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people love talking about seneca, dont be too autistic in a normal conversation
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be nice and friendly and you're already 100x above other selfish fucks
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>>15348960>>15348965Tsmt, it seems like phonos overcomplicate socializing.
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i want to know this too
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>>15348960Yeah but I can't relate to any of those conversations because I've spent the last six years of my life on websites like this that I can't mention without being excommunicated
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>>15349025ev&doe the sharty is mainstreeeem now
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>>15349025nigga people literally talk about seneca like the weather or their family, or their jobs, these type of things dont require any prior knowledge but logic and listening to the other person
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>>15349025I feel you, it’s so easy to become an outcast in this society.
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>>15349048I'm fine with those mainly but when they start talking about other shit like some bars nearby or whatever it all starts falling apart because I spent my college life with no IRL friends and doing basically nothing fun at all
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>>15349085datamine your city and know every corner of it
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>>15349085This is going to sound very bluepilled, but maybe you should be honest about your inexperience.
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>>15349111Idk, sounds like a last resort sort of thing to do
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>>15349127I’m sort of in the same boat as you, and I can’t really think of any other good solution.
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Try to avoid talking about yourself and be a good listener. Ask follow up questions on what they talk about, and don't end the conversation by saying nothing. If it feels like you can't follow up anymore with questions, try moving it on yourself by bringing up something tangentially related. You must force yourself to approach people too I guess.
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>>15349238Yep, it seems like people generally see listening to you as a chore but love when you make it about them. It still seems like you have to talk a bit about yourself, or else it will become too much like an interview.
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>>15349343I haven't had that in my experience although I do tend to interject with anecdotes about similar experiences I've had to that, especially if it's something funny
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>>15349392I think that’s the right way of doing it. My main problem is still coming up with the right reply. Sometimes I will just rush to say something in order to show that I’m engaged in the conversation, which often leads to less than ideal outcomes.
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>>15349455Same here, except in my case I just don't know what the hell to say most of the time
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>>15349455I always keep a one question buffer in my head mentally, if that helps.
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>>15349475Me neither. I genuinely have no idea sometimes.