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>>14909544You heard that in real life?
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>>14909560meds NOW you did not hear that irl
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>>14909552Yes. Hurts living in a bigoted society as a venezuelan black trans womxn.
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>Don’t you dare say you’re doing your best when you can’t even stay sober for your own son. He knows the difference between your footsteps and the ones you have after you’ve been drinking, he knows the smell, he knows when not to talk, and that knowledge should never belong to a child. You call it taking the edge off, you call it stress, you call it a long day, but what it really is is you choosing a bottle over being present and then acting shocked when he’s afraid of you. You slur your words and call it honesty, you forget what you said and make us live with it anyway, and then you wake up the next day expecting forgiveness like nothing happened. He watches you promise to do better and then watches you break it, again and again, and you’re teaching him that words don’t mean anything and that love is unreliable. He shouldn’t have to wonder which version of his father is coming home, the quiet one or the cruel one, the joking one or the one who cuts him down and calls it discipline. You are not just hurting me—you are shaping him, teaching him to shrink, to stay alert, to feel responsible for your moods and your drinking. And I am furious that you still pretend this is normal, that you still act like we’re overreacting while our son learns fear before he learns safety. I will not let you drown him in your excuses. I will not let you drink and rage and forget and call yourself a father without being told exactly what you’re doing
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>>14909653my brown jewish classmate said this geg