/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

hello, just gonna blogpost my experience that i had last night.
i live in sheffield and went out to the busiest area of the city, going to around 4 different bars that were completely full of students, and whilst lining up people were being nice enough and conversating, asking what i do and where i live etc. but nothing really interesting
one thing that surprised me is that a few people assumed that i had a girlfriend or that i was wealthy/smart etc…for context im a 5'11 lean guy and i'd rate myself like a 6 but my social skills are a bit shit so my dating life doesn't really exist

anyway in each of these bars i just stood around and didn't really know how to talk to people or start dancing since it's pretty loud and uncomfortable to be in those cramped settings, i only had like one or two drinks in each bar spending about £10 in total and then swiftly left after just watching people dance, sing and "talk"
i only had one conversation with a girl but it was because i was in line eating on some breadsticks and she just asked why i was eating them, and she asked for one. her body language and tone was like neutral/friendly, she didn't look like she was particularly interested in me

i really don't understand how vast majority of people my age enjoy going to stuff like this, i really prefer smaller bars or settings where your eardrums aren't exploding and you can actually sit down and talk with people