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kill yourself with your fakecel normgroid story
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Live yourself with your truechad uniquegroid story
№83463[Quote]
All I can really say to you teen is that your situation seems fairly stable and most of what you fear is just in your head. I’d imagine when you actually settle down and organise everything you’ll realise that it wasn’t a problem and you were just self sabotaging in your mind.
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>wahhh wahhhh i have money, i have a girlfriend and i have a home, please console me sherdee
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>>83459 (OP)Why cry if your gf is nice
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>she has adhd
You mean BPD?
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>>83459 (OP)ur gonna make it brah
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Can I join?
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I'm going to move out sometime soon, and the thought worries me too. I'm not diagnosed with anything but probably also a sperg, but it is normal to feel concerned about moving away from what you are used to. For the mess, maybe try to talk to her about keeping her disorganised stuff on one side or in one area of the room, where she can do whatever and you can keep the rest organised. You have money saved up, you can afford your rent, you have a girlfriend, you have a dad and a home to fall back to if something goes wrong. Change is hard, but at least in this case, it will be beneficial. You will learn how to manage a household yourself instead of relying on a parent, and will have your own space, and you will spend a lot more time with your girlfriend. try to focus on the good side and push away the stressful thoughts, because they are mostly just worries that aren't that important
If you can't stop stressing, it could help you to think of a contingency for the scenarios. Thats what a worry is anyway, your mind trying to prepare you, so you can placate it by thinking of what you would do. Maybe discuss some of these with your dad or your girlfriend as well, talking to people helps
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nigga what the fuck are you whining about, you have a gf and a fairly cheap home, grow up and stop being a bitch
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>>83463thank you, yeah i know that i have nothing to actually worry about change just scares me.
>>83466>>83468>>83500i’m not complaining or whining im very grateful to be able to do this. i’m just a very anxious and sentimental guy. my dad raised me by himself so im just very sad to leave him especially cause he doesn’t have a gf or anything so i feel quite guilty. and i’ll also miss having a dog. it’s nothing serious just change and growing up.
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>>83495thank you ‘teen this helps a lot. thank you for putting my mind to ease a bit
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>>83470geg definitely not. she got diagnosed with adhd when she was like 7 and has to take like 60mg of ritalin throughout the day (prescribed of course) otherwise she cannot function or settle at all, it’s a pretty severe case. she’s the farthest thing from BPD, very cheerful, secure, and stable