What's the line between love and lust?It's almost been a decade since I sincerely interested in a woman, I see attractive foids and my only reaction "eh it'd be fun to fuck her" and move on with my day cause I'm way too autistic to pump and dump (I'm an

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Chud 08/03/26 (Mon) 19:32:57 №94347 [Quote]

What's the line between love and lust?
It's almost been a decade since I sincerely interested in a woman, I see attractive foids and my only reaction "eh it'd be fun to fuck her" and move on with my day cause I'm way too autistic to pump and dump (I'm an aspie btw if that matters) but I'm in my 20s way too old to be virgin.
How do you go from "damn that chick has a nice ass" to "I love you" I genuinely don't understand, I suppose I could look for a slut or a prostitute but thats lame and degenerate.

Chud 08/04/26 (Tue) 21:37:18 №94422 [Quote]

I honestly dont think you can, and the lust part will also wear off by the time you're 28, this is just the path of neurodivergents

Chud 08/04/26 (Tue) 22:50:19 №94432 [Quote]

Yeah you can't really change that on your own. It may change after you get a real girlfriend and figure out love and stuff.

Chud 08/04/26 (Tue) 22:51:56 №94435 [Quote]

I’m kind of the opposite, and I’m thinking about doing a bunch of trt or something to fix it

Chud 08/05/26 (Wed) 05:02:42 №94449 [Quote]

>>94422
How hard can it be to find a woman who just wants to fuck and your telling me that by 28 I'll be an aceggot?
I don't think so geg.
>>94432
I think my main problem when it comes to love is that I can't figure out when to respect and when to push.
From talking in a coffee shop to slapping her ass is a process I've never attempted neither understand how to do.
>>94435
Trt to kill your drive?
There have to be easier ways than that but hey go for it

Chud 08/05/26 (Wed) 07:48:40 №94451 [Quote]

>>94449
Im sure you can find a woman who wants to fuck but any that want sex very soon after you meet them are either prostitutes or almost certainly not a good longterm partner. I would much rather be a virgin in my 20s than lose it in a pump and dump. You shouldnt see virginity as a bad thing to still have. And you will have to realize that it is a decently slow process with quite a few steps in terms of going from meeting to having sex. When I see an attractive woman I of course have some baseline sexual thought, but I focus a lot more on figuring out if she has a compatible personality by looking at clothing choices, accessories, and then harder things like talking to her when applicable. I hate to say it because it makes me sound like a soyed out leftist, but you cant treat women as objects or routes toward just sex if you expect any successful relationship (besides very rare exceptions).

Chud 08/05/26 (Wed) 09:59:52 №94455 [Quote]

>>94449
>Trt to kill your drive?
>There have to be easier ways than that but hey go for it
No, I meant that I think more about having relationships with women I see than just wanting to bang them. I tend to frame it in my head as a moralfag thing, but I’m pretty sure I just have a testosterone deficiency or ocd or something, seeing as I’m generally pretty anemic and neurotic. I’ve wanted to get tested for a long time, but my parents wouldn’t let me, so I’ll have to let some med students vivisect me or something when I start college