>Broke up with the most perfect man I’ve ever dated>I recently started therapy and am looking at a borderline personality disorder diagnosis (therapist doesn’t like diagnosing and generally leaves that up to psychologists) but damn y’all, the symptoms

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Chud 05/28/26 (Thu) 07:49:08 №16283519 [Quote]

>Broke up with the most perfect man I’ve ever dated

>I recently started therapy and am looking at a borderline personality disorder diagnosis (therapist doesn’t like diagnosing and generally leaves that up to psychologists) but damn y’all, the symptoms line up to a T.

>I’ve struggled with mental health and sobriety since I was a teenager (currently 34) and I’m finally addressing a lot of abuse and trauma that I otherwise spent tons of time convincing myself wasn’t a big deal.

>Anywho, met this literally perfect guy back in December. Except that he has a kid; I don’t want kids, no expectation of me being a step mom from me or him (kid is about to legally be an adult and I haven’t met him) but the fact that he will always chose his kid over me just doesn’t feel right. That sounds and feels incredibly selfish but it triggers the shit out of me and I’ve tried halfass breaking up with him like 9 times already. He’s stuck through it all. But last night I was finally honest about the kid. Maybe we can circle back in a few months after more therapy because he’s the first man I’ve ever been with that’s seen me for me…

>Feeling sad and shitty.

>Buttered/salted pasta with too much (the right amount) of Parmesan and a tomato from my garden.