>>76963 (OP)have you tried explaining to them how they are acting?
I remember there was this book I read about a kid in a wheelchair and nobody would really pick on him because when they did, bystanders would try to be nice to him but he would be even meaner to them for feeling sorry for him, so everybody just kind of felt bad for him trying to defend his dignity and nobody bothered him period.
Leave it to some normie to take up arms and be offended on your behalf