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>I have been trying to find friends for a couple months now, especially in the gaming scene. I go by masculine names online so most men think i'm also a man until i speak, it has been so easy making male friends, many of then have no idea i'm a woman and we have pretty good friendships, they are talkative, funny and kind, they might not have the most Interesting lives (a lot of them are neets) but they are incredibly witty and very social. however, with women it is so much harder. I normally tell them off the bat that i'm a woman to make it less awkward but my god, a lot of them are very boring, they have the personality of a brick wall, most of them don't put in any real effort when talking to you, I have to carry the conversation on my own. If i don't talk to them, we just don't talk, they are extremely inconsiderate.
many also just ghost you or randomly unadd you i should add that many of these women post in finding friends servers and they still put zero effort to talk. it's gotten to the point where i just avoid any woman that adds me because i know exactly how it'll end, us never speaking again. If this is what men have to deal with when it comes to dating, I would understand why so many are choosing not to: It is incredibly exhausting to have to deal with this over and over again.