/soy/ - Soyjaks

Read through this at least once before trying it but you can also use it as a guide.

Edging is something you can do to enhance your masturbation experience. Edging is when you stimulate your penis up until your about to orgasm then you stop for a few minutes. This is repeated as long as you feel like.

First off find somewhere quiet and private because a good edging session lasts a few hours. Grab some toilet paper or anything to cum into at the end. Socks seem to be a popular thing because they can be washed. I know for me using lube can be annoying and messy, but I think you should if you can. Coconut oil is always a good choice.

Step 1: Lock your door and get completely naked. Maybe turn on some porn preferably something long because switching it can be annoying.

Step 2: Don't go to your dick right away, instead start rubbing your neck and shoulders for a few minutes and move down to your chest and nipples. Rubbing your nipples can feel very good. Take deep breaths throughout this whole thing. Move down to your stomach and abs, rub them for a few and try to relax. Tickling your stomach can feel great by running your fingers over it lightly. Now massage your thighs and inner legs but dont touch your penis!

Step 3: Now if you're somehow not hard yet, get hard. If you want to tease yourself repeat step 2 a few times then come back. Apply the lube if you have it to your penis and your hands. Lightly rub it in. Now slowly and I mean SLOWLY, Start rubbing your cock. The classic jerk off motion works but I suggest researching some others to enhance it. Go slowly for the first few build ups and then when you feel an orgasm coming, stop touching your penis! Edging requires self control.

Step 4: Take in deep breaths through your nose and out your mouth for a few minutes. The goal is to go back to a semi hard state. This is the step that you will repeat over and over so read closely. Once alot of the pleasure subsides in your penis you can start touching it again. Build up the pleasure slowly and enjoy the buildup because that is what you will feel for the majority of your edging session. Once your close to orgasm, stop. You now need to do the breathing I talked about and wait for a few minutes. During this time I like massaging my balls because they don't add to my orgasm. You can do this lightly for a few while breathing then resume touching your dick.

Step 5: Once you repeat step 4 for as long as you feel like, I recommend repeating for at least 1 hour, you can move on to this step. Start touching yourself again still going slowly. If your ready for your orgasm then I would speed up a little. When I say speed up I dont mean normal masturbation speed where you see how fast your hand can move. Go semi fast and maybe take a second between strokes to just enjoy the pleasure. If during any of the edging session you accidentally go over the edge, dont hold it in. This will ruin the orgasm, just enjoy it and let it go. Once you get close to orgasm, Close your eyes and take deep breaths. Then let yourself cum. How was it? If you edged for awhile the orgasm you just had should have been stronger than normal.

Step 6: Now that you came just relax for a few minutes. Now that you have post nut clarity just think about something, anything. A few minutes later I recommend cleaning up and showering because you're probably covered in cum and lube.

How was it? Tell me in the replies. I would love if a lady could make an edging guide for women, as I have no idea what works for you guys beyond stopping and starting.