/qa/ - Question & Answer

why do you need one

>>943949
Me'z is a lownly nigga, baws

>>943951
how have you tried to solve this issue? are you even someone that a girl would want to be around?

>>943952
i dont hate women and i dont stench so yes
but i cant approach them they're scary
please help me marge

>>943953
are you good in social situations; can you talk to people well and make friends?

>>943954
no i have a couple friends but talking is a margerald and i refuse to get a gf from trading phone numbers or socials arbitrarily because that's gay and fake, i go to gym and i try and be kind whenever but i'm kinda brushed off i think

>>943955
>no i have a couple friends
better than none. what do you and your friends do?
>talking is a margerald
explain what you mean
>i refuse to get a gf from trading phone numbers or socials
why though? you should at least have their number at some point because otherwise how would you schedule a date?
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like maybe for that girl you like how else would you be able to schedule a date; a place and time to meet.
>go to gym and i try and be kind whenever but i'm kinda brushed off i think
thats good progress. you will make it bro just try practicing by talking to new people.
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if you go to college or your job then maybe talk to the people who sit next to you or your co-workers. just try to make small talk and go from there.

>>943962
>what do me and my friends do
me and my friends bullshit and do nothing interesting, sort of just talk
>talking is a margerald
I don't understand people, they're all fixated on sports or something I have no interest in and all the females at my school that even MIGHT share my interests are lesboids or pooners
>I refuse to get a gf from trading phone numbers
>why though?
It feels fake and I want to develop a friendship to begin with, but with no mutual interests and probably little to no mutual friends it's unlikely
>how else would you be able to schedule a date
Becoming friends and then talking more, but I can't because as i explained i'm a chudcel loser
>good progress
thanks bro
>college
yep
my college is very sporty doe
I don't have interest in sports or ballshit in general

>>943965
>me and my friends bullshit and do nothing interesting, sort of just talk
i feel you lowk. like i used to have friends who would just only talk about like… smoking or tiktok or fortnite or sex. bad people that im glad i left.
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they werent helpful at all and when i left not one of them even bothered to message me.
>I don't understand people, they're all fixated on sports or something I have no interest in and all the females at my school that even MIGHT share my interests are lesboids or pooners
there has to be SOMETHING bro. like, i was in a math class and even then i was able to find out that the person sitting next to me was in a field i liked and since then weve been "friends".
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another person i was sitting with was in CS and we would end up studying together for tests. i had nothing in common with that guy except for the fact that we sat together and we got along.
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my point is, that you can find a middle ground with people if you look hard enough. maybe ask someone about their major and why they chose it and what they plan on doing etc. etc.

>>943966
maybe
im not blackpilling just yet,
but im not exactly the most attractive either
it's a cointoss
maybe I'll find out how to talk to people or find some foid with congruent interests as me, doesn't have to be the same but i'd prefer they actually know what im talking about because the last (and only) time I talked to a female she was a sports playing normie and i was boring, it sort of made me change my personality for her and i hated that so much

>>943965
>It feels fake and I want to develop a friendship to begin with, but with no mutual interests and probably little to no mutual friends it's unlikely
try joining clubs or a religion. get involved with communities and befriend people who are likeminded. you would find women there who you can make friends with and you might even find that one special lady who you share common ground with, and then eventually you guys will exchange phone numbers.
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thats how a lot of my friends found their relationships, and everyone is happy because of that.
>Becoming friends and then talking more, but I can't because as i explained i'm a chudcel loser
humility and patience are virtues
>my college is very sporty doe
>I don't have interest in sports or ballshit in general
real asf, but i still try to engage with the other person. ik some guy who wont stop talking about football (USA), but yet we talk about it still because i try to keep the conversation going.
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you have to compromise a part of yourself if you want to understand someone else and what they like. it doesnt hurt to open up and learn something new.

>>943969
i guess das tru shartyman
i would be willing to learn about their interests i'd just like them to be willing to listen too which i have doubt in. but yes patience is a virtue that i would want to withhold
i am a christian so it probably wouldn't be hard to bond with someone going to the same church as me or adhering to the same faith but im in a strongly majority protestant area and im HOPING (haven't been able to pack into my schedule) to begin going to an orthodox church (no im not an orthobro) so that'd probably be weird to have to explain to mostly culturally-christian protestants and nondenoms
maybe I'll find a theology nerd female or someone that actually takes their religion seriously and go out with them or even just be friends
thanks for the reassurance doe, maybe it isn't so bad of a situation after all

>>943970
>i would be willing to learn about their interests i'd just like them to be willing to listen too
this will come with time and respect. start off at a base ground (ex: sports) and eventually when you guys know each other you can discuss other topics.
>i am a christian so it probably wouldn't be hard to bond with someone going to the same church as me or adhering to the same faith
youll make it bro
>to begin going to an orthodox church (no im not an orthobro) so that'd probably be weird to have to explain to mostly culturally-christian protestants and nondenoms
tbh a lot of people are open minded about this stuff. its basically just "another Catholicism" to Protestants.
>maybe I'll find a theology nerd female or someone that actually takes their religion seriously and go out with them or even just be friends
dont go to church just for women btw just warning you. if its gods will then he would help you on your road.
>thanks for the reassurance doe, maybe it isn't so bad of a situation after all
its never that bad. like, im literally chopped irl and even im the life of a party. you just gotta practice and really have passion

females dont like when someone is dependent on them for happiness so the first step is to be able to deal with ones loneliness on ur own if you can manage to be happy whilst being alone that itself is something people admire if you improve for yourself for your own happiness i think a good life can be ahead

Why is dating a foid so important