This might be fucked in every possible way but I started being attracted to my friend because we have been talking one on one more recently. I've always thought she was very lovely but never had an attraction to her. The problem is that she has an online b

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Is this pointless? Chud BO90pu!6 10/24/25 (Fri) 14:32:57 №68467 [Quote]

This might be fucked in every possible way but I started being attracted to my friend because we have been talking one on one more recently. I've always thought she was very lovely but never had an attraction to her. The problem is that she has an online boyfriend of like a year and a half. She somewhat complains about him sometimes when we talk, mostly about him pushing his views on to her. I don't know if I should even try anything because it just seems fucked to just sit and wait for her to break up with him even tho its an online relationship that would probably end. Should I try to snap myself out of even liking her or does this seem somewhat feasible.

Chud BO90pu!6 10/24/25 (Fri) 14:49:31 №68470 [Quote]

for context me and her both live in Virginia and her boyfriend lives in fucking California so its somewhat reasonable I guess

Chud nysW59tg 10/24/25 (Fri) 17:18:55 №68481 [Quote]

>>68467 (OP)
You need to respect her relationship and boundaries, even if the circumstances objectively are ridiculous. That’s the person she chose to love and that’s that. If you try to push her away and she develops feelings for you then that would be an awful sign of impulsivity from her that will show in your hypothetical relationship with her. I’d also say that it’s a red flag that she’s complaining about him “forcing his views” since women are supposed to be obedient regardless of what their lover thinks. I think that’s a clear sign that she’s likely socially liberal at the very least and she has arguments with her boyfriend over his chuddy beliefs instead of either ignoring it (obedience) or actually considering what he’s saying, even if it’s not a woman’s business to involve herself in such matters, as the modern culture forces their involvement and sometimes we need to make an effort to ideologically change them for the better. If she hasn’t embraced or even considered what he’s been “pushing” after more than a year then I don’t think this is the kind of girl you want when arguments inevitably happen. Can you describe the girl? What do you like about her?

Chud cJcVrmiO 10/25/25 (Sat) 20:13:23 №68570 [Quote]

give up you are already in the friend zone,and the retard above me is a retarded clittycell too o algo

Chud aykfSNOQ 10/25/25 (Sat) 20:29:00 №68573 [Quote]

>>68470
>>68467 (OP)
>>68470
is this over discord or over instagram? important
>>68481
fourth world niggeradvice. there's no context for what "views" he's forcing, they could be entirely apolitical. i've heard women say similar things when their boyfriends tried to get them into a movie or a band etc. we know in your cousin marrying shithole you stone your hecking tradwives for disagreeing with their unclehusband. OP lives in a first world country, and women who disagree with men do it because they aren't attracted (no shit, because they're fucking edating and she's probably already cheating on him)

Chud BO90pu!6 10/27/25 (Mon) 12:15:54 №68740 [Quote]

>>68573
over discord

Chud BO90pu!6 10/27/25 (Mon) 12:44:00 №68745 [Quote]

>Can you describe the girl? What do you like about her?
idk shes the type of girl to not get bored of my ramblings and would start to ramble with me. The more I talk to her the more I see how similar we are (I'm not talking about interests)
>I think that’s a clear sign that she’s likely socially liberal at the very least and she has arguments with her boyfriend over his chuddy beliefs instead of either ignoring it
She isn't socially liberal, in your words she would be "obedient". The views I mean are more far than far right and also pushing his interests that she does not like.
>You need to respect her relationship and boundaries, even if the circumstances objectively are ridiculous.
Yeah I understand, I still want to be friends with her and it would be sad if she found out and things got weird between us. Shes honestly a very sweet person, I like her how she is and not with the stuff that her boyfriend is pushing on her, she doesn't need to change. I would probably stop feeling like this in a month so its fine.

Chud nysW59tg 10/27/25 (Mon) 16:04:37 №68770 [Quote]

>>68745
>idk shes the type of girl to not get bored of my ramblings and would start to ramble with me. The more I talk to her the more I see how similar we are (I'm not talking about interests)
What do you talk about then? Philosophy, politics, and the state of the world? She sounds pretty cool if that's the case.
>She isn't socially liberal, in your words she would be "obedient". The views I mean are more far than far right and also pushing his interests that she does not like.
Well my bad for assuming, as that is almost always the case for the situation of women complaining about their boyfriend's viewpoints. Is her boyfriend an actual neo nazi? Either way, I still think she shouldn't really concern herself with what he's saying unless he's really the leakiest clittycel who unironically rambles on about TND to his lover and is insisting they escape and live out in the woods geg.
>Yeah I understand, I still want to be friends with her and it would be sad if she found out and things got weird between us. Shes honestly a very sweet person, I like her how she is and not with the stuff that her boyfriend is pushing on her, she doesn't need to change. I would probably stop feeling like this in a month so its fine.
Yeah, just see how it goes. To be truthful though, you may need to talk to her far less or even cut her off if these feelings persist for a long time. I've been there with a girl before and eventually it got to a point for me where it was killing me to talk to them. This girl was all I thought about, but I knew that she didn't reciprocate and there was never a chance, but I couldn't let go of my feelings. It was excruciating to talk to her despite how lovely, playful, and chuddy she is because I would overthink everything and all of my interactions with her felt like it was for me to accomplish my goal of having something more with her, but I knew this wasn't possible. You say you'll probably be over it in a month, which you know yourself better than I so I believe you. I truly hope you don't retain a crush over this girl, as it would be awkward at best and emotional torture for you at worst.

Chud z6DyHPeg 10/27/25 (Mon) 16:10:13 №68771 [Quote]

>>68740
cord relationships aren't real, just go for it fag

Chud nysW59tg 10/27/25 (Mon) 16:26:55 №68773 [Quote]

>>68771
Don't do this OP. Even if most online relationships are retarded and fake, what does it say about her that she decided to enter a 'cord relationship with a retarded clittycel, met another guy, then ditched the guy she pledged her loyalty to over another man? That would be a very impulsive woman with no restraint, intending to monkeybranch from one guy to the next, which you'll be one of them, all for her own benefit.
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If they break up and she gets over it then OP can make a move, but he should let it play out until then and not get involved in other people's romantic life even if it's something as retarded and pathetic as a 'cord relationship. Again, that is more telling of the kind of woman she would be. Truthfully, you need to get over her OP. It's selfish to rely on and pray for someone's relationship to end so you can swoop in and take the girl, let alone for a girl that might not even make for a good long-term lover.

Chud z6DyHPeg 10/27/25 (Mon) 18:11:40 №68790 [Quote]

>>68773
pathetically gay mindset. women do stupid shit like edate because their only aspiration in life is free attention, that's not OP's problem. her ebf is a fag for dating over discord in the first place, OP is doing him a favor by taking this girl off him. refusing to do so is literally cuck mentality

Chud nysW59tg 10/27/25 (Mon) 18:49:52 №68797 [Quote]

>>68790
>woman stupid but mi want woman
>mi is macho man o algo
>mi want seggs NOW
>not destroying someone's relationship or being hedonistic is for da cucks n shiet
4cuck nigger mindset, go back
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Don't listen to this retard OP. As he himself said:
>her ebf is a fag
You are who you hang around with. As I've said OP, what does it say about her that she 'cord-dated this citty leaker for more than a year? You should get into relationships for the long term with the intent of marriage and family, not for this hedonistic short-term pleasure like z6DyHPeg wants. Red flags, morality, and relationship dynamics don't matter to niggers like him because they just want le sex no matter the cost to themselves or others.

Chud 9HYMSouh 10/27/25 (Mon) 18:54:20 №68799 [Quote]

>>68467 (OP)
does she have an ex? "edating" is not real dating, no matter how you want it to be, you cant date a person through the pixel matrix

Chud zsfRb8K5 10/27/25 (Mon) 19:02:28 №68801 [Quote]

Keep shit-talking the Clittycel until she hates him too thus choosing you as her next and real partner. The clitycel will just ack because modern day nazis are insufferable sissies. It’s important to know that people who count e-dating on der cord as some form of real relationship are mostly immature or simply not worth it

Chud z6DyHPeg 10/27/25 (Mon) 23:14:26 №68820 [Quote]

>>68797
>cucking a clittycorder is NOT hecking wholesome and trad
blow it out your ass nigger
if OP likes this girl, this is the only course of action, not being an orbiterfag waiting for her to end a fake cord relationship. if he doesn't like her, then none of this matters.
you have to be a gigautist if you think he is genuinely interested in marrying a cord foid btw

Chud nysW59tg 10/28/25 (Tue) 03:27:43 №68843 [Quote]

>>68820
>if OP likes this girl, this is the only course of action
Or he could just get over himself like a reasonable person because this is a bad thing to do for everyone involved.
>you have to be a gigautist if you think he is genuinely interested in marrying a cord foid btw
See, you just don't get it because you're a shitskin who only lives for self pleasure. I never said he should marry her, that I think it's possible, that he wanted to, or anything like that. You should only date for marriage; anything else is living would be living within your hedonistic sin. That is simply even more reason for him to not bother with her because he can't get anything truly valuable out of that relationship. You're seeing this as:
>OP should get with a girl because he likes her and he should feel good
But your nigger mind can't comprehend that this isn't what determines the value of relationships and love. There is nothing of value OP can get for his future even if we completely discount the immorality of him having to intentionally break their relationship. You type like a millenial 4cuck btw and you don't belong here. Most people here are around teenagers to young adults who seriouspost on this board because they don't have direction in their lives and you're coaling it up with your shit advice.

Chud BO90pu!6 10/28/25 (Tue) 19:21:40 №68911 [Quote]

>As I've said OP, what does it say about her that she 'cord-dated this citty leaker for more than a year?
Im kind of thinking that it was a stupid mistake to her back when it started and now she feels like she can't get out of it. Also he wasn't a clitty leaker when they started dating she told me, he just changed I guess.

Chud BO90pu!6 10/28/25 (Tue) 19:31:38 №68912 [Quote]

>>68801
Yeah I do try to criticize the shit he does I feel is wrong or retarded and gay, but I don't want to like manipulate her into breaking up with him.