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hates fun and whimsy award
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>>908198 (OP)Was it at least chinkshit
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>>908302honestly i thought your brother is 14-15 since i assumed you are 16 (like every qa user) but holy you are sure old to be a namefag
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>>908303Lego Ninjago i guess
>>908305its not giga though this grown man is a infantile loser and the worst thing is that i cant even help him
>>908306how does that make me a old namefag bro; i know quite a lot of people here who are also college aged.
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>>908309retards need to stop treating 18 year olds like full grown adults geg your brain isnt even fully developed into stability until like you are 21-25
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>>908198 (OP)Yeah and you Goon yourself silly to FPE bruh….. Lego is more aryan or whateverthefuck
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>>908320i just dont like where his life is going bro. he still has one of those "city rugs" in his room and he doesnt do anything but play overwatch 2 with his discord friends or watch tiktok.
<i just want him to be a successful man but i think its too late to help him especially considering how he refuses to talk to me.
>>908321i know you arent talking son. also no, i dont
ink my paper to miss circle
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>>908443why would i resort to coping online
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>>908452you just didnt try hard enoff if it didnt work
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>>908459bro ive tried my whole life he just pushes me away and closes his door. he doesnt listen
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>>908488is this what you post now gill
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>>908506the autism is insane
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>>908466then your brother is a non-functional autist, might as well give up and let him enjoy life
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>>908532he can still do some stuff like drive a car and make friends. hes not non-functional but there is definitely something wrong with that guy
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>>908198 (OP)let a nigga have fun smh
>Lego Ninjago i guessholy keyed
he's out here enjoying playing his legos as a grown ass man while you're talking about how you think he's stupid for buying that
>>908343that is kinda sad but i hope he figures it out ngl
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how big is the lego set though arent there ones like with 67 thousand pieces that are made for 16+
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>>908540hes stupid for doing that though. he needs to save up for college and he just wasted his savings on some useless impulse buy
<he has no job or career goals or future plans and is just wasting his life playing video games
>>908542just eying it, the box was 4' x 2' x 6"
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no it was a much larger box. idk the piece count
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>>908543look at the box nga its not hard
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>>908546his room is locked
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>>908543>he has no job or career goals or future plans and is just wasting his life playing video gameslol
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i think people like these can't be fixed
he's old enough to know what he should be doing with his life and he wants to voluntarily waste his time doing that shit instead of prepping for anything in the future then so be it
i think he just needs to be taught that he should probably do something else with his life someday
he definitely needs parent intervention if that's the case if he's just going to do that with his life
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>>908548BREAK DOWN THE DOOR WITH AN AXE
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ok i just checked and its 4851 pieces
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>>908553nigga thinks this is ss13 💀 Bro stole the fire axe from atmos and is breaking into every single room
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>>908551>i think people like these can't be fixedreal.
<its sad too because hes been doing this his whole life. like for example we used to go to this burger joint together, and i would progress as i grew up and try new things from the menu while he always ate a hotdog with no toppings and sauce for years.
>i think he just needs to be taught that he should probably do something else with his life somedayhow would i go about this? ive already told him enough about planning for college and teaching him how it works but he wouldnt listen.
>he definitely needs parent intervention if that's the case if he's just going to do that with his lifemy parents try too.
>>908553luckily for me he left the house to go to his friends house again. my mom allowed him to take the car even though he is grounded from doing that
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>>908567>its sad too because hes been doing this his whole life. like for example we used to go to this burger joint together, and i would progress as i grew up and try new things from the menu while he always ate a hotdog with no toppings and sauce for years.holy autismerald
he just seems like someone who doesn't want to adapt to change
>how would i go about this? ive already told him enough about planning for college and teaching him how it works but he wouldnt listen.nigga take the things he enjoys away from him
this would be quite rude and devil time but you literally cannot allow someone like that to do whatever the fuck they want and drop $300 on legos if he's not thinking about his future
you gotta be strict with him to enforce some shit, if he's been handheld his entire life to not do what he believes is "hard" and can just chill out and play videogames all day then clearly he hasn't been taught anything
you need to force him to do hard things for him to actually learn anything
>my parents try too.>my mom allowed him to take the car even though he is grounded from doing thatso what i'm hearing is that your parents don't really care
if your parents even gave a microfraction of a fuck about him then they'd obviously restrict him from doing this
clearly they don't care much if they're just willing to let him pass by and do whatever the fuck he wants all day
if they just lightly say "uhhhhh you can't do that" but don't enforce shit for him to do that then he's just going to do the same things he does because clearly your parents don't care enough to do anything
atleast enforce the rules you have set in place bruh
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>>908564OK MR "TRUE SECOND LETTER OF THE ALPHABET"
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>>908578Ngga what are u saying
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>>908579True = REAL
Second letter of the alphabet = B
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>>908553>>908578>>908581>>908582stop talking like an autistic shitskin on adderall you retarded latvian subhuman
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>>908584what's your problem?
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>>908582Not realb but good guess ig
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>>908572>he just seems like someone who doesn't want to adapt to changethats his issue unfortunately. he never changes. the furthest we got his diet to change is by adding lettuce in his burgers but thats the most ive seen him "adventure".
>nigga take the things he enjoys away from himand then get my parents angry at me? i had to fight over the car because i needed to go do shopping for the whole family and he wanted it to go to our school nearby which is only a 5 minute walk.
<i cant do it alone, especially because he intentionally pushes me out of his life. we havent talked in years, and if thats overestimating then we havent talked in months. the most i know about him is whatever my parents tell me, which is usually too vague.
>so what i'm hearing is that your parents don't really carethey care, but i think they are a bit too soft on how they care. im usually the one who gets yelled at for staying up at 11:00PM while he gets off scott free for being up until 3:00AM. they always try to check my PCs while he only gets rude remarks for having such a dirty room.
<i think they just worry about me more because they see my potential. they know i could find success. they just see my brother as a lost cause and stopped caring.
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>>908591>thats his issue unfortunately. he never changes. the furthest we got his diet to change is by adding lettuce in his burgers but thats the most ive seen him "adventure".so he's just a massive sperg that refuses to change i think i understood this earlier
>i cant do it alone, especially because he intentionally pushes me out of his life. we havent talked in years, and if thats overestimating then we havent talked in months. the most i know about him is whatever my parents tell me, which is usually too vague.same honestly
at this point why even care if he's just pushed you out of his life
it's not up to you to particularly care about him, i guess it's sad to see your brother turn out like this but at this point he might just be a lost cause
if he's really not willing to listen to you then the best you could do is probably convince your parents why it's important for him to do something
people like him seem to not do anything with their lives and trying to convince them otherwise is just a lost cause, unless you're unable to intervene which it seems like you aren't then yeah i think it'd probably just be a lost cause
>they care, but i think they are a bit too soft on how they care. im usually the one who gets yelled at for staying up at 11:00PM while he gets off scott free for being up until 3:00AM. they always try to check my PCs while he only gets rude remarks for having such a dirty room.so they have favorites to choose from
they need to understand to not spoil him and actually let him figure out life since he's old enough to figure out things for himself instead of being constantly handheld
why do they try and check your pcs?
>they just see my brother as a lost cause and stopped caring.right so in that case why even keep him around
i think it's best if they try and do something like kick him out at this point because if he genuinely doesn't want to contribute anything to the family whatsoever then he can just leave but honestly it's up to their parents
i know he could probably find success similar to you it's just the fact that they probably don't push him as hard as they do to you
he actually needs to be pushed or else he stays like this
<i don't know what to say man he's probably just a lost cause ngl
i can see your worry and frustrations toward him but is it even worth it to care about him if he refuses change like this
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>>908602>at this point why even care if he's just pushed you out of his lifei mean, its just the moral right to help my family members but ive given up honestly
<you are right
>so they have favorites to choose fromi guess? they never had "favorites". they usually ask me for help so i guess i would technically be their favorite. they dont limit us at all.
>why do they try and check your pcs?because my career mostly focuses on what i do on a computer, they get paranoid and think im getting groomed into islamic cults or whatever even though i was literally baptized like a month ago.
<they worry too much about what i do online. its kinda sad they dont trust me even when i give my best. i havent even gotten in trouble or done any drugs in 5 years. maybe thats why they are paranoid?
<its why i dont bring friends or even any girls to my house. its why i never told them about my godparents or went on any vacations with them. i dont like how they distrust me so much.
>right so in that case why even keep him around i have no clue. maybe they know something i dont, or maybe they dont care and expect him to figure it out and move out by 20.
>i know he could probably find success similar to youi have my own doubts on this. he has no clue what he wants. last ive heard is that he wants to be a ophthalmologist but he almost failed his science classes in high school. previously he wanted to be a car mechanic, and before that a electrician.
<he needs guidance in life, like we all do.
>is it even worth it to care about him if he refuses change like thishes my biological brother so i kinda feel like i have to be that "big brother" and help out, but in reality thatll never work out.
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>>908633>i mean, its just the moral right to help my family members but ive given up honestlyhonestly i'd probably do the same in your scenario even doe it's a just let it go bruh it's over kinda scenario
both of my brothers seem to be doing fine doebeit so there's not much to worry about, and they're way older than me
it's mostly just them who worried about me
>they usually ask me for helplike what kind of help?
my parents constantly ask me for tech related questions because they know i can use a computer while they don't
>because my career mostly focuses on what i do on a computer, they get paranoid and think im getting groomed into islamic cults or whatever even though i was literally baptized like a month ago.lol wtf
my parents are worried about it too but it's not enough for them to actively monitor whatever i do on the computer because they have no clue how to check my computer
they always got mad at me everytime they barged into my room how i would lock my computer screen because they always thought i was doing some shit like watching porn and jerking off but i just didn't want them to see the snca i was doing
>and think im getting groomed into islamic cultslol wtf
>i was literally baptized like a month ago.awesome
i want to get baptized again but at the same time i've been a cucktheist ever since i was a child because i hated being forced to go to church but i pretend to be one if my parents ask because they'd probably kick me out if i wasn't
i don't know why, i wish i could believe in god like everybody else, maybe i just need to pray and find jesus o algo
>its why i never told them about my godparents???
marge
>or went on any vacations with themi was recently on vacation with my family and it reminded me of how niggerhell spending any amount of time collectively with everybody in my family is
>i have my own doubts on this. he has no clue what he wants. last ive heard is that he wants to be a ophthalmologist but he almost failed his science classes in high school. previously he wanted to be a car mechanic, and before that a electrician.how is he going to expect to get either of those jobs without going to college or studying lmao?
you can't play overwatch all day and immediately get a high-level job
please don't tell me he's those "up and coming" streamer types please
>hes my biological brother so i kinda feel like i have to be that "big brother" and help out, but in reality thatll never work out.my brothers also had the same mentality towards me ngl
but their advice was often misguided even doe they had good intentions
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>>908643>it's mostly just them who worried about mei think you understand then that older brothers at least try to "care".
>like what kind of help?engineering, architecture, CAD work, welding, household chores, and other things. im not trying to say my brother doesnt do any household work, but usually i get asked for chores because im reliable.
>they have no clue how to check my computerim glad they dont actually go into my computers because i really dont want them seeing how im a Soybooru janitor or the amount of pepes i have or the page im on in Homestuck etc etc.
<at least they dont think im some porn addict; they just think im a video game addict like my little brother. its better they dont know about our SNCA.
>lol wtfikr? its so stupid that they think id ever be interested in joining ISIS or whatever raisin they got going on in the middle east.
>awesomethanks
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>i hated being forced to go to church but i pretend to be one if my parents ask because they'd probably kick me out if i wasn't
>i don't know why, i wish i could believe in god like everybody else, maybe i just need to pray and find jesus o algo
i never went in a church when i was younger. i started going like 2 years ago because i always wanted to be a part of a group or i guess something greater.
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it feels good when you are a part of a group. its why i recommend going to church whether you actually believe or dont care at all since socialization is good for us.
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i usually try not to make religion a part of my online personality (mostly because i detest religion debaters and shills) but it is something i try to take seriously. its always gonna be a battle for all of us to be "Christlike".
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i guess just pray more and pray like you actually mean it. its what i did once when i was 14-16 (i genuinely forget) when i asked God to fix my life, and so far i think he answered that prayer.
>marge
i have trouble being honest with them because they always try to poke at me for my past, so ive just closed up. i dislike that they want to see everything about me.
>i was recently on vacation with my family and it reminded me of how niggerhell spending any amount of time collectively with everybody in my family is
the last time ive ever been with my family anywhere, it ended up with all of us getting a bad flu and i dont have anything to talk about to my mother about my life.
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i like some of my family members but they feel so far away at the end of the day. theres nothing i relate to them with. theres nothing i want to tell them and theres no reason for me to see them.
>how is he going to expect to get either of those jobs without going to college or studying lmao?
we force him to do some things. rn hes in some program thats free for high schoolers and apparently its "useless" to him since hes not learning anything.
>please don't tell me he's those "up and coming" streamer types please
thankfully not but he does have a PC more expensive than mine despite me literally doing photoshop and 3d modelling. i think he spent $1000 on a prebuilt
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>>908680>skimming through a wordswordswords thread
>don't give up on your brother and always be there for himive tried. ive talked to him a lot about college. i hope he at least remembers what ive told him.
>Let something fuck him over a little bit; it'll give him a taste of the consequences.change is inevitable and its definitely coming for him. eventually both of us are gonna get kicked out of the house, and maybe that will wake him up.
>Maybe he needs an explanation of why what he does is retarded.i will just try to talk to him one more time. it could work out.
>This is a quality that you don't often see in many people these days, so I respect that.thanks
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>>908688>ive tried. ive talked to him a lot about college. i hope he at least remembers what ive told him.I'm certain it means something to him, for what it's worth, probably more likely later down the line
>maybe that will wake him upChange is a lot like girls, a fear of it comes from being fucked over by one at least once, has he had a past ambition that did not work out?
>i will just try to talk to him one more time. it could work out.I wish you luck
>thanksdon't mention it
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>>908694>I'm certain it means something to him, for what it's worth, probably more likely later down the linetrue
>Change is a lot like girls, a fear of it comes from being fucked over by one at least oncekek i like that analogy
>has he had a past ambition that did not work outi wouldnt know. we stopped talking when he was like 12 years old or whenever COVID hit i forget the details
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>>908711>we stopped talkingWas there a moment that made him stop talking to you? Or did you two just drift apart.
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>>908734i guess we just drifted apart and found nothing to be interested in together. we each got our own friends and social medias and things we were interested in.
<i at least got him to come on my xbox 360 a few times to play MW3 survival (yes, its better than zombies and thats a hill ill die on) but thats the most interaction we had in years
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My little brother is a god damm fucking loser this man has no life he stinks he is musty he doesn't take showers he wakes up every day in the morning and the first thing he does is get on a call with his friends NO SHOWER NO BRUSHING HIS TEETH nigga STINKS this niggas teeth is so messed up like they going LEFT AND RIGHT it's like his teeth are throwing gang signs THEY ARE YELLOW NIGGA LIKE BUTTER, nigga goes to school to try to fight girls he a Gay ass nigga and he denying it to NIGGA FINGERS HIMSELF, HE SHOWS HIS SMALL PP FOR BOYS ON CALL, HE TWERKS FOR BOYS NIGGA FAILING ALL HIS CLASSES, this nigga a failure he not making it nowhere in life I'm just being real
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>>908772Talking about yourself award 🫩🫩🫩🫩