/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

die faggot die

>female sharteens
Not real meds
>or is it just my foid?
Being obsessed is not insanely uncommon and short term its not so bad but if she gets jealous alot then your kinda fucked

Girls who start off super strong tend to lose steam the fastest
I can't say it's all girls, and your foid could be different
Just warning don't get too attached

>>91057
what did you do to the foid though

>>91057
TSMT
it always gets mundane and you never have anything to talk about, even if you tell her about your day, every day, if she's not reciprocating then something's up. if it's not a one-off thing, it might just be over.

>>91215
I dindu nuffin. Turns out she didn't like who I was after all
>>91404
The term is "love bombing" I believe. It's a little inconvenient honestly, I'd be glad someone likes me — but not to the point it feels suffocating or I'm losing my agency.

>>91438
what did she not like about you?

>>91466
Unsure. Likely the way I handle (or lack thereof) emotional aspect of things.
As she fell in love it clearly the way I act wasn't convenient for her, particularly her feelings.

I've naturally not very good with emotions and feelings, low on sympathy reserves, not very warm, and cynical. I've always been that way.

Oftentime I think she fell in love with parts of me that didn't exist. Some future where I was her perfect prince. She wanted a lot out of me that I didn't know if I could give. Like she trying to force those fantasy parts into existence.

I tried to be different for her. I went far beyond what I ever imagined I could do for someone. But barriers exist. Barriers that define my personal comfort and feeling safe. She almost always pushed me outside, always asking for more.

In the end, we were both dissatisfied and frustrated. Looking back, I just wish she could've simply been happy with who I was and the love I gave. My only unhappiness stemmed from that she was generally unhappy with me.

I was not enough, and/or not the right person. I'm sure she'll find that prince one day

>>91470

im curious..:why do you think she kept asking for more? Your assumption is that she fell in love with a fantasy version of you and was trying to change you. I dont know the full story, but i think wanting to feel warmth from your partner isnt necessarily the same thing as wanting a perfect prince

You say you went far beyond what you ever imagined you could do for someone, what did this look like for you? Because being accepted "as you are" doesn't mean being exempt from the consequences of how you treat people. Maybe she wanted too much..thats possible. but what did loving her look like to you if not being good with emotions and feelings and did you expect warmth and sympathy from her? This seems like a tough puzzle to solve but not an impossible one

>>91438
its rare that someone didnt do anything wrong at all, no one is perfect. are you sure its just that she didnt like you?

shut up nigger (original content)

>>91042 (OP)
yes i used to

>>91473
>>91474
if u didnt feel loved idk what to tell u

her saying shes fine with you doing anything to her body leads me to think she might be a victim o algo. Also doing whatever to stay with you meaans shes probs insecure, which on its own isnt super terrible since everyone has some insecurities. wanting to cook is normal, since i like to cook for my bf too.

just talk to her about her having no autonomy bc that could lead to some bigger issues down the road if you guys end up together