/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

I thought so too. Never had a gf, but today, first new lesson, girl with similar music taste keeps talking to me and mentions she is single (more than once). I get her insta for band practice . I don’t know why but I am drawn to her in a way I haven’t felt before. I hope it turns out to be something but most probably not

i feel the same way about a girl i worked with a few years ago. i felt drawn to her like i havent been to anyone else. she was my first taste of real ambition, before her i had never really wanted anything. it didnt work out even though i was able to shoot my shot and now im just waiting for a new girl to come along that i want to chase. idk if it will happen though.

i could have put myself out there because im not unattractive (i had made the mistake of blatantly staring directly into the pussy of multiple women in public and it just made them smile or approach me, so i know if i looksmaxx i can get safely out of the orbiter zone), but ive let myself go and have been inadvertently blackpilling myself with anti women bs on youtube plus i just dont want to get with a girl then be struck with chronic oneitis like i was before. i dont go out of my way to talk to anyone but if i have to i dont like to because im ugly and dont want to inconvenience them. ik ik im a simp or whatever but its natural for a man to be chronically adverse to burdening other people, even if it is foids

I'm going thru this exactly. My one and only crush was back in high school which screwed up getting w/ her and that was centuries ago now. I haven't felt the pull like that towards anybody else since. Every girl that I've attempted to speak to/develop a relationship with ends up having a bf or is a lesbian.

Also I've realized that, A. I'm chopped, and B. I have a lot of shit i still need to work out in my personal life, before I have a gf rely on me and whatnot.

I'm too subhuman to get a girlfriend, I'm going to die as a kissless virgin

>>97824
Have you considered all of your options doe? Even if you're genuinely subhuman you could still try to get an ok paying job or if you're white you could try moving to some shithole country where the competition is weaker, unless it's really that over

Having a girlfriend is fucking overrated.
>inb4 muh fakecel
Think about it logically for two seconds. Having a girlfriend is just an extra human being you have to babysit. It doesn't fulfill you. Every single one of your core problems remains completely untouched. You're completely distracted by those faggy butterflies in your stomach instead of actually focusing on yourself and fixing your own life. Then, because you're fundamentally broken, you project all your miserable insecurities directly onto her. Also genz foids are all braindead anyway so you can’t vent to her about your problems as a chud. Imo the desperate need for a gf stems from the fact that you have zero social life, zero identity, zero self-worth, no real hobbies, no cool friends, and you lack any meaningful community to give you validation. So, you try to outsource your entire ego to a foid. I think carl Jung talks about this o algo. But fr like yall niggas gotta stop glorifying dis shit like on god bro it ain even all dat. mfs be puttin relationships on a pedestal for no reason and shieeeet

>>97827
I mean it's kinda true but at the same time it's natural to want a gf, I mean without that need the human race would not survive, so it's easy to say that you don't need it but most guys are still gonna be desperate for a woman even if they acknowledge that

>>97825
>ok paying job
How is that relevant
>or if you're white you could try moving to some shithole country where the competition is weaker
I can barely even leave my house let alone move to the other side of the planet

>>97832
Honestly I kinda relate to that but I was just trying to give some advice that sounds like it might work, I mean I can't even follow it cause I barely have any motivation to do anything. I guess at that point just do anything to keep the rope away

>>97719 (OP)
I never really tried either. Once in a while a girl/woman comes along who seems to like me. The next time that happens I'll make a move but I'm not actively seeking it out. Men and women just seem to hate each other these days. Why would you date or approach someone who may secretly hate you? It doesn't make sense. If these were pre-COVID times, sure, I'd be more open to trying. I just don't see the point in complimenting or giving things to somebody that might just hate me. I've heard all the stories about men approaching women respectfully at bars and them just getting humiliated. I will never let that happen to me. If they like me they can tell me. Otherwise, I'm just going to sit it out.
>The girl who liked me in middle school is the true love of my life and I will never have another.
TSMT.

>Sweetheart and spaceboy

Marge isn't sweetheart abusive to spaceboy doebeit most teens would probably want a abusive girlfriend

I've never been interested in being in a relationship, I think I'm too retarded to maintain it plus I'm a lazy fuck, I've had a few crushes but never felt the urge to confess to them or anything.

I have over 80k followers on the 'tok
When is it my turn for some bpdemon gold digger to take advantage of me

>>97847
Exactly this. It's sad too because bars, parties, clubs, and just third spaces in general I feel aren't worth going to for relationship prospects.

Like all the uncs that I know all talk about going to clubs and whatnot to score, and I don't want to just have a one night stand with some random chick, or a relationship that's gonna last 6 months. I, and I'm sure most of you nusoipoopas, want an actual intimate relationship not some bullshit. But it's so hard with the 'tok and social media shit.

>>97927
famous bro