>>14095758My take is that if you wrote the song today then yes, it's creepy, but the social context it was written in is radically different.
Today staying over at a partners house is normal and nobody is going to bat an eye over it. That was not the case in 1944 and the song is pretty clearly a mutual attempt to justify her staying over.
Should radio stations play it? I don't really have an opinion. If I ran a station I would quietly, personally, ask my staff to not play it simply to avoid any controversy, but I don't think it's a bad song.
It's kind of the same as the the r slur, 40 years ago it was seen as the polite word for developmentally disabled people and so there are plenty of old PSA ads that look straight out of 4chan im trans btw