/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

Love was always sold to people as a end-all be-all solution to every single problem you might ever have. If you're miserable, life will magically change if you get someone who'll love you. I'm not saying that love is bad, it isn't, but obsessing over it isn't going to help you one bit. The truth is that if you want some real effects in your life you have to focus on yourself. You can't change everything, but you could educate yourself, work out, do fucking anything besides sitting on your ass and whining that no one is here to save you from what YOU ALONE have (or haven't) done. Everyone in this world has different struggles, including me and you, so find your purpose in life, learn new things, and fight to become better.
>but muh beepee
If you actively believe the BP you're retarded. It's a shitty ideology with a tiny bit of truth (soyciety is hypersexualized). Don't feed into what it preaches, because it's not an ideology that'll get you far in life.
>HOW do I change?
For starters try researching different hobbies and interests by reading articles or watching YouTube videos. For best results do it in Incognito mode to diversify your feed. Hell, you can even ask ChatBBC to list examples, just do your own research and come to your own conclusions.
>But I'm anxious.
No one ultimately cares about what you did at the end of the day. Even the dumbest of people move on, but your brain doesn't. You have to realize that if you're going to sit and ponder on everything wrong you've ever done, opportunities will pass you by. Break the cycle and agree to uncomfortable things, it's the only way to make them comfortable, and most people will at least be kind to you.
<TL;DR: Explore new things and stop rotting on your PC.