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Every christmas my family hosts dinner, but then they always throw a party afterwords. Idon't drink alcohol, and I do love them but they don't understand why I don't want to be there.
I usually just go in my room and play vidya. I feel bad every second but I can't stand being around people when they're drunk. It's the same every year `teens, I feel fucking terrible about it every year :(
Is this a normal thing or am I just a SLF

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I did a q on the /qa/ board and I expect to get some a's

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>>891054 (OP)
Drink

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>>891054 (OP)
Drink with them

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>>891056
I don't drink I'm an athlete

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I'm also too autistic for alcohol, it does not make me feel good it just makes me sloppy and say stupid stuff

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>>891058
>>891059
Alcohol cures autism

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>>891061
It doesn't :(
Back when I used to smoke cigarrettes it at least made me a little sociable. Now if I drink I get even quieter than I usually am.

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>>891064
Doesn't matter it's good for you anywyas

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>>891067
Drinking is not an option. If I do drink I will still be upstairs shitposting on here but just with -15IQ

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>>891068
I do this every friday

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>>891071
I went through a phase when I did this but it made me really stupid so I stoppped

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>>891072
Being stupid is fun and cures autism

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>>891074
I like the idea of being useful to society because the opposite of that is suicidal idealation, drug addiction, self loathing and probably trooning out

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>>891071
t. steamengine

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>>891075
I never have these thoughts when drunk so you might be broken

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>>891078
I don't have these thoughts when I'm drunk
I mean I don't want to make myself so stupid I can't be useful
If you're not useful then you're a neet and will probably end up as one the afformentioned degenerate spirals

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>>891079
you can drink without becoming an alcoholic who drinks alone at the computer every night
i picked up drinking at the computer this week but i'm just doing it to learn how to handle alcohol for social situations like the one mentioned in your OP

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>>891090
My boy…
Alcohol is not a drug you can just manage.
It effects every single neuron in the body. It influences the entire GABA system, and when its left your system it affects the entire glutamte system.
You need grams of alcohol to have any effect because of how many systems it interacts with.
It is incredibly addictive because it will fuck you up for weeks in a really fucked up way and you will struggle to be sober for months

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>>891092
It's only addictive if it's something you do daily in large quantities

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>>891110
You will see.

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>>891112
I've been drinking since I was 18 and still don't feel any degree of addiction

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>>891113
Whatever nigga. Everything has to run its course.

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>>891090
You could at least talk to people while drinking at the computer, makes it much more fun to be stimulated

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>>891116
I used to go to `cord groups whilst drunk and talk shit with people. It made me feel really lonely sometimes, so I stopped doing that entirely.

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>>891115
Schizo
Just say you hate alcohol and can't have fun with it

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>>891118
Then do it with your brothers or whatever so you talk while exchanging beer

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>>891119
I do hate alcohol, I can't have fun with it anymore because I'm way too aware of the reality of drinking the stuff.
If I want to enjoy alcohol then I will need a fuck ton of alcohol, which will fuck me up and make me crave alcohol later in the week. Then I become powerless to it, and I drink again, and again. Then it ruins my sleep, ruins my mood etc etc etc.
I have danced this dance enough times to know that it is FUTILE to expect a healthy relationship with this silly substance.

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>>891121
I don't have silbings or friends.
And I think this is a silly reason to drink. If you wnat company, then do an acitivity instead of just drinking and talking about literally nothing.

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>>891123
>then do an acitivity instead of just drinking and talking about literally nothing.
Have you considered going to a hobby club so you can talk to old people?

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>>891124
Why would i talk to people I have nothing in common with??

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>>891125
Tbh I find it fun to talk with people I have nothing in common with because it often opens up a lot of new topics

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>>891123
>And I think this is a silly reason to drink. If you wnat company, then do an acitivity instead of just drinking and talking about literally nothing.
so why the fuck did you even make this thread complaining about not doing this then

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>>891128
Not when they only talk about SNCA which is neither thought provoking nor entertaining. Alcohol makes any topic of conversation fun for some reason, which is a very dangerous trap IMO

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>>891130
thats only if you stay on small talk not if you break the ice and actually find an interesting topic

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>>891125
Your disinterest in joining some sort of hobby club implies that you are very boring
>>891130
>Not when they only talk about SNCA which is neither thought provoking nor entertaining.
This is 99% of people, people are boring, go join some college club or whatever if you want to be around gay nerds

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>>891129
I wanted to know if I'm overreacting and maybe it's okay to seperate myself from them if I don't like what they're doing, even though my family pressures me into it sometimes.
And all I've got are people projecting their cope for why they drink alcohol…

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>>891133
>This is 99% of people, people are boring, go join some college club or whatever if you want to be around gay nerds
KEK.

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>>891134
ive never drank alcohol and i never will

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>>891134
>And all I've got are people projecting their cope for why they drink alcohol…
Stop posting

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>>891132
When I do this with my family, I end up just talking at them about some cool nerd shit I enjoy, and they enmd up going 'wow, thats super cool bro, how interesting' and thats all they can add. That is not a conversation.
>>891133
I'm not disinterested, I just don't know what you mean by 'hobby club'
Here we have country clubs, full of old guys, who are just ex pub drinkers and a little posh because they play golf or something.

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>>891138
If you never even care about it then this is the way to go about it. If you think you can handle it causally then I would actualyl recommend going really into it so you never drink again once you finally get off it.

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>>891129
He wants something to whine about
>>891140
Local circles that you can find to do things with if you insist
Maybe things were different 10+ years ago because I hang out with my long distance gamer buddies sometimes

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>>891139
I came here for either
Reasurance
Or someone to tell me to stop being a pussy and go socialize
And I got neither so nothing has changed

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>>891142
I just felt bad about it and wanted to know if I was actually being immoral or it was my family being immoral by pressuring me into drinking alcohol. I'm not whining about anything

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>>891145
>Or someone to tell me to stop being a pussy and go socialize
this is literally what we are telling you

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>>891145
>stop being a pussy and go socialize
Stop being a whiny faggot

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>>891142
This is not a thread about hobbies nigga, I have hobbies, its' why I don't ever drink. Because I don't have to.

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>>891152
you have hobbies yet you have nothing to talk about?

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>>891152
My church says alcohol is the greatest thing God ever created because it demonstrates free will so you win I guess

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>>891153
He probably has hobbies but refuses to talk to people about them

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>>891153
Because I'm very obsessed with my hobbies. It makes people feel bad when I talk about my fitness because they (my fmaily) are not athletic at all. They start givi8ng me excuses and shit and say stuff like 'i should go back to the gym' and it makes me angry.
Like I said I just end up talking at them

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>>891157
TRhis is just an example, but when shit like nueroscience and AI genuinly excites you and your family didn't even attend collage, you just feel like you're somewhat mogging them or something. Thats the vibe I get, Idk its like I annoy them when I try to talk about stuff I enjoy.

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>>891155
I do think drugs are a great thing to demonstrate this, but unfortuantely not that many people have free will in this society. Everyone is hooked to something, but thats not what this thread is about.

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>>891157
you sound like an asshole tbh
>>891160
find something you can talk to them about then or find people who you can talk to about those subjects

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>>891165
I'm a piece of shit, go figure. It comes free with you genuine hatred for niggers
>>891165
This is snca. I don't like football because it's snca. you are basically asking me to get into football so I can please normies.
This is terrible fucking advice, I hope you realise this

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>>891168
Suffer because you enjoy your solitude and staying in your shell slf

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Also, my family love me. I'm a big family guy and I love supporting my family where I can. It's not like I'm actually an asshole to them, I do talk to them, I do spend some time with them, I just can't stand it when they're drunk and doing stupid shit and tlaking about nothing at all important. It's just a waste of time to me. And this thread has made me think like this more and more because no one has said anytthing at all to challenge this way of thinking.

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>>891174
>I just can't stand it when they're drunk and doing stupid shit and tlaking about nothing at all important. It's just a waste of time to me.
Then use your hobbies to make money or whatever

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>>891173
I do not suffer. Like I said I do actually socialize. But it's always short lived because theres only so much energy I have to tolerate their snca
You are just giving me the same arguaments I've had with myself dozens of times over. nothing here is novel to me, and you're getting angry at me because I'm against the exact thing you glammorise.

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>>891168
>This is terrible fucking advice, I hope you realise this
idk i used to be like you and that advice is working out for me

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>>891175
That's what I'm trying to do. but i'm using christmas as an excuse to slack off and use the sharty. This is contributing to my mood

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>>891177
But how is that authentic to you at all? If you don't relaly like something and you're just doing it for others, how will that ever make you truly happy with yourself?
I used to do that in highschool to be popular and it fucked my perception of friendship up massively.
I would have had freinds if I ACTUALLY spent time looking for people I have thinkgs in common with, instead of involving myself in normie kulchur so I wouldn't be alone

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we don't know enough about how your family is when drunk to make an opinion about this chuddy
>>891122
meth bros winning

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>>891180
>or find people who you can talk to about those subjects

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>>891180
Just accept that people are boring and you're too smart for them and have to turn your brain off sometimes

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>>891182
This graph is kind of silly because it averages everything
If you smoke meth you will probaboly do meth almost daily which is obviously worse than alcohol daily
Same with heroin
but then it expects you to smoke tobacco daily too so it says thats pretty bad.
damage to cells alone puts alcohol top of the list.
Its neurotoxic at any dose, not matter how small

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>>891180
>I used to do that in highschool to be popular and it fucked my perception of friendship up massively.
If you weren't popular as a child and known the same people your entire school career you were never popular nigga

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>>891183
I'ts hard now that I'm not in a setting to do this, but I have some ideas like going to le soyence conventions or seomthing
or just working in that field and befriending other people like that
I'm not lonely nigga, this is not what this thread is about

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>>891180
also i'm not saying force yourself to get into things you don't like just to talk with other people with the first point
is there anything your family is into that you've not tried before? you might end up liking it if you try it

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>>891184
I cannot accept that because it makes me feel even more lonely. I'm talking from expirience, this really fucked up version of solitude will drive you insane if kept up for long enough. Never having someone to confide in is a different kind of lonely.

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>>891187
My shcool was very autistic so I never formed a relationshiop with the really smart kids because they also kind of annoyed me.

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>>891189
They are equal in the fact that they are all consumist goyim
They LOVE holidays, going out every week, drinking any chance they get, they love the weekend because they love parties etc
This is basically their hobby, anything extra they make their whole schtick or something like that.
My cousins are cool but they are kind of anxious and shy as fuck because they were probably EPI'd or something

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>>891090
do not drink at home alone or you will turn into an alcoholic shut in loser

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>>891195
>>891195
>holidays
Zero Christmas Cheer award

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>>891198
I'm not black kys

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>>891202
You aren't black but you hate everything

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>>891201
alcohol isnt based

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>>891200
I love christmas, I love giving gifts, I love making my family happy. It's literally the point of christmas, I love the holiday season (hence why i said holidays, this is a multi week thing for my family). Don't you dare say I'm not jolly you blackpilled faggot

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>>891206
I just came into the thread i didnt read everything

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>>891190
>Never having someone to confide in is a different kind of lonely.
the first 19 years of my life were like this, suck it up nigger
>>891191
>>891195
again, you sound like an asshole
>>891197
i'll be fine
staying at my mother's for the week and drinking her alcohol
once christmas break is over i'll be sober whether i like it or not

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>>891204
I hate normie shit because I used to marinate myself in normie shit and it made me a self loathing faggot back then.
Now I can't stand anything I used to do to pretend to be normal so I could fit in or something. I stopped being like this and I guess this manifests as hate or something, but you guys did tell me to just 'stfu and drink and forget about it it's whatever' which is what I used to tell myself which is not what you should tell yourself because it fixes nothing

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>>891208
I'm holly jolly your a faggot dick licker

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Im not a faggot, faggotry is disgusting and sinful

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>>891211
I'm being defensive, but I am an asshole. If we spoke outside of this you would never be able to tell though, because I'm not THAT autistic. I can talk to normies nusoi, it comes free with your fucking mask

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>>891211
Yeah I have sucked it up you cunt. I'm trying to pursade some other `teen not to pretend to be someone their not.

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Fuck you guys I"m buying a bottle of DXM and forgetting about this entire thread.

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>>891219
lmao, cya

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>>891219
Not healthy

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i know you apparently ragequit but
>>891217
>I'm trying to pursade some other `teen not to pretend to be someone their not.
>>891216
>I am an asshole. If we spoke outside of this you would never be able to tell though, because I'm not THAT autistic. I can talk to normies nusoi, it comes free with your fucking mask
it sounds like you're already doing that kek
and again, that wasn't my point
i'm telling you to try to find things you both like, not pretend to like the same things as them



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