/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

i typed this out in a state of distress so sorry if it’s not the most legible thing ever

Don't do that retard

dont do it man, its over. Move on. you invested too much, and you already got one so there will be others.

>>81290
>>81291
>>81292
you guys are probably right and my judgement tells me the exact same but i don’t know, i feel like i cant move on properly without doing this

>>81293
you can move on dude, plenty of people have before. It's not as special as you think. Think about why it ended in the first place. There is a reason why its over, and its for the best

>>81294
i guess so yeah, you’ve genuinely given me a lot to think about, i might just be particularly emotional rn. i most likely wont do it

>>81295
good 2 hear

i can't get over my old friends and ex too. idk what to do man, but i feel you

>i had a gf
fuck off you don't belong here

move the fuck on. she doesn’t care about you and she’s already replaced you. you don’t occupy her mind at all meanwhile she’s living rent free in your head. sending a long emotional closure message is just you trying to reopen something that’s dead because you can’t accept it yet. the fact that she doesn’t react well to serious conversations should tell you exactly how this is gonna go. she’ll most likely ignore it, give you a dry response, or make you feel even worse. none of those outcomes give you closure, they will just humiliate you and reset your healing back to day one.

you’re not doing this for closure -you’re doing it because you miss her and you want one last hit of attention. i get it, but it’s very pathetic and it won’t help your case at all. if she wanted you, she’d be talking to you. instead she’s matching pfps with some new guy. that’s your answer. (brooootal or however bee pee goes)

seriously doe, if you need to "get it all out" then write it in your notes or a journal and don’t send it. closure is something you give yourself, not some girl who already replaced you and moved on. you really gotta learn how to be self reliant. stop looking for someone else to fix what you’re too scared to deal with alone. she’s not sitting there hoping you send a paragraph. she’s living her life while you’re rotting here and stuck in your own head like a cuck. she moved on months ago and you’re still acting like sending some cringe closure essay is gonna magically change reality. if she wanted you back, you wouldn’t be writing this post in the first place.

tldr: take the hint and move on

you are not going to get any closure from this. write a letter down on paper to her and then BURN it. this will help you more to move on from her

i thought i was never going to speak to my ex again but seriously listen to me you need time seperated to the point of being able to look back fondly and appreciating what you had and one day you may talk again a new start of two matured people work on yourself for that day work through your feeling on your own or with friends

>>81293
if you want to say something do so but that will be your decision dont wait for someone else to tell you what to do

>>81301
dont say things like that about a person you know nothing about what if she does care what if she herself doesnt know how to express her emotions you cant move on detesting a person thats just being stuck in the past

>>81413
SNCA thread

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