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Fumbled an interaction with a girl…

I was buying some stuff and suddenly I spot a girl from uni at the same shop with her friend. I panic and even consider leaving the store cuz I just didnt expect seeing her there and just seeing her shuts down my nervous system
Well, I gather some courage and walk up to her and i say "Sup!"
She's surprised to see me and goes "Woah hi chud". And then asks "What… are you doing here?" And I reply with a monotone quiet voice "Shopping…" and show the stuff im buying. She goes "…oh, looks nice" and turns around. I got really nervous at that point and felt that the convo had ended so I walked to the self checkout without even saying bye or thanks or anything.
Then I had no fucking idea how to use the self checkout so i just looked like a retard for 5 minutes and I bet she saw. I bet she thinks im weird for just walking away and just for the way I spoke.

Am i just overthinking it

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Honestly you couldn't have fumbled that harder. You could've yelled "YOU'RE A STUPID FUCKING FOID NIGGER KYS" at her and it still wouldn't be as embarrassing as this. Just quit talking to women OP, you're clearly not suited for it.

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>Fumbled an interaction with a girl…
>
>I was buying some stuff and suddenly I spot a girl from uni at the same shop with her friend. I panic and even consider leaving the store cuz I just didnt expect seeing her there and just seeing her shuts down my nervous system
>Well, I gather some courage and walk up to her and i say "Sup!"
>She's surprised to see me and goes "Woah hi chud". And then asks "What… are you doing here?" And I reply with a monotone quiet voice "Shopping…" and show the stuff im buying. She goes "…oh, looks nice" and turns around. I got really nervous at that point and felt that the convo had ended so I walked to the self checkout without even saying bye or thanks or anything.
>Then I had no fucking idea how to use the self checkout so i just looked like a retard for 5 minutes and I bet she saw. I bet she thinks im weird for just walking away and just for the way I spoke.
>
>Am i just overthinking it

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didnt read that but if you "Fumbled" and she doesnt like you anymore she isn't worth your time

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It's not that bad bro if someone judges you for something that small they don't deserve you.

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>>15605686
>>15605665
same thing award

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>>15605586 (OP)
I think it's okay chud, but you need to work on your charisma. You need to learn how to ask questions that lead to an actual exchange of information that creates a link between you and the person. It doesn't need to be something you care about, like, what did she do today, what does she think about X or Y, etc… Specially if it's a woman, an interested woman will yap endlessly about her drama or life and all you need to do is listen to her and try to stretch the conversation with further questions. Unless she simply doesn't want to talk, in that case she probably doesn't care about you. Still I think you're probably autistic and you should give up and lock yourself in the room and cry in your bed until you die

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>>>/r9k/
also stupid this never happened

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>>15605725
Talking to yourself in a mirror is a good strat btw also helps with understanding hard topics. Also maintain eye contact with everything at all times when you are talking to them

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>>15605736
>good high-effort threads le /r9k/
kys

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>>15605739
Exactly, the last think you want a girl to think about you is that you're weird because being weird is either being outside of the hierarchical pyramid or being at the bottom, and women seek for a powerful and hierarchical man, specially ones with charisma and attitude, being autistic at the most makes you an alternative for ugly women with mental issues.

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>>15605754
Eh
I think that the standard hierarchy is vain and most people there on the inside seem weak. I personally want a smart woman to work on projects together and raise children together.

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>>15605725
The one saving grace to me is that she is also kind of awkward sometimes

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>>15605789
Practically all women still seek their male inside the formed hierarchical structure anyways.

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>>15605793
Did you EVER talk to her anywhere else?

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>>15605797
Most people are goyim yeah what can I say. Can you explain this structure you talk about

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>>15605793
It's okay one awkward interaction is nothing

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Consider eating explosive poop breakfast for this fumble. You fumbled the bag like its a sport… and youre a champion in that sport thats how bad you fumbled it.

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>>15605801
Yeah we talk sometimes but we're not really close. Makes me even more frustrated that I acted so awkward cuz in other social settings I was able to talk to her just fine. I catch her looking at me sometimes and she seems happy talking to me when we talk, even if for just a little bit. Idk why i froze up this time.

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>>15605837
its just 1 mistake nigga you overthinking it, other than that take it as a lesson and practice your social skills more

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>>15605805
The structure stablished in two ways: the wide structure set in a large society, this can represent the hierarchy seen in an entire nation, where the effects of such are way less distinguishable and direct but are still there, for example these could be fashion or the male guy that stablishes a trend that women follow when they find their next male. And then you have the close hierarchical system which is a more direct and visible structure seen in, say, classrooms, where there will be always a male individual or a group of male guys that impose authority over the others, girls seeking both the males on top of the pyramid y or the people that are able to climb high to dispute the authority.

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>>15605837
You need to drink some whiskey and kill off your fear

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I once got KEK'd out of my only social outlet in the class - two girls, that I used to talk to ocassionally about snca, and we always did projects together, but then this other foid that never said she didnt like me, but she didn't like me started talking to them more than I did and I had to look for someone else to make snca projects with. I will never forgive foids for ruining my social life.

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She probably forgot about it five minutes later mr baiter



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