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My best friend of five years is telling me its very hard to be my friend and he thinks he should've cut me off a while ago. He's my only friend and its so hard for me to make new ones. He has way more friends than I do (that don't like me) and I think he wants me to make new friends so it won't hurt as much when he stops talking to me. Whenever I try to talk to other people I can barely hold a conversation with them. I don't know what to do, I wish that it was as easy as it is for him to talk to people.

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>>93560 (OP)
It was never meant to be then. Stop talking to him.

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If everyone doesn’t like you, you have to look at the common denominator.
Sounds like you should stop being such a retarded miserable autist

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>>93560 (OP)
>its very hard to be my friend and he thinks he should've cut me off a while ago
Did he say why?

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>>93595
All he said was that "our relationship relies on him ignoring stuff I do" . I think its because sometimes I make chuddy jokes around him? I try to keep it to a minimum though, I didn't realize he hated it so much. Other than that, I hate to say it but I don't understand what I was doing wrong.

>>93592
Really only one or two of his friends dislike me, but thats enough to make it awkward when I try to interact with his friends. You're right though, I need to start showing more interest in other people and improve my social skills.

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>>93602
>I try to keep it to a minimum though
Minimum by chuddy standards and by normie standards are quite different I guess.
>I don't understand what I was doing wrong
Just a general personality clash maybe?

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>>93617
>Just a general personality clash maybe?
You may be right, we do have very different personalities but I don't think its bad to have different personalities in a friendship. He is a very upbeat person and I would like to surround myself with such people because it rubs back onto you. Whenever we hung out, it would help me be more outgoing and step outside my comfort zone.

I feel really confused because he sent me a bunch of texts at first and then I tried to respond and ask him questions but he only sent me short messages and not anything else. He said that its not that he doesn't like me and he doesn't not want to stop hanging out with me. I told him to do what makes him happy and he hasn't replied to me (Given its only been a couple hours)

At this point, I'm very sad that he hasn't been texting me back recently and I wish he would have told me how he felt earlier. I don't want him to feel obligated to talk to me and I wish he would elaborate more about what I do specifically that he doesn't like. I don't want this to be the end, I really like spending time with him

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He responded with a short text saying that he was sorry for what he said and that I was probably mad at him. Like wtf??//???? I feel so used, like I've done so much stuff for him and now that he's gotten more options he just leaves me and hardly talks to me. I dont want things to go back to normal like he hasn't been treating me like shit lately but I dont want to be completely alone/throw away what we had.

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>>93595
Did you make that image yourself?



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