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What’s the point of this thread?
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you can't fail if you don't try
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Engaging in romance, probably.
Ended badly every time
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>>92521Just interesting to see how the rest of you treat love
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>>92517 (OP)nigga what romantic life none of us have ever had a girlfriend
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3 year long interracial relationship with a black girl
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>>92575Yep.
SNCA Alarm!!!
From 16 till I was 19. We were both each others first times and first relationship. I'm not a very proactive man, so I was afraid to break up and found it difficult to find a new relationship once I did (She asked me out too so I had no experience chatting to girls).
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>>92576Yeah, I had basically the same experience but it was 15-17. I wanted to break up because she was psychotic and didn't want me to have any friends or hobbies and always tried to grope me in public (even though she didn't even let me look at her tits.) It took like a year to actually do it and right after I did she started dating the one friend I made in high school who told me he was asexual or gay. I'm 20 now and I haven't had any luck with women since then.
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My biggest mistake was probably not being upfront about my intentions. A foid can easily interpret a situation completely differently than you do. It's fine to take things slowly and just get to know each other at first, but you should be clear about the direction you want the relationship to head in before you get too deeply involved.
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>>92517 (OP)>romantic lifegeeeeg
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>>92517 (OP)Not really giving a shit in general. I always wanted a relationship, but not enough to be my best self.
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>>92517 (OP)not coming out when i was young
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>>92603What this guy said
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>>92576Somephono I knew from highschool did this (exact same ages too geg) and it broke him after she left that he never left the house and everyone lost contact with him. Whatever she did to him must’ve been insane, I miss him
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Sending my life savings to a nigerian prince I met on facebook back in 2008
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>>92685which method would you recommend, nigger
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>>92723I don't know which one of those two people I replied to you are but if you meant "coming out" as going outside or some shit then sorry, if not, then still don't kill yourself nigga. Suicide is retarded and life is worth living for.
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>>92723helium asphyxiation
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Cheated on my gf, she doesn't know but I feel guilty all the time
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>>92746Kill yourself nigga, when did this board become filled with normgroids
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>>92746fuck off normnigger
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fumbled the girl who liked me even when i was a loser with 0 real friends
no idea what she saw in me, but it might be for the best since i would have been a shit boyfriend at the time
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>>92777there’s not much of a story. we’d hang out and play roblox during my early years of high school. we had a lot in common tbh, both kind of socially awkward. looking back she was dropping a lot of hints that she liked me, but i was too retarded to realize and it’s probably too late.
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>>92746Find or make some kind of excuse to leave her.
Cheating completely decimates the foundation of trust relationships, there's genuinely just no way forward after that. You can feel it too, the guilt will keep eating away at you forever, moving in, marriage, kids and beyond.
Strongly recommend breaking off carefully and peacefully before it blows up, because it can, and will.
You will hear stories about couples even in their 60s and beyond who "wow I found out you cheated 20 years ago I want a divorce"
Is that what you want? No. Leave this girl, and find another girl to treat right.
If you really really love her, and you're brave, you could try coming clean to her and hope she forgives you. It's highly unlikely though, and generally a riskier and messier option (imagine if she cheats to get back at you, ouch)
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>>92795Addendum
>(imagine if she cheats to get back at you, ouch)If she does, you maybe deserved it
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>>92517 (OP)Making a post here
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>>92746>>92795I dont see the problem with it. He feels guilty already, so whats the use in telling her? Women dont really have opinions of their own so she'll ask her friends and those will tell her to break up or not.
If he wasnt feeling guilty then yeah, he should probably end the relationship because he feels nothing for her, but breaking up out of principle does nothing for the both of them.
>If you really really love her, and you're brave, you could try coming clean to her and hope she forgives you. It's highly unlikely though, and generally a riskier and messier option (imagine if she cheats to get back at you, ouch)This is kind of my problem with telling her. It doesnt actually improve the relationship or their lives (except in the very rare case she forgives it)
But the worst case (more likely) isnt a moral improvement to her either, in a sense the weight of his moral failing will end up dragging her down with him.
Which is kind of the point of guilt. The moral weight of your own failures is something that has to be carried alone, and you cant just put it on others shoulders.
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>>92961i agree that you shouldnt ever tell them you cheated full stop. shes not going to get revenge on you, shes going to fuck over some other dude later down the line to get back at men. its simply stupid to tell on yourself.
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>>92996yeah and then hes going to use this as an excuse later on again when the temptations of cheating comes back, im sure you wouldnt want her to be cheating behind your back either and you would think you deserve better. so why doesnt she
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>>93000foid? (jk)
I get the sentiment, but most of the time people prone to mental gymnastics start doing them immediately after, which he didnt in his post
feelings are more potent negative reinforcement than my posts, as much as I'd love having the power to mindrape the goyim just by typing shit, and I'm very flattered you think I have this superpower and I might just be able to goon to the thought if I didnt know any better.
That said, I dont think he's a lesbo, if he is and I've just nuked a gay couple then thats fine too, but men dont tend to be as easily influenced, which is why your post reads as a foid projecting her mental processes onto a guy
not that guys are incapable of being le bluepilled "every1 is da saem!!!"
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>>93002all he said is that he feels guilty, not guilty enough to not cheat though niggas just saying shit hes already doing mental gymnastics because he allowed himself to cheat
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>>92961There's no "problem" per se. The relationship could continue status quo, and he could try getting over his guilt, but it seems unlikely. Currently,
HE is the only one dissatisfied with the situation, as only he knows. It's not about her opinion, or her friends' inevitably stupid opinions.
That's why I only recommend the tell her option if he's brave. I completely agree it doesn't improve the relationship or save it, but cheating has ALREADY sacked it all the way down. At they very least I don't think he should continue pretending nothing is wrong when it clearly is.
It's really up to him whether the weight of guilt lifted off his shoulders from coming clean and admitting it is worth more, or just breaking off with an excuse and pretending it never happened.
>>92996That's also something for him to weigh in on. Passing pain down the line could be considered a moral failing for him.
While telling on yourself is, objectively, a stupid idea. But his feelings matter to. If it relieves his guilt - even partially - it's worth considering
>>93002>foid? (jk)she isnt going to fuck you. no need avoid the truth
>foid projecting>>93009>not guilty enough to not cheatRetarded notion. If everyone operated on "would I feel guilty down the line if I did this" and based their actions off it 100% of the time with 100% predictive accuracy, then the world would be a perfect place.
I'm sure you've felt guilt AFTER doing something bad, if you haven't well congratulations miss perfect
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>>93013>>93000>if it relieves his guiltgoytalk, what guilt? the guilt of not fucking up someones life further? Ill reiterate, the only correct outcome is not telling her and immediately leaving
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>>93014I'm not disagreeing that's the best option. However, the reality is remains that he feels guilty. Therefore, if telling her makes him feel better about then he should do it
Her feelings aren't part of the equation, because her hurt is inevitable regardless of his chosen course of action
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>>93009>all he said is that he feels guiltyyeah thats my point, congrats lil bro
>not guilty enough to not cheat though niggas just saying shit hes already doing mental gymnastics because he allowed himself to cheatwhat? he felt guilty after cheating obviously, how do you even feel guilty if you havent done the thing?
I dont think you're making sense here, or you're not good at explaining yourself.
>>93013>not that guys are incapable of being le bluepilled "every1 is da saem!!!"bro…
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Not having one
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>>93013idk why you have to defend him like hes some toddler that cant think of the consequences of his actions, its common knowledge that cheating is the number one thing you dont do in a relationship and if you actually love your partner enough you would be repulsed by the idea
this is how you create slfs that act first and think later, cheating isnt some little oopsie you do
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>>93035yeah i get that he felt guilty AFTER cheating, idk why people are tellig him to just pretend like nothing happened and not tell her. hes obviously going to find excuses to cheat again if he already allowed himself to do it once and do the whole "but i feel guilty" cope
OP just break up with your gf if youre unable to stay loyal to her and to think with your head instead of your dick, especially if you would be worried that she cheats on you too
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>>93054Tsmt, if you're not an actual toddler or a hylic nigger you understand that any action you take will have consequences. This applies to smaller negative things like procrastinating. When you procrastinate you choose short sighted pleasure in the stead of long term goals. You understand fully what will happen when you make the bad choice. The moment he made the choice to cheat it shows how he chose cheating over the guilt he would expect to feel afterwards. He knew fully what he was dealing with. If guilt was a sufficient punishment we wouldn't need prisons.
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>>93054>>93056I'm not defending cheating you stupid niggers. Narc fucks thinking you're perfect and
>well I would never make a mistake like that hmph!You aren't above mistakes, and you aren't above being human - it's not about being a "toddler" or "hylic nigger". Again,
If everyone operated on "would I feel guilty down the line if I did this" and based their actions off it 100% of the time with 100% predictive accuracy, then the world would be a perfect place.
You sound extremely unpleasant to be around. So unwilling to even try and understand.
Shitty "counter" about prisons too, don't you know the exact job of the judge and jury is to try and understand?
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dumped her because i preferred to be single for some reason
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>>93063being able to consider the consequences of your actions before you make them especially when it comes to something you KNOW will break your relationship does not equal being perfect its just not being a retard that only chooses short term pleasure
idk why youre ranting about being above mistakes and being above humanity, weird conclusion to draw. its retarded to baby him and tell him that he deserves to just keep being loved by his gf while doing shit behind her back
>cheats on his gf>zero actual consequencesif the nigger cheated once hes gonna do it again he obviously didnt care about her enough to not cheat in the first place, he knows he can just feel guilty for a little while and then "move on" like nothing happened. you sound like the narc cus you have no empathy for the gf which is the one actually being done wrong in this situation
>If everyone operated on "would I feel guilty down the line if I did this" and based their actions off it 100% of the time with 100% predictive accuracy, then the world would be a perfect place.retarded argument also, you know cheating is wrong before you do it. you know its going to hurt your partner and the relationship if you do it stop acting like its some super complex thing
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>>93063>don't you know the exact job of the judge and jury is to try and understand?If he was being judged in court for this he would be guilty. His crime is cheating and there really is no justification for cheating. I doubt his girlfriend is abusive and if she was he probably wouldn't feel "guilty" for cheating on her. What is there to understand here? Nigga's acting like Henry Fonda in 12 Angry Men
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If you ever had a girlfriend then you should leave this site and never come back
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>>93067oh my god nigga im not saying he should stay in the relationship fucking follow the conversation
>bro just don't cheat cheating is wrongWOW. NOBEL PRIZE FOR WORLD PEACE BY TELLING EVERYONE THIS BTW. THIS SOLVED CHEATING FOREVERS!!! SOMEONE FUCKING CALL EINSTEIN!!!!!! NOBODY WILL EVER SUFFER BEING CHEATED ON AGAIN!!!!!!! BRAVO BRAVO
my pics mog yours btw
>>93068you niggers need to follow the conversation. im not defending cheating, and i agree he should leave her - whether he admits to cheating or makes up an excuse to spare her the pain
do i need to namefag for you stupid fucks
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>>93055>hes obviously going to find excuses to cheat again if he already allowed himself to do it once yeah but you're assuming he did that beforehand which there's no indication of.
For all we know he was thinking with his weiner and didnt consider his actions much, for all we know he might be low-inhib low-iq.
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>>93071Because you are normtranny and I hope you die in an agonizing way
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>>93078replying to myself cuz why not
It might shock some people here to hear there are in fact people out there who aren't very cerebral, not dumb per se, but who only really learn by failing, and that they constitute a very significant portion of the population.
They may be about 6/10ths, but definitely at least a slight majority.
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>>93076so we agree then
>bro just don't cheat cheating is wrongyes, its literally that simple. its a purely selfish choice you make knowing it will hurt your partner and the relationship. no one is trying to solve cheating, people will do it regardless knowing its wrong and thats what this entire conversation is about… so what exactly is your point
>my pics mog yours btwno, get raped
>do i need to namefag for you stupid fucksno
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>>93078if he was just horny then that would be the excuse he had
>for all we know he might be low-inhib low-iq.probably, cheating is retarded
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>>93076>>93082i wont read your posts for the fact that you posted a shitty tranime discord porn gif
Kys, you are LITERALLY a PEDOPHILE. DIE.
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>>93082yes we agree cheating le bad and he should leave
nigga
>he knew it was bad! so he shouldnt have done it!is stupid. stopped nophono from doing le bad things
works
>>93084you wont be reading at all after i pierce your fucking eyes out with my dick buckaroo
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>>92517 (OP)i have a strange feeling that you are an foid. are you?
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wasted my teenage years in an uncomfortable relationship with my childhood friend
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>>93146go back, apologize, and marry your childhood sweetheart now you thankless fuck
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>>93146you consider that wasted? kys
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>What was the biggest mistake you made in your romantic life?
Dating a mentally ill french foid who would whisper and talk to herself like a schizo and who was talking to a soyjak party user she was grooming and coercing into a relationship behind my back. Will never ever entertain these degenerates again. She was already doxxed for being a retard before too.
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>>What was the biggest mistake you made in your romantic life?
>Dating a mentally ill french foid who would whisper and talk to herself like a schizo and who was talking to a soyjak party user she was grooming and coercing into a relationship behind my back. Will never ever entertain these degenerates again. She was already doxxed for being a retard before too.
I think my biggest regret in this was that I didn't find a better way to cope with feeling sexually repressed in the relationship because of her issues, so all of my own porn addictions and perversions proceeded to manifest and fester, which was a shame.
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>>93210I wrote this when I was drunk. I don't really hate or think about them much anymore, and I personally made a tonne of mistakes in the relationship but at the same time, I was rapidly burning myself out being completely available to this person and at their beck and call, paying for flight tickets, hotels, travels etc constantly, thinking about their buisness and projects over my own, and in return, I got companionship, but was completely neglected in the bedroom. My mistake was we weren't having sex and I started gooning to gif, and crossdressed a couple of times. I even asked her to get pegged. Ironic because she's a terf. This was like 10 months into the relationship. But, just 3 months into us living together and this woman, who i thought was attractive, just wasn't available, and it eventually became such an awful experience that I just stopped caring about what she thought and went on the ol' reliable /gif/ and /s/ to coom, which was a slippery slope. The breakup was horrible, she decided to meet up with a kid in the country I flew her out to and later i found out (she had her accounts logged into a second account on my laptop for whatever reason), she was chasing the kid all along. It was particularly brutal considering I was trying to build out a foundation for marriage and was gonna propose that year, and yeah the realisation that all of your hopes and dreams that you invested in somebody became null-and-void was devastating. I'm also probably bipolar, I was pretty normal and comfortable in the relationship so it didn't trigger any episodes or breakdowns, but the breakup did trigger one long continuous breakdown that lasted like three months. I literally dropped everything I owned, bought a plain ticket and started a new life in a brand new country, which is funny to me to look back on because I kind of needed this to end the way that it did to harden me emotionally.
I guess the lesson in this is people come and go, you move on and find other people to invest your time and attention into, not all women are worth the effort and maybe along the way you'll find somebody that will actually appreciate you and be a dependable partner. And also don't gross out women with your AGP fetishes.
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>>93258Dude just kill yourself
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simping for some girl for 3 years just for her to turn into a mudshark
>she had not unique thoughts and followed what ever her friend said anyway
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women hate me because ugly
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>>93446meh i dont want to start any big drama