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I've hit the rock bottom now and I am posting here. I've been talking to a girl for 3 weeks now. I knew she's great from the start and we had lenghty and fun conversations. However, a week later, I had a hiccup and I told her that I really like her and then (because I am very paranoid cuck negroid) I JUST HAD to ask her like a fucking moron if she likes me back. She said yes, but she still wants to know me more before a relationship. (Usually the main give away that she won't date you) We are still talking, we hung out and I also took her to the cinema. Sometimes she just says "talk to me" or "I want to talk to you". This hiccup still stresses me out because I don't know if she's using me as a cuck or she genuienly wants to "know me more". Our 3rd date/meetup is coming and I am sort of loosing it.

Do I ask her for a relationship now before I go schizo?
Or should I still talk to her, leave it for some other time?

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>>67616 (OP)
ALSO a very minuscule detail but she puts a heart on literally everything I say, post, comment or listen to

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>>67617
The heart reaction is a default on instagram/messanger/almost any app you talk to her on. keep taking to her she wants to get to know you man don’t schiz out. chicks like to talk to men on deeper levels that’s how they connect and form an emotional bond. if you jump the gun she will think you’re a creep

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>>67616 (OP)
Id say keep going for it but if u get a gut feeling that shit might not work out dont lie to yourself to keep the dresm alive

 β„–67631[Quote]

she wants you nigga she wants to talk to you and allat you have this in the BAG

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It’s not that deep. Your lucky shes even taking you on a date, just talk about yourself casually. Shit will work out

 β„–67633[Quote]

If she weren't interested then she likely wouldn't want to be hanging out for you. Just make sure that you're not paying for anything expensive for her so that she doesn't use you like that. Try dates that don't cost anything, like hanging out in the park, to see if she genuinely enjoys hanging out with you. If she didn't like you and was using you for free stuff then she wouldn't want to do stuff like that, but if she was interested then she'd be down to just talk with you and hang out. From what you described the situation sounds fine. Good luck OP

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>>67633
>>67632
>>67631
>>67630
>>67627
Thank you for the advice. I was just thinking about this, and yes, she does probably genuienly want to know me more, and is not turning me down right away, which is a very strange thing for a woman. Thanks and i'll post an update o algo

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>>67639
It's all this talk about "i am not ready for a relationship" and "i want to know you more" being an immediate sign that it's over so i schized out or something

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You are being paranoid. You have done everything right so far, why not relax? You are seeing things with the perspective that women are sexually-driven the same way men are, which is false. A girl holding off to enter in a relationship with you is a great sign! It means that, while she is interested, she is chaste and reserved. Go along with it, be a gentleman, and something beautiful may blossom between the both of you.

God bless you and your lady friend, soyteen. I will pray for you two.

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>>67641
Nicely said thank you

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>>67616 (OP)
Our 3rd date is today wish me luck

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>>67712
Good luck! We're all rooting for you.

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>>67713
I may have done something stupid so i'll ask her today, i'll give an update

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>>67720
she told she wants to see me again so i'll tell her my feelings once we meet in person

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>>67729
Nice man, next time dont take her to the cinema on a first date, you hardly get to know each other

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>>67730
it was our second date doe

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Rooting for you man. Hope it goes well and God bless you

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>>67729
any tips on how should i say it?

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>>67807
Rape her really really really really really hard

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>>67616 (OP)
Nigga overreacting over nothing πŸ₯€
Just give it time

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>>67807
Just say you like her a lot as a person and compliment her, don't be super serious or confrontational

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>>67616 (OP)
Alright our fourth date is coming and i feel i really need to tell her then because she might have lost some interest over time. She did tell me she thinks that hanging out with me is amazing doe. There's actually a second girl that constantly messages me, asks me how i am doing and weirdly liked the fact i don't have a girlfriend, so atleast i have a reserve of sorts, i haven't seen her in person since we met in person few weeks ago since she lives in a total shithole far away from me

It's a very confusing situation

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>>67616 (OP)
It might be actually over now, she's probably ghosting me

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>>68409
Marge? You said you had a fourth date coming up? Stop being paranoid and just tell her on that date.

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>>68409
failed normie now

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>>68154
>There's actually a second girl that constantly messages me, asks me how i am doing and weirdly liked the fact i don't have a girlfriend, so atleast i have a reserve of sorts
GREEN FLAG NIGGA ARE YOU BLIND SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN THE MAIN COURSE, TALK TO HER MORE

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>>68154
Some women may find this level of cluelessness attractive. Use it to your advantage, try to appear aloof, though not to the extent you come off as mean or uncaring.
>>68445
This image is activating my paternal instinct very intensely for some reason.

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If the girl is black keep going if she is whirte hands off nigger cuck go hang yourself

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>>68459
>being whirte

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>>67616 (OP)
>>68154
alright so i am going to meet her today, it'll be our 4th date and a month since we started talking, the problem is i don't really know if i'll get myself to ask for the relationship since there are 2 main things that come into play:

>the second girl that might actually like me

>she told me she has alot of raisin to do and has her social battery drained, that's why she hasn't messaged me

at this point i dont know what to do. do you have any ideas?

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>>68538
You’re running out of time, just admit it to her already. If you like the second girl more then give up on the first.

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>>68538
4th date is behind me, i didn't ask her because i am a negroid of course (the date went well from what it seemed), but i've decided i'll just stop trying with her. I won't ghost her or be mean to her, but i won't iniciate conversations o algo and i'll focus on the other girl. I hope i'll do well with her so i won't have to post here again

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>>68567
Please don't let this turn out like that other thread

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>>68568
If i were to talk about again i'd make it a seperate thread, yes the one you're talking about fucking sucks

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>>68567
pussy

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>>67616 (OP)
Xhe uses (You)

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>>67915
ask her for consent doe neutralplier

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>>68568
You on abt the one where a guy had a crush with the pooner and then started dating the junkie



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