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r/polyamory is a soyquote farm kek
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>>15992340>TL/DR: wife’s boyfriend made transphobic slurs to me and my wife about my new girlfriend who is
>My wife and I (m) have been together for 19 years, married for 15. We are both 43…we’ve tried other forms of nonmongamy (swinging, hotwifing), but over the past 18 months have settled into each having a boyfriend and girlfriend. She’s has had the same boyfriend for roughly about 15-18 months, and I dated another girl for a year, before breaking up at Christmas time.
>Cut to February, I meet a young woman (33) at my book club, she’s cute, funny, we hit it off. In March I ask for her number, we text for a bit for coffee, she explains she’s a transwoman, I didn’t know that, doesn’t bother me, I tell her I’m married in a polyamorous relationship, doesn’t bother her either, great! We go on a date, and than another, and then another, and by early April I bring her to meet my wife, who hits it off with her and we have a wonderful dinner, and I’m really happy they get along.
>A week after that my wife’s boyfriend is over to pick my wife up for a date and he says to me ‘So, I hear you’re dating a t****y… suck her dick yet?’ And I’m floored, like totally taken a back. Dumbfounded. My jaw dropped. Her bf obviously saw I was upset and said he was just joking, etc. I was really surprised because this was a guy I’ve talked to many times, and while I wouldn’t describe him as ‘woke’ he was never hateful. I brought it up to my wife when she came home a few days later and she said he said something similar to her about her ‘hubby taking it up the ass’ which, is just so fucked up, like sorry I’m just so upset about this.
>Anyway, my wife put him in his place and for a couple weeks it was fine, until this weekend he said something to my wife about how he wouldn’t want her to have sex with my girlfriend (this has happened in previous relationships of ours, but we never talked about it happening now) and when she asked why he said because my gf is trans. It’s just so fucked up. My wife was obviously very upset and hasn’t talked to him since Saturday.
>I’m not sure what to do; personally, I now think this guys a jerk and want my wife to dump him, but she loves him, they been together for a long time, but also at the same time, all of our politics are clearly different, so I am not sure how stable it the relationship could be. I also worry my wife’s bf could be trying to manipulate the situation and have my wife break up with me? Maybe that’s another conversation.
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>>15992287You can’t make this up
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>>15992411>cute, funnyJANNIEEEESSSSSSSSS
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>>15992571Brain got rotted by lolipedos award, xe’s a soyboy complementing his wife