>>14636609It's not about politics or hobbies.
To be part of a group of normies as a male you have to be willing to humiliate yourself, it's how they build in-group trust.
Not by have you provide something for them in the form of money, resources or just company - rather by constantly subjecting yourself to torture in the form of using alcohol, drugs, gambling, flirting with any foid you see and overall acting like a retard.
You can't be well-desired, especially by other men, while being morally and physically unassailable. They need you to humiliate and torture yourself by engaging in various nigger acts to prove you can be trusted.
Foids can be a problem too, if you are not a physically unattractive man they can exclude a priori, you are required to give them attention and show the slightest interest in their snatch to avoid them labeling you as "weird".
Even if they have a boyfriend yes, you still have to "rizz" them to avoid being trashtalked or antagonized for being "weird", even at the price of brewing tension with their boyfriends and other men who have crushes for them.