot. I got a girlfriend one time, I went to a therapist- hell I even beat myself for having thoughts like that. I just can’t stop. It’s pathetic how little control I can exert over myself. Not to self deprecate too hard but I’ve hurt myself enough trying to change what I’m sure is immutable.

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>>16835129
See this is why I don’t want to be a fag. People like you disgust me, people with no want to change for the better. To start a family, to love or settle. You will ride the earth like a horseman carrying the plague and aids through all of your partners. Die.

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>>16835076
>I like entomology but that’s a dying trade with AI taking over identification and study of insects
Now imagine being a comp. sci major like Quote geg. AI is able to automate nearly everything and that seems like a field that couldn't actually be totally replaced.
>I don’t have friends primarily because I’m fat
If this isn't some random anon posing as you; the solution to being fat is really easy. If you have someone else in your life that you trust who's capable of taking over your food purchases, let them just choose what you eat and buy it for you. And also, obviously, GYMAXXING.
>and gay
Homosexuality actually isn't reduced by going to the gym. This is, like, the one thing in your life that it won't improve. HOWEVER, it will make you more attracted to women as a result of higher testosterone, and thus you can just live your life normally. There are also treatments for homosexuality (mostly just not consuming porn) that lessen it (proof: https://substack.com/home/post/p-99146605, but it's a bit obvious if you consider that environmental influences can increase rates of homosexuality as seen in the past few decades, so the obvious logical conclusion is that environmental influences can lessen it). But mainly if you can become naturally attracted to women that's good enough.
>and a nazi
That's keyed and not too much of a problem if you don't sperg too much and let it fuck up your social interactions. And if it does then you need to find people who don't mind it, which very much do exist.

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>>16835005
Why would I listen to some Indian dude with click snap editing for my life advice

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This way of thinking is probably what leads to nlm and 764 adjacent people to exist.

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>>16834971 (OP)
Let the trans community be your guide! ヾ(@⌒▽⌒@)ノ
its never too late, ill bet you'll be so pretty

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>>16835149
You're assuming a lot about me. I haven't hooked up since August of last year and my body count has to be less than 10. I enjoy the option to hookup but I don't do it. I want a long term relationship with a man or a woman and I don't because I don't like my body right now. You should be grateful you're attracted to men. I love men and would be glad to spend the rest of my life with one.

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>>16835156
Some indians are actually sentient

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>>16835155
I have gone to the gym on and off but I always get turned off of it by the people there. Hulking abominations of muscle and steroids and the weird homeless people hogging the showers and sleeping on the benches. I much prefer doing it at home, but I can’t afford equipment. I also really don’t have money to eat good.
As for faggotry, I try not to watch porn as often. I still feel like a homosexual but I don’t have it ad a sexual urge- more romantic, if that makes sense.

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>>16835169
You’d think my apathy and autism would lead me to dark places like that but I’ve generally remained out of the clear from grooming cults.

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>>16835179
(^O^) be a girl, not a clittycel!

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>>16835172
I just don’t get it. It would be so much easier in every aspect to just be with a woman. Why care about men if you have the option not to.

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>>16835176
You can still workout at home without machines and eating healthy is actual quite cheap if you spend your money smartly and make your own food

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>>16835189
I find men just as pretty if not more than women. I don't know why, I just don't have as many romantic feelings for women. I wish I did but something is missing. I'm not gay though.

I wish I was gay or straight. I don't like being bi.

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>>16835194
I appreciate the sentiment but a carton of eggs is 20 bucks here

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>>16835176
>Hulking abominations of muscle and steroids and the weird homeless people hogging the showers and sleeping on the benches
Damn. The gym I have locally just beats the shit out of any homeless person that tries to come in. Don't do steroids, by the way, it's retarded.
>I also really don’t have money to eat good.
I know for QPS3C you can't say where you live, but where I am it is much cheaper to eat healthy. I'm not sure if there's anywhere in America that it's cheaper to eat garbage food due to the sheer level of subsidies on raw groceries.
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I really really recommend Talon Fitness' videos, the name might sound shitty or generic or whatever but his food tier list videos are some of the most high-quality nutrition content on the platform, yet are also extremely addicting since he made it into the tier list format: https://www.youtube.com/@Talon_Fitness. Like just watch one video and you'll get what I mean.
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Some of my personal recommendations that are extremely cheap yet extremely nutritious and actually taste good (I don't eat stuff that tastes bad): carrots, butternut squash (canned), spinach, chia seeds, greek yogurt, frozen bags of fruits and veggies (these are extremely underrated, you can get that shit at the dollar tree), rapeseed oil, and a lot more I'm forgetting. Also you can just buy a shit ton of spices (also cheap) and use a ton of it on your, lets say chicken for example. Also buy a huge water bottle for $15 on amazon, like a gallon water bottle, just by not having to get up to refill my water bottle it tripled my daily water intake, like little things like that make such a big difference it's actually unbelievable. Anyways, I want to say that I wish you well and hope you start feeling better.

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>>16835279
Thank you so much, really. I appreciate all of the advice.

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Honestly what normies say is mostly true. If you stay off the internet, eat healthy, work out, don't watch porn, don't smoke weed, don't overthink, meditate, you will be pretty happy. I think most people who complain about their bad lives dont actually do this stuff

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>>16835341
This. While I think a lot of it is overblown and puritanical, it can be good advice if things start making your life miserable. It is a step in the right direction. Moderating your self requires the right amount of strictness: Too much and you will slip up and feel really shitty about yourself and relapse, too little and you will never make any real progress. Everything in moderation including moderation.

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What kind of insects do you like?

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>>16835341
In my opinion the major flaw there is not acknowledging that it's a sequential series of life choices. "Go to church" or "meditate" or "stay off the internet" doesn't work as advice if you're too asocial to go outside.
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You start with small, almost inconsequential decisions and easy to do shit first, like buying a good water bottle so you drink more water, then move to buying very convenient and good tasting and cheap - but healthy - foods to stock your pantry and put on your desk, then get multivitamins and put it next to your bed so you take them first thing in the morning, then other healthy food to replace some of the crap you're eating (ex. bulk original Cheerios at Costco when they're on sale so you can only have that for cereal for six months), then walk (not drive) to your local gym (in my case I chose the gym most devoid of people) during the hours literally not a single other person, or at most only a single-digit number of people are there, etc. If you have someone responsible that can help you with this it will really help. I didn't, and just had to try and force myself to do it alone instead of stay home scrolling imageboards all day, and I figured out what did or didn't work, and it was ultimately really worth it.

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>>16835204
nigga are you in remote alaska or something eggs are $1.50 a dozen here

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>>16835012
Not OP but I go to the gym 6 days a week, do weight lifting and cardio, sleep well, and eat healthy but I'm still suicidal



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