i too have been asking myself this since all my friends have left me since im too much of le incel chuddy for them now i guess (as if i wasnt before), but i have no clue how to. everyone on this site hates der 'cord and things like that and is (rightfully) paranoid about it so making friends through here is probably a no go.
you could do
>>95650 but i dont know how effective that is and you probably need to play a game you really like.