i feel like i have gone socially retarded and have forgot how to speak spontaneously to other people like i legit don't even know how to carry or initiate conversations about something excluding discussing a hobby/activity with people in real life, it's

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Chud 10/16/25 (Thu) 15:43:32 №67514 [Quote]

i feel like i have gone socially retarded and have forgot how to speak spontaneously to other people
like i legit don't even know how to carry or initiate conversations about something excluding discussing a hobby/activity with people in real life, it's like as if i need a script to follow in conversation if i want people to not be bored of me anymore and socialising is exhausting to me

im in uni rn and during or in-between classes i am absolutely amazed by how people can just talk non-stop during class, even though its just normie background noise i still can't comprehend how some people can constantly talk with nothing much said in value. like there's something missing in my brain that allows me to just function normally in social settings

how do i stop feeling this way

Chud 10/16/25 (Thu) 15:49:12 №67516 [Quote]

There is something to be said about a man who speaks infrequently, and only says anything when he knows it's worth hearing.

Chud 10/16/25 (Thu) 15:51:36 №67517 [Quote]

>>67516
tsmt
there's nothing wrong with that, op

Chud 10/16/25 (Thu) 15:54:40 №67518 [Quote]

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God gave you two ears and one mouth, think about that

Chud 10/16/25 (Thu) 17:55:16 №67525 [Quote]

>like there's something missing in my brain that allows me to just function normally in social settings
it's called autism

Chud 10/17/25 (Fri) 19:38:51 №67598 [Quote]

>>67516
this is mostly just an autist cope
people will only think you're badass for speakingin one-liners if the one-liners summarize the opinions of the majority in a witty way
if you wanna level up socially practically speaking you have to be funny and approachable, and also less autistic. but if you're a facecel then it's over

Chud 10/17/25 (Fri) 19:56:48 №67599 [Quote]

I think I have the opposite of this problem, I talk a lot. Like a lot. My voice is annoying too so it makes it worse.
Being socially retarded fucking sucks

Chud 10/17/25 (Fri) 23:16:23 №67609 [Quote]

>>67598
talkpilled failed normie tries to school vril autist on how to be nonchalant or however the total nigger death is achieved

Chud 10/18/25 (Sat) 01:29:07 №67619 [Quote]

>>67514 (OP)
yeah, I've struggled and am struggling with that. I'd recommend a few things personally:
if you're gonna talk, talk. Don't just mumble like a retard
Making sure to speak as assertively and loud enough that you are heard is important, otherwise you'll just get talked over
This one is a bit odd but I often "script" conversations in my head. For example if I want to mention a topic to a person, I figure out a way to insert said topic and exactly what I plan to say about it. Specifically telling stories is a good way of just saying shit
I've found that if you exchange enough conversations they'll generally start respecting you and you can actually discuss topics

tbh it's still probably not going to be easy and I still struggle but it's something