>>76897You pointed out something pretty important that I forgot to mention. Spending money and being frivolous when the time calls for it can be cool or whatever but remember that everything you do for someone, hopefully not actively but definitely subconsciously will make that person observe two effects: this person does good things for me (possibly independent of how good I actually treat them) and everything they do after this will now be less special/have to live up to everything else in a way. This actually happens a lot with these kinds of quick infatuation situations; the physical part is hot and fast and quickly runs its course, but this also happens with money, gifts, etc. Be generous, be kind, but be deliberate, and be wise, pick your battles.
Women in their own way are more cruel than men. Men can be violent, angry, destructive, but our passion always boils to the surface to transparency, we know each other and we are honest even to our enemies. Almost every man who has known love has had a woman straight up lie to his face and desecrate, make mockery of our most intimate moments. Part of playing the game is realizing the nature of women and being cautious with yourself. It's no shame to make a mistake, but it would be one not to capitalize on it. Don't ruin your appetite either, but you have to see past the rush and the passion that it brings if you want anything long term.