№84226[Quote]
Is what I'm doing with my life weird? Am I behind everyone else?
I'm 18 for context
I just found out that my best friend had been dating some foid to "test" if he was alone of his own volition o algo. I was convinced he was equal to me in that he didn't have much of a social life, but hes been doing all that apparently, and after telling the girl he didn't gaf and insulting her she leaked. Before this point he nearly had sex with her, but he stopped just before doing it because they were drunk and he didn't want to risk it
Everybody my age seems to have done some sort of crazy social thing, or have shit going on in their lives. I'm not doing good at school because I can't push myself to revise, and otherwise I do nothing interesting. I go to school, i go home, i go to school, i go home, rinse, repeat ad eterna. Ev&doe I'm older than my friend I only just went to my first party with alcohol today. I'm a mid-tier white guy, ~6ft, so its not like im repulsive to people visually, and i probably have some sort of assburgers but its not severe enough that i can't make friends. My friend is probably autistic too, but the nigga told me he wants to spend uni fucking around. I thought he was better than this, but I guess hes the same as the majority then. I have basically only him as a "close" friend along with one other guy, but hes a lot more similar to me in his interests and isn't very social at all. I feel like ev&doe I try to be nice to people, I struggle to find others I click with, and I don't get invited many places by others. I don't think anybody necessarily dislikes me, more that they simply don't care.
Am I behind everyone else for not having a large social circle or social life? I feel like a subhuman after hearing that basically everybaldi at my school has had some sort of romantic experience, some sort of crazy social experience, and I might be the only one who nobody remembered about when the invites were sent, that was forgotten instantly, that had no impact on anybody. People who have a hostile shy personality get attention, my friend is probably less attractive than me, is there anything im doing wrong or just bad luck
Feeling like the biggest oofy doofy in a room of people who act like them but are secretly all hypersocials. This post isn't necessarily about female attention, more about not having these social events in my life
sorry for the massive paragraph, at least it isn't the thrembillionth nigger talking about how they are addicted to 'ooning
№84230[Quote]
>>84226 (OP)you're probably just like the rest of everyone else here
>Am I behind everyone else for not having a large social circle or social life?yes. the normgroidim social mog brutally
>my friend is probably less attractive than me, is there anything im doing wrong or just bad luckjust talk to people then, nigger. if that nigger can get a date so could you if you aren't autistic about it
№84234[Quote]
in this case being different doesn't equate to being subhuman imo
havent dated, been to parties, whatever… not something to need worry about my friend
№84246[Quote]
>>84234Thanks 'teen
>>84230It isn't even that I can't talk to girls, theres at least 2 that willingly talk to me so its not that. I'm just really picky about who I would like to date because I don't see any reason to fuck around, the drama and cortisol spikes from the kinds of interactions hookups would cause aren't worth it for me. I don't want to devote my time to trying to get a girl that I can't see myself spending my future with. I do talk to people, but maybe the limited number of girls I talk to is what is holding me back and I haven't found someone that "click"s.
My secondary was a boys school and I barely spoke to girls in primary, so my first "real" interactions with the opposite gender were only like ~2 years ago. Hopefully when I go to uni I can expand the social groups im in, that way I might find someone i like through exposure. I'm not going on dating apps or random parties/clubs doebeit, the foids that I would find there are most likely going to be sluts
№84247[Quote]
>>84246not about to be that guy in the club who spent weeks trying to get a girl only for some nigger like clavicular to take her in 13ms leaving me in the cuck position
№84252[Quote]
>>84226 (OP)>I feel like ev&doe I try to be nice to people, I struggle to find others I click with, and I don't get invited many places by others. I don't think anybody necessarily dislikes me, more that they simply don't care.you will never 'click' with anybody cuz thats just made up bro
also, people aren't social because they're really interested in people, its not like they're especially disinterested in you, they're looking for something else
what that is depends on the person, some just want to yap bout deyself and others just want to get high
>my best friend had been dating some foid to "test" if he was alone of his own volition o algoyour friend is actually a pretty good example of this
№84254[Quote]
I hate these threads so much because this is exactly my life except I will come back and OP will post an update “wow guys I made it” meanwhile I’m still the same as I ever was. And then I have further reason to feel resentment for myself because I know it’s me that is holding myself back and not anything innate.
>>84246You probably have a similar temperament to me since I went to regular integrated public school but my parents are religious and I was discouraged from dating. So now I’m in uni and don’t even want to date because that desire has been suppressed.
I will stfu now since this is your thread not mine.
№84260[Quote]
>>84254no no, go ahead with whatever you want to say. I got what I had to say out, and id like to hear how its going for anyone who is in a similar situation.
Don't worry about me coming back and saying I made it, even if I find a girl I really like it would take me at least a year to be sure of it, and then probably another year to build up the guts to ask her out at a minimum. This is most likely me coping doe, even if the girl of my dreams was in front of me i'd probably have barely reached the point where she would consider me a friend before some chad who spent all of high school having sex turns up and takes her off
>>84252 I don't mean some retarded love at first sight "click", more that I just feel like this is a person I can spend the rest of my life with. Ive felt it with some friends, that I would be chill spending eternity together, not in a romantic way but that I just get along with them to that high a level, like the wavelengths just match.