/soy/ - Soyjaks

Good. Your great grandfather deserves it for defending Jews in the brother wars.

>>15964704 (OP)
Oh my Fauci! It's just like my heckin' Everywhere at the end of time album!

Wear a vintage suit to comfort him due to the sense of being home

I cant help you, i wosh i could, i hope you find help, maybe in a nursing home? (Im not saiyng send him to those niggerhells, but maybe they have an idea on how to help you)

>>15964719
Problem is that with the perspective of the Allies they didn't think they were fighting for the Jews they think they were fighting for the betterment of the world

I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this. Caring for someone in the late stages of dementia is incredibly hard, and the layer of trauma from his wartime experiences makes it even more heartbreaking. Here are some practical suggestions:
Managing His Fear and Agitation
Enter his reality, don't correct it. Trying to convince him he's not in a POW camp will only increase his distress. Instead, use gentle, calming language that meets him where he is — "You're safe now," "The war is over, you made it home," "No one will hurt you here."
Identify triggers. Certain things may set him off — loud noises, being touched unexpectedly, being restrained during care, uniforms, or even certain foods or smells. Keep a log so you can anticipate and minimize them.
Approach slowly and calmly. Always announce yourself before touching him, come into his line of sight from the front, speak softly and use his name. Sudden movements can feel like an attack to someone reliving combat trauma.
Use a familiar, trusted voice. If one family member triggers less fear than others, that person may be best suited for hands-on care during agitated episodes.
Managing Violent Episodes Safely

Don't restrain him physically unless there's immediate danger — it almost always escalates the situation.
Give him space to de-escalate. Back away, lower your voice, reduce stimulation (turn off TVs, dim lights).
Have a safety plan — know when to step back and call for professional help.
Protect yourself. It's okay and important to physically remove yourself from a situation where you could be hurt. His violence is the disease, not him.

Medical Support
This is the most important step: talk to his doctor about behavioral symptoms. There are medications that can significantly reduce agitation, paranoia, and combativeness in late-stage dementia — this doesn't need to be something your family endures without medical intervention.
Also ask about a referral to a geriatric psychiatrist or a palliative care team, who specialize in exactly this kind of end-of-life comfort care.
Consider Professional or Hospice Care
At the late stage, hospice care is often appropriate and available, even for dementia. Hospice teams are trained in managing agitation, pain, and fear at end of life and can come to wherever he lives. They can be a tremendous relief for the family. Ask his doctor if he qualifies.
If in-home care is no longer safe, a memory care facility with staff trained in dementia and trauma-informed care may be the most compassionate option — for him and for your family.
For You and Your Family
Please don't neglect yourselves in this. What you're witnessing — someone you love living in terror — is traumatic. Consider:

Connecting with a caregiver support group (the Alzheimer's Association has free ones)
Talking to a counselor, even briefly
Leaning on each other and taking shifts so no one person carries this alone

You are doing something profoundly loving by trying to care for him well in these final days. I hope you find some relief and support soon.

>>15964742
aiLQRD

>>15964748
Fuck off Jew. Hitler won't be so nice to you when he comes back. award

>>15964753
Raped by nameroll award

>>15964719
He was from Tuscany you can guess what side he fought on

>>15964753
You call the allied soldiers Jew but they were fighting under the command of those that are aware that they will need to fight the Reich as they are afraid that its expansion has been aggressive

>>15964763
SALUTE, VIVE IL DUCE

Saar ples wear vintage suit from either the 1930s-1950s saar and oreos

>>15964730
He got kicked out of the nursing home for screaming “Benito Mussolini non ha fatto nulla di male” which in English translates to Benito Mussolini did nothing wrong

>>15964704 (OP)
Does your great grandfather have any old photos of him when he was younger that were posiive and joyful moments of his life?

My great grandfather died 2 months ago and he was a photographer, he had taken a large amount of photos from his youth that he loved to show me before he died. If you have access to anything like that of your grandfather, seeing those photos may make him less focused on being tortured by the allies in tunisia and libya

>>15964788
GEG

>>15964788
Actual Giga behavior

>>15964788
This is made up. Nursing homes have to deal with demented patients attacking and insulting them all of the time, this wouldn't get him kicked out

>>15964794
He does but almost every photo has him holding his rifle which then he will start asking for his rifle which he used during the war. I don’t trust him with a rifle at this point.

>>15964805
I’m in italy

Give him a fly to make him giga

>>15964811
How does that change anything

>>15964815
Italian giga flies

>>15964809
if he still has his rifle in his home, maybe removing it and his military uniform (if he still has it) or other things related to war or his military service may remedy it a little bit

mussolini's only legacy is being a texture in doom. death to all fascists.

>>15964817
They dont tolerate fascism in the nursing home that’s all they told me maybe he did something else now that you bring it up

>>15964832
fuck your grandfather for being a nazi sympathizer.

>>15964832
It's likely he tried to rape the nursing home staff. That's pretty the only reason patients in the nursing home get discharged or something

>>15964838
sentient

>>15964830
was his skin really that dark? thats embarrassing

……Take care of him? Or take care of him?

>>15964848
mussolini was black, why are you surprised

>>15964835
They would of told me but being honest he probably did something along those lines not rape though they would of informed me

>>15964846
My uncle used to molest me when I was younger but when he developed early-onset alzheimers i was put in charge of his care so i started molesting him back