/soy/ - Soyjaks

>call up bank
>hello can you please confirm your full name
>yes it's <deadname>
>umm you're <deadname>?
>that is correct
>are you ill? do you have some disease that affects your voice? (literal quote)
>no, but are you trying to say that my voice doesn't match my name
>Yes mr <deadname> I am… your voice is umm… very girly…
>Well I am transgender but I haven't updated my name on the account yet
>Oh thank you Mr. <Deadname> *starts snickering* that explains it, shall I put a note on your account to describe this?
>Umm okay as long as I can remove it later
>Yes ofcourse, shall I read out the note for you?
>Okay
>"Mr. <Deadname> has an unusually high pitched voice"
>Does that sound alright Mr. <Deadname>?
>Yeah sure, can we talk about my banking issues now?

She was laughing throughout all of this, like every time I said something I could hear her snicker and whenever she spoke it could hear her barely contained amusement

being trans is a daily humiliation ritual