/soy/ - Soyjaks

>I don't give a fuck about the racial aspect
I know what you mean. I'm a short pake white twink, and my first bf was a tall muscular black dude who was nearly twice my size. We looked like a stereotypical pair that had just stepped out of some gonzo interracial porno and I'm sure people made all sorts of wild assumptions about what our sex life and relationship was like.

But honestly race wasn't really a factor in our relationship. We'd been friends since middle school, ended up being each other's firsts as we explored our sexuality together in high school, and were in most respects a very plain boring gay couple. Our sex life was quite vanilla too, we were both switches and neither of us was into rough play or dom/sub dynamics.