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I don't want to become an incel. I don't even think I'm that conventionally unattractive (I'm obviously not top of the chain maybe somewhere just below the middle), but I have substandard social skills, I don't like to party or go out that much, my grades are shit despite me being autistic ally interested in history and politics(unrelated, just makes me more bitter) and I have several good friends but not that many compared to others. I try so hard to quit gooning and porn which I know is slowly going to mess me up(I tried easy peasy method twice and it didn't work), I procrastinate constantly and I have shit self esteem. With all of this I went from "I don't want a girlfriend" to "I want a girlfriend" to now "I don't think I'll be able to get a girlfriend". I used to believe in all that regular "blue pill" shit but I'm very disillusioned to that now. I actually can talk to women and do so fairly often, but I'm still awkward as shit. No girl has ever been attracted to me and I have been used as an emotional tampon before.
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I don't want to become an incel because I know it's retarded and gay, but the reality of my situation is slowly eating away at what self esteem I have left. I don't feel angry that women don't like me, just sad. No one around me thinks the same way politically and I go to a faggot kiked normie school. It feels like it's over

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Forgot to mention I'm not fascist but I'm very right wing at least socially so I can't talk about that kind of thing with most people

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>>67509 (OP)
nothing to add but bvmp, i'm literally the same but i dont have close friends geg

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non-incels don't have to ask this question to begin with.
sorry bro.
it's not entirely your fault, thoughbeit. the whole world is gone crazy and lots of people who would otherwise be normie are turning incel.
don't try to quit porn, you'll only hate yourself more when you inevitably relapse. just don't go crazy overboard.
hang in there.

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>>67509 (OP)
You should go on a couple dates to clear your head

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>>67588
>don't try to quit porn

Litterally kys porn is ruining my life. Gooners should be flogged in public

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>>67588
So you're saying there is absolutely NOTHING I can do?
>don't try to quit porn
I will keep trying because I'll get erectile dysfunction if I don't
>just don't go crazy overboard.
It's not like I would go insane and become violent, I don't harbour any hate towards women I've simply accepted my situation
>>67593
Thanks for the stellar advice
>>67594
This

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>>67594
it's not the porn that's ruining your life, retard, it's a deeper problem. that's the big problem with NoFap. your life will suck even if you quit the porn. you need to replace it with something else. if you just get rid of porn and don't fill the vacuum, you're just going to relapse into it.
>Gooners should be flogged in public
this is a kink for some of them thoughbeit
>>67604
>So you're saying there is absolutely NOTHING I can do?
do you want me to lie to you? you're probably fucked. what did you even make this thread for? nobody is going to give you any advice you haven't heard a million times already. it's like i alluded to in response to the other chud: this is a deeper issue. """doing something""" is not going to fix your problems.
>I'll get erectile dysfunction if I don't
what fearmonger told you this lie? quitting porn because "i'll get ED" is retarded and obfuscating your real reasons. like i said, don't jerk off avg >7 times a week, which is what i meant by don't go crazy overboard, and you're fine.

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gooning on its own raped my mental health for about 3/4 years and you shouldn't do it

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>>67655
I guess that's it
> jerk off avg >7 times a week, which is what i meant by don't go crazy overboard, and you're fine
Better to be a self-healing kissless hugless virgin who strives against porn than one who goons

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>>67685
*Self hating fuck my stupid keyboard

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>>67520
We are an underclass

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>>67509 (OP)
I'm in a similar position to you in some aspects, mostly looks and metaphorical autism. I think the only thing that can be done is improve your looks if you can't fix your personality or mind, since that'll change how others think of and treat you.

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>>67509 (OP)
>>67511
You're probably a tradcuck, and I think that's at the root why you're so upset about all this. You should know that the visage of all that's traditional is false, and that nothing works according to ideal in this accursed and godforsaked world.
Specifically, don't be so obsessed with nofap. Read through the post somebody (certainly not I, dearest jannies!) made on this board with the photo of the somalian guy aura farming; it deals with why nofap is a scam. Additionally, I wouldn't worry about terrible grades. Personally, I'm obsessed with chemistry and maths but if you don't care about those, then I don't see why poor grades in chemistry and maths would hurt you; it's not as if you want to go to university to study these things. If you decide to be a chemist or mathematician, you'll be second-rate at best, considering that you'll have to compete with people who-unlike you-are passionate about the field. (I feel like a massive dweeb referring you to Robert Greene and I personally despise most of his readers but his Mastery talks about this in greater detail).

You say you're slightly unattractive. This might be altered. You could diet- and exercise- and personalitymaxx your way out of it, redpillwise. Redpill is pretty gay if you ask me but I confess that it definitely works for some people. You'll have to take it with a grain of salt however; for instance, you can and ought to throw all that nofap bollocks into a dumpster filled with alchohol before lighting it on fire.

And even if you can't get out of it, being an incel is only so bad if you mind it. Take me, for instance. I'm far too autistic, politically extreme, and mean-spirited to get a girlfriend, but I'm still happy. What makes me happy is internal validation (i.e. my overinflated ego), rather than external validation. I think most people already know that internal validation is superior when the goal is long-term happiness, but they make an exception for some reason when external validation comes from people, rather than things, when the discrepancy between people and things is actually irrelevant.

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>>67722
>don't be so obsessed with nofap
I'm not and never have cared conventionally at least about 'streaks' or anything
>You could diet- and exercise
I don't diet but i eat very clean and healthily(barely any goyslop) and ive been going to the gym for almost 3 years, as well as that i do a martial art(thinking of starting another)
>personalitymaxx your way out of it
will do
>being an incel is only so bad if you mind it
true, it's not really about validation for me though

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>>67689
i guess

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>>67588
>non-incels don't have to ask this question to begin with
yeah go fuck yourself actually, I am surrounded by a culture that wants me to wage a constant psychological war to do fucking anything with my life besides kill myself because I'm not "allowed" to do it if it won't change the fact that I'm 5'7 with a weak chin. I have done nothing but insist that I can do what I want as opposed to doing nothing because I'm fucking BORED but every larping indian and LOOKSMOGGING instagram page wants to show up on my algorithm with relentless demoralisation because they can't emotionally process that I DON'T THINK LIKE YOU. I'm not "ALLOWED" to do it anyway, it has to have a point and the point has to be getting pussy or it's a "cope". No hobbies, no gym, no job, no social interaction at all, no interest in the arts or philosophy. Just sedentary acceptance of the end of everything. When you're being accused of being something constantly you are allowed to question it and questioning it is not your answer. You are rotten to the core and I've lost all empathy for you.

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>>67509 (OP)
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>>67885
can you turn this into a thesis statement? i have no idea what the fuck you are aiming your lambasting at

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>>67886
>C-cuckjeet!
You're mistaken. I'm not an incel and I don't subscribe to that shitass ideology



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