/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

>>89887 (OP)
bait, girls dont exist

Baited nobeidore

>>89887 (OP)
idgaf if its bait

ive had a similar experience as a guy. If someone isn't reaching out or is always dry texting, don't waste your time on them. If they give an apology or smthn only give them that one chance so you can weed out the "floaters".

As for the mall stuff, it depends. Is it like super bright cosplay type of stuff? If so, tone it down just a tad.
other than that, just keep reaching out to people. set your boundaries and make sure not to cross other people's boundaries and you should be fine.

>>89907
dis how you sage

>>89904 thank you for the actually nice response, what i mainly wear is sort of bright (i have pink hair) i would say what i wear is sort of childish(?) ive been recently interested in the style "Ryousangata" which is quite cute. what i wear isnt super cosplay looking but i can probably tone it down a bit, btw im not a troon nor bait i just am insanely chronically online Nor am i an attention whore. i just want advice or feedback from others who struggle with the same thing

>>89916
why do women like these kinds of things genuine question im curious. ive never spent time around da foids so i dont know. Like whats appearling about that specific style

>>89917 the reason i like cutesy childish stuff is probably due to my autism + adhd. a lot of women just enjoy girly pink stuff im unsure why but it does make me happy

>>89921
>muh autism + adhd
why are you using labels from the jewish doktor as inserts for describing your personality. Why do foids do this

>>89921
Women can't have autism silly foid, stop baiting me

>>89922 where i live doesn't have a large jewish population, nor have i ever actually met a jew in my life. i can just put it simply that im retarded but im unsure why other girls would abuse labels like such. Being like this has made it immensely harder to keep friendships or make them

>>89924
Normgroids hate the aryan autist spirit and will do everything they can to crush it

want ti see my dravidian bull pnis prety lady….? plz pst bob and vagin

do you look like my favorite anime waifus

yeah normies will always give you shit for going against the herd they are just spiritually lesser so you have to just learn to ignore them and do your own thing and try to find people that actually like you for you

>dyed hair
>japanese fashion style
>autistic
>has male interests
People are probably assuming youre a BPDemon, attention whore, tranny, or a lesbian
>people pulling away from me
Yeah the goyim are like that even to the people who can play the social game. Personally the only people I stayed in contact with were from church or family. Blood and faith hold people together, not social dynamics.
>>89922
I know a real sperg when I see one neurotypinigger

>>89887 (OP)
if you live in the west and your not in the inner city people take the piss out of you if you wear anything that isn't trackpants, sneakers and a nike shirt from Bangladesh (or yogapants and ugg boots for foids), doebiet if I were you I would tone down the exaggeration of the outfits and maybe not have bright pink hair since shit like that kinda invites people to make fun of you, which is especially bad for a sperg like yourself who won't know how to dish out what you get given.
>no friends o algo
idk where you live but is there some sort of group or society based on the fashion you like, I'd imagine there'd probably would be unless you live in rural niggerhell. I can't really give you much advice here other than just trying to find people with similiar interests because they'd be less likely to drop you.

>>89941 unfortunately i am in a sort of rural place, ive seen the communities around me that MAY have people that enjoy cutesy shit but they're all obese pooners (Being serious) and i cant stand being around them. i dont want to really change my appearance like the hair and such because i think its cute, but i am aware that it gives off BPDemon or faggotry (Wish it wasn't like that but im stubborn and enjoy what i wear)

>>89943
>(Wish it wasn't like that but im stubborn and enjoy what i wear)
keyed that you're not letting obsessed normalniggers dictate what you wear but obviously you should still be mindful about the unwanted attention it may bring. Idk if I can give any decent advice on fidning friends, surely theres at least ONE person that isn't a relative you enjoy being with? If there is just start with them o algo

It's probably because you're ugly geg. I know a girl like this at my university and she has a good social life and no one makes fun of her. What are the signs that you actually do have autism or adhd? Social difficulties are usually just because you're either ugly or simply a loser not a sign of something deeper.

>>89887 (OP)
hunky doesnt fall for coal bait or algo asi
>>89932
>People are probably assuming youre a BPDemon, attention whore, tranny
normies dont say none of these things irl nor know what they mean.
>lesbian
maybe, but if so why would girls have a problem with this

>>89956 wouldn't consider myself ugly, in all honesty even when i was a child i was quite cute. i do get positive attention from people saying they like my hair or just my style so that does make me happy but i don't seek it. im not obese or abnormally tall (5'2/158cm & 90lbs/41kg) i dont want to seem like im full of myself or something but reccomending that i may be ugly is funny

>>89887 (OP)
idk if you know you are autistic or not, you might be undiagnosed but your best bet is to drop the mask and go in your own direction in life, stop following the crowd

stupid bitch whore foid compaining about nothing

intelligent patient chaste lady praising about everything

>saying OMGSISAAAA, chastefully
If you want people to stick around then you have to join a community of faith or fall back on family. I said in a previous reppie, blood and faith.
If your small town is in Dixie's land like I assume then your only decent option is your local baptist or protestant church. Go every sunday or more often if applicable. Visit multiple and talk to people to find who you vibe with.
My opinions of denominations:
Baptists - old
Methodists - judgemental
Orthodox - keyed
Nondenom/evangelical - goycattle
Everyone else - mixed bag idk

>>89969 i have been diagnosed professionally with both austism and adhd, normalfags can sniff it out easily unfortunately

get an autistic obsession with victorian fashion and turn into the sister with glasses in pride and prejudice or whatever foids watch

>>89975 im not american but i do really admire america, im canadian (God save me from this jeet hellhole) im not specifically religious but ill ponder about it. thenk u

Rape yourself off a bridge whore

>Rape yourself off a bridge whore
kys dumbass moid

>as the title says, i struggle to keep or make friendships. my last "friend group" was a couple years ago and i had multiple instances where these girls would drop me then reach out a couple months later with a shitty sorry apology. i like to wear cute girly japanese fashion shit and this makes it even more difficult to befriend people because they think im even more retarded then i actually am, im constantly made fun of or tormented in public (Like my local mall) by normies and i just dont say anything in response, like fully go mute and walk away. i dont have any friends and ive been trying to mask it like i dont care but it just hurts. does anyone else struggle with friendships
Kys, YWNBAW

forgot to supersage
^unoregganoo

>>89982
I'm black you stupid slut, read some Ezra Pound if you can't conceive how one can rape xherself

>>>89982 (You)
>I'm black you stupid slut, read some Ezra Pound if you can't conceive how one can rape xherself
go fuck yourself moid suck my clit

>>89983 didn't read how ive stated im not a troon geg

>>89988
wheres the proof xister

>>89989 what do i need to prove exactly? if you genuinely don't think im being genuine then you wud just be falling for le bait

>>89991
geg maybe this is an actual woman only a woman could come up with a reply this retarded

told u it wasnt bait geg

>>89986
i have a massive pussy eating fetish

>>90000
nice digits also keyed

bait ywnbaw etc etc

making friends in 2026 is actual niggerhell id say find someone that isnt retarded and expand your social circle through them. obviously easier said than done THOUGH

>>90000
epic win GET

>>89986
woah… you're just like a tsundere from my heckin tranimes… sugoi desu o algo… what is your telegram fair maiden…

>>89887 (OP)
>inb4 OP is outed as a troon

My girlfriend (not a tranny, I hope you're not either) has the same issue of feeling friendless and there's not really a good answer to this. She also suspects she has ADHD + Autism and likes dressing cutely (though a lot less brightly, she's into "Chocokaji" fashion.) so I'd say you're similar too. Also the whole "friend group that ignores you for months" thing happens a bunch, usually over petty snca drama too. With ADHD, once she even has a friend she gets anxious that she's talking too much and scaring them away. She talks less to counter that, but the other person probably thinks "oh, I must've said something wrong, she's talking less, I should just leave her alone" and ghosts. It's so upsetting to hear her talk about it, especially when I talk to her friends and they tell me how much they love her. Don't want to endlessly talk about my girlfriend's personal life on the cartoon bald man with glasses incel chud im traiso btw site >though so.
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It's incredibly hard for anyone over the age of 18 to find a long term friend who's also in their age range - and it's a lot worse for women (twice so now there's no women-only spaces online. traiso rigts.). Sadly, it's purely luck based, there's no easy solution to it. Events are really your only hope. Anime conventions especially, though >>89975, or clubs and public lessons (art or pottery are fun), or even charity work are places where friendly interaction is forced. That's literally all you can do, put yourself in a place with forced interaction. Public spaces like malls aren't those places. But even at those events you're probably going to be with older women, or young girls, so it's not great.
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The only other option is online friends which just isn't the same, on top of all the issues that has. I wish it wasn't like this. You're not alone in how you feel, we're in an age of loneliness. You'd think that'd push us as a society to be more friendly, but it's just made people foul and neurotic. I really hope you find some friends who you actually enjoy being with though. There's 8 billion people on earth, 4 billion women, you're bound to make at least one friend with those odds. Sorry if this is rambley geg.

i can be your friend :)

>>90009 thank you, your girlfriend has a great sense of style & cherish her. she seems really sweet and im glad others here can relate or give advice

third spaces dying out here in muramutt land sucks and is honestly a big reason why its so hard to make friends now

>>90009
tsmt

didnt mean to sage goddamn it

>>89887 (OP)
im really lonely but get irritated by my friends super easily

>>90285 Does this truly mean anything to you