The GF started smoking a ton of weed today because I didn't pay attention to her for 5 waking hours and she isn't knowledgeable or cultured on anything, she only likes really bad movies, podcasts with whores and shitty pop music. She also can't go more tha

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Should I dump my gf? Chud 04/04/26 (Sat) 14:05:52 №84582 [Quote]

The GF started smoking a ton of weed today because I didn't pay attention to her for 5 waking hours and she isn't knowledgeable or cultured on anything, she only likes really bad movies, podcasts with whores and shitty pop music. She also can't go more than 10 minutes without looking at instagram and youtube shorts and argues daily when she gets too comfortable with me. She is obsessed with becoming famous even though she does nothing serious towards that end. Her main pasttime other than these things is sitting there with me expecting me to entertain her or sitting there in a shitty mood and expecting me to make her feel better even though it's impossible. I feel like I learn way less and go out less because I have to talk to her all the time (we live apart and she visits me every so often for a few weeks at a time). She recently failed out of medical school immediately after getting in because she is retarded and has a 3 second attention span, and because of that she won't even be able to see me in person when we thought she would be able to.

Should I get over her and dump her despite being attached to her or is there no point because all women are like this, so if I get another gf it will just be more of the same?

Chud 04/04/26 (Sat) 14:14:35 №84584 [Quote]

You should probally dump her. Not much of a future for ts an foid.

Also to my knowledge not all woman are like this, most are however there are exception

Chud 04/04/26 (Sat) 15:00:08 №84587 [Quote]

>weed
>dropping out
>social media addicted
>"i wanna be famous"
>normal mood is bitchy
yes, dump her bro

also she might try to guilt trip you when you leave, dont listen to it

Chud 04/04/26 (Sat) 15:15:35 №84589 [Quote]

>>84587
How do I not feel bad and try to cope that she can change thoughie?

Chud 04/04/26 (Sat) 15:26:53 №84590 [Quote]

>>84589
it's not about whether she can change - most people can, given time and effort
your post is all negative stuff, but im sure there's positives - u gotta weigh the pros and cons yourself

the real question - is it worth your time and effort to try and "fix" her? do you genuinely believe you can turn this situation around? if it not then cut your loss and move on

Chud 04/04/26 (Sat) 15:29:25 №84591 [Quote]

>>84590
you might need a day or even a week to think about it btw
breaking up isn't a light decision

Chud 04/04/26 (Sat) 15:40:25 №84592 [Quote]

>>84590
I have tried, I've read faggy books on exercises for cluster B people and tried to get her to actually write down her thoughts and feelings, go on walks more, detox from retarded cancer and have thoughts longer than 20 seconds. I've stupidly tried to reason with her so many times even though she's a woman, I can't help it because I care about her. I realised ultimately nothing works unless she wants it to work. I don't think I can "fix" her if she enjoys being the way she is. All that effort is just throwing pearls before swine.

Chud 04/04/26 (Sat) 16:52:57 №84593 [Quote]

>>84592
is she a bpdemon geg
that makes it a lot worse… personality disorders are lifelong condition, even trained psychologists can only ALLEVIATE symptoms with intensive therapy

>nothing works unless she wants it to
exactly. listen bro, i get that you want to help because you care, but the truth is that sometimes caring isnt enough
she doesn't want to be "fixed" or doesn't consider herself broken, and will not respond to treatment.
do you really want to wife up this person? can you live down that kind of stress every day for the rest of your life?
i know you care about her, but you also have to care about (You). if leaving her helps you, (You) have to care enough about yourself to take that step

Chud 04/04/26 (Sat) 19:21:16 №84600 [Quote]

i dumped my only gf so far because she didnt change for years and i wasted my entire highschool life because of that. if she doesn't show any change in the first few months you gotta start making plans

Chud 04/04/26 (Sat) 19:31:25 №84602 [Quote]

do you get to fuck her is the question

Chud 04/04/26 (Sat) 22:45:12 №84614 [Quote]

>>>84587
>How do I not feel bad and try to cope that she can change thoughie?

She won't, dump her. Don't even feel bad if she's acting this way

Chud 04/05/26 (Sun) 03:36:20 №84640 [Quote]

the minute i heard "podcast" i knew she was an foid. dump that bitch.