>>95380IF you break your bad habits, then yes.
It won't be easy or quick, but with effort, time and dedication you can make significant gains at being the man you want to be.
The real problem is: are you pursuing a relationship for human connection, or because society expects you to?
That's the root of R9K: men coping with a social expectation that is not fair, not worth it, and not available. It is a symptom of a broken society, and like some symptoms if left unchecked it can fix the problem: Fevers raise the temperature to slow the disease while the immune system takes over, or coughs expel the mucus that is in your throat.