/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

>>96979
Yeah but it doesn't let you create 2 different polls so I just did Dad only

My father was 52

>>96980
Unless I create one here
Mother's age?

>>96978 (OP)
this makes total sense

Dad was in early 40s, Mom was in early 30's. I don't think I have autism, although throughout grade school I was perceived as having it, with a conference of a teacher asking my parents to enroll me into a program for autism (due to me being more introverted). In high school, a couple of people thought I was autistic

>>96978 (OP)
my dad was 45 when he had me (mom was 33). im not autistic, but there was a kid on my street growing up whose dad was like 70 with a 40 year old wife from ukraine. the kid couldnt hold a conversation and had no friends, he also had a sister with extreme non-functioning autism to the point where she had to attend a specialized school. of course, his parents blamed vaccines for their kids being fucked up rather than themselves

My dad was 39 and my mom was 43

Having kids past 40 should unironically be illegal. You're basically mutilating your kid and leaving them disabled, often severely. Even in a best case scenario where a kid is born completely healthy they'll still suffer severe consequences from their parents being too old to take care of them. I have both personally experienced and talked with people who experienced neglect because their parents were too old and tired to raise them

Mum and Dad were both in their early 30s when they had me

I got recently diagnosed with ADHD doe the hyperactivity was super obvious as a young child. Luckily my parents weren't retards that got me checked out and put on (((meds))) as a caca. A couple months ago there was a thread on /pol/ I think about IQ, I got 130 on some danish test that someone claimed was the most reliable. Don't have Autism doe I did rate high enough to warrant a referral, just not a diagnosis.

Any level of intelligence is a curse, and being socially weak is the worst possible thing in this soyciety. Looking back to my childhood I was an absolute laughing stock. I might have been top of the class in primary but in terms of social standing I was below the retards who would just talk about Fifa and football all day. Got bullied, got made fun of in secondary as well for being "cringe" evendoe I was just trying to copy what the popular people were doing.

Being a retarded goy that only cares about sportsball is the best possible life. Low expectations from family, you work some average job, probably fuck while still in school, get married pretty young.

>>97046
My aunt finally got engaged and shes 41. Now shes floating the idea of having kids. I don't have the stomach to tell her that she left it until way too late, because by the time she gets married and gives birth she would be at the earliest like 43.

Its so bad to have kids late. My main thought whenever I think of this is DBDR/Hat Flying, hes 25 o algo and his parents are in their 70s or something. He has Klinefelters and his parents completely failed their role. Even if they did look after him well, they're most likely going to die in the next decade, so when hes in his early 30s. Why even bother with kids at that point. If you're going to have kids, have them by 35 so they're not all fucked up, and so that you can actually see them grow into a full adult, and have their own kids. If you're older, maybe adopt some white orphan. God knows they already have it rough and could use some parental figures and a stable household, and normalfags aren't going to help out since they only care about turd world DNB, or even worse, its going to be a fag or troon couple adopting them

>>97051
OP here my aunt just had a baby last year at 41, father is 47 even doe she already has 2 teenagers from her first marriage, she would have to start trying for the baby now as she's quickly running out of time, but older mothers cause shit like down syndrome

>>97069
It might be a little better in my aunts case because her fiancee is a bit younger than her, 39 iirc. Still clearly in the danger zone doe and it only gets worse. The rest of the family doubts she will have a child, and if she does, we assume it will be just one, but she is generally very indecisive so we have no clue. We just hope that she doesn't get pressured into having a child because of the parents and parents in law, its better to not have a kid than have one you don't 100% want.

>>97075
Adoption is probably a better option at this point