>>846426 (OP)im assuming that youre new to the party as a whole. if youre new to /qa/ then just leave. it's not worth it.
<reddit spacelurk. lurk a lot. this community has its own guidelines and rules and (you) WILL look strange if you dont adhere to them.
browse the wiki. learn about the common words and soyjak variants.
when youre comfortable with the community then start to interact with them. make new threads and talk to other people.
start to collect le hecking funny soyjak images. look at the pinned post in /soy/
<reddit spaceafter that, youre on your own. you can do raids, you can make art and oc, you can be a retarded faggot on /soy/ and just bait, you can namefag on /qa/ or the booru, you can contribute to the wiki etc.
just have fun, honestly.