>>95680first post best post.
I have seen guys get their shit together, then die. It hurts, because you say "see, he made it! good for him! if he can dig himself out of that hole filled with shit then so can i!" But then dude get's a heart attack, or cancer, or dies in some other stupid way.
There is this flawed american obsession with the bell curve that started with the boomers. Everyone demands the best, insists on the best, but does not really deserve the best or can maintain the best when they get it. Evolution isn't survival of the fittest, it's survival of the adequate.
Just because they are lifemogging you now does not mean they can continue to do so in the future. Fortunes change. Instead, ask yourself how you want to live, and work on being happy. It's harder than it looks, but it's worth the effort.