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I have a girlfriend and I used to feel this exact same way you just have to get very skinny or very fit while being tall
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>>82671 (OP)most people didn’t have to improove because they had better looks and were socialized better than you
if you want a girlfriend, its likely you’ll have to work for it. that’s the brutal reality
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the first step is just to stop giving a shit. accept that it might simply be fucking over. there are tons of dudes out there who technically "made it" and they’re still miserable as hell. they hide in the bathroom jerking off to tranny porn, or they get dragged through brutal divorce rapes and spend the next decade broke and bitter. the fairytale narrative is mostly bullshit.
and statistically speaking, a big chunk of men don’t reproduce anyway. around a third historically. that’s just how sexual selection works. so if that’s the system, what exactly is stopping you or me from ending up in that 30%? nothing. people will feed you the same empty motivational bs like "just work harder" that advice assumes everyone starts on the same playing field, which is obviously retarded. telling a guy with bad genetics and a rough life to just grind harder is like telling an abused dog to suddenly become a fearless guard dog. it’s not how psychology works. for the love of god, ignore what they say, youll save yourself a massive amount of pointless suffering.
instead of rotting in bitterness, you might as well try to change how you relate to the suffering itself. if you tie your entire self-worth to getting a girlfriend, you’re basically signing up for endless mental torture if it doesn’t happen. you need a framework to actually reduce your suffering. stop chasing potential gains or fleeting rewards and focus on what keeps you from being miserable. make minimizing suffering your priority.
call it buddhismmaxxing or whatever, the point is you need some system or approach to navigate life without constantly destroying yourself.
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>alone
Me too
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>>82671 (OP)you have to not be a nigger and talk to girls, stay away from narcissistic foids and you'll be okay (thats the real hurdle)
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>>82727kill yourself black pill nigger, retard god if you listen to this nigger and think its over at least shoot up troons and browns before killing yourself please
only thing to take from this is stop obsessing over it or at-least turn the obsession into something good like getting jacked or trying to become a human and not a skinwalker and learn to talk to people. best way to become a non-whiny blackpilled nigger is to not blackpill and just TRY to be human and speak to people. theres nothing to lose by speaking to people- most people don't even care if you're a retardgod who has trouble doing that