My dad wants to go out with me and I ignored his messages cuz I'm a hikikomori and he will talk about my future and stuff and I don't wanna go and talk about all that shit I just wanna be home playing games and watching youtube on my room in peace

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Vlodson 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:30:44 №14885181 [Quote]

My dad wants to go out with me and I ignored his messages cuz I'm a hikikomori and he will talk about my future and stuff and I don't wanna go and talk about all that shit I just wanna be home playing games and watching youtube on my room in peace

Chok 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:32:03 №14885194 [Quote]

fat lazy fuck

Chud 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:32:16 №14885196 [Quote]

deadass

Chud 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:33:05 №14885202 [Quote]

>>14885194
im not even fat you fucking nigger

>>14885196
kys zoomgroid speak nigger

Chud 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:34:15 №14885223 [Quote]

>>14885181 (OP)
you sound like a loser. why dont you wanna become someone better

Chud 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:35:03 №14885238 [Quote]

>>>/r9k/

Chud 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:36:29 №14885266 [Quote]

JSID

Chud 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:36:43 №14885273 [Quote]

>>14885223
youre on the sharty too dumbfuck go and slit your wrists

Chud 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:39:10 №14885314 [Quote]

That makes a lot of sense. Wanting peace and control over your own time doesn’t mean you’re lazy or ungrateful—it just means you’re overwhelmed or not in the headspace for *that* kind of conversation right now.

A few things to help you think this through, without forcing you into anything:

### 1. Ignoring him vs setting a boundary

Ignoring usually makes things blow up later. A short, honest message can actually buy you more peace, not less.

You don’t have to explain your whole life or argue. Something simple like:

* *“Hey, I’m not really up for serious future talks right now. Can we hang out another time?”*
* *“I need a quiet day to myself today. I’ll text you later.”*

That’s not disrespectful—it’s a boundary.

### 2. About the “future talk”

Parents often push that stuff because they’re anxious, not because they think you’re failing. But that doesn’t mean you’re obligated to sit through lectures when you’re mentally drained.

It’s okay if:

* You don’t have a plan yet
* You don’t want to talk about it today
* Your room + games + YouTube is how you recharge

That doesn’t make you irresponsible—it means you’re human.

### 3. If you do end up going (optional strategy)

If avoiding conflict feels harder than going, you can limit the damage:

* Set a time limit: *“I can hang out for an hour.”*
* Redirect: *“I don’t want to talk about careers today—can we talk about something else?”*
* Repeat calmly if he pushes (no debating): *“I’m not ready to talk about that.”*

### 4. The most important part

You’re allowed to want peace. You’re allowed to enjoy your comfort zone.
Just don’t let silence turn into stress later if a 1-sentence message can protect you.

If you want, tell me:

* your age
* whether you live with him or not
* how intense his “future talks” usually get

I can help you craft a message that fits *your* situation exactly.

That’ll be 500 shekels

Bobson 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:53:04 №14885526 [Quote]

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>That makes a lot of sense. Wanting peace and control over your own time doesn’t mean you’re lazy or ungrateful—it just means you’re overwhelmed or not in the headspace for *that* kind of conversation right now.
>
>A few things to help you think this through, without forcing you into anything:
>
>### 1. Ignoring him vs setting a boundary
>
>Ignoring usually makes things blow up later. A short, honest message can actually buy you more peace, not less.
>
>You don’t have to explain your whole life or argue. Something simple like:
>
>* *“Hey, I’m not really up for serious future talks right now. Can we hang out another time?”*
>* *“I need a quiet day to myself today. I’ll text you later.”*
>
>That’s not disrespectful—it’s a boundary.
>
>### 2. About the “future talk”
>
>Parents often push that stuff because they’re anxious, not because they think you’re failing. But that doesn’t mean you’re obligated to sit through lectures when you’re mentally drained.
>
>It’s okay if:
>
>* You don’t have a plan yet
>* You don’t want to talk about it today
>* Your room + games + YouTube is how you recharge
>
>That doesn’t make you irresponsible—it means you’re human.
>
>### 3. If you do end up going (optional strategy)
>
>If avoiding conflict feels harder than going, you can limit the damage:
>
>* Set a time limit: *“I can hang out for an hour.”*
>* Redirect: *“I don’t want to talk about careers today—can we talk about something else?”*
>* Repeat calmly if he pushes (no debating): *“I’m not ready to talk about that.”*
>
>### 4. The most important part
>
>You’re allowed to want peace. You’re allowed to enjoy your comfort zone.
>Just don’t let silence turn into stress later if a 1-sentence message can protect you.
>
>If you want, tell me:
>
>* your age
>* whether you live with him or not
>* how intense his “future talks” usually get
>
>I can help you craft a message that fits *your* situation exactly.
>
>That’ll be 500 shekels

Shotjak 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:55:35 №14885581 [Quote]

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>My dad wants to go out with me and I ignored his messages cuz I'm a hikikomori and he will talk about my future and stuff and I don't wanna go and talk about all that shit I just wanna be home playing games and watching youtube on my room in peace

Chud 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:57:14 №14885617 [Quote]

>>14885273
the reason we are on the sharty is that we like to troll doe

Jartycuck 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:57:57 №14885628 [Quote]

>>14885181 (OP)
frogcucks…

Chud 01/19/26 (Mon) 21:58:30 №14885638 [Quote]

>>14885526
which one is most rapable

Unknown 01/19/26 (Mon) 22:06:17 №14885781 [Quote]

>>14885617
>the reason we are on the sharty is that we like to troll doe

holy HTSM gtfo normienigger