№89626[Quote]
I've been with this girl for about 6 months now, more and more problems have started to come up. She was normal before but has been acting like a retard for the past month or so. She obviously has bpd, is overly jealous of me having a girl best friend (i see her as a sister and have known her for about a year and half, and she's my gf's friend too). The 3 of us have had a talk about this 3 times already, and she obviously still hasn't gotten over that niggardly idea.
Now, about the yumeshipping part
>you're jealous and you're a cuck
I'm not jealous at all. I just can't keep on listening to her going about this genshin character, as it's kind of the only thing she ever talks about lately. Recently the character died in the lore, and she's going on and on about his death for 3 days now. She also cried about it too. Talked about how she wishes he was real so she could hug him. The worst part of the whole yumeshipping thing is that she's "non sharing" , which basically means she's overly retarded. There's also been something with someone calling her ship invalid o algo and she had a massive chimpout cuz of it. I really feel like she chares about that stupid fictional character more than me. I've been thinking of talking to her tonight, and if she has a chimpout or dismisses my feelings entierly , i'll just drop the relationship and wait for her to take her medz (become normal again)
№89627[Quote]
>shipping
>bpd
>schizo
so, im not going to read your post. im just going to tell you what you know
1. this relationship isnt good for you
2. dont try to wait for it to get better, you are just waiting on a timed bomb
3. fucking leave before you go insane too
№89629[Quote]
Foids can get away with fucking anything, if a guy did this retarded shit he would be a incel social reject
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>>89627Tbh i don't even know why i want to continue this relationship with her. It's obvious she has been getting worse and worse, and probably won't get better if she chimps-out over minimalist things. I guess i'm just holding on to some string of hope that it'll get better if we talk, but i'm not feeling very optimistic. I'll update this thread once i talk to her tonight. It's not gonan be pretty
№89633[Quote]
>>89631no. don't even "talk" to her
she will cry and try to manipulate you into staying
say youre breaking up, be polite but also firm, then break off
this is the best option for you long term
№89634[Quote]
>>89633not him but what is your experience with bpd foids
№89639[Quote]
Try to deworm her
Waiting for dewormlee to reply with >KYS OBSESSED NIGGER FAGGOT
№89640[Quote]
>>89634not OP but they get extremely paranoid at every move you make and view any change in behavior as you not loving them. I'm lucky because the girl I have right now has bpd but she manages it and goes to therapy while respecting my boundaries. They are rly horny all the time tho so you get that and they tend to need other peoples attention constantly if you don't give them any (aldoeighbeight this girl I'm with does not do that)
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>>89639how do you deworm yourself, ive heard of it and want to do it. Do you just take ivermectin or do you have to do other things and take other stuff along with it
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Nigga just leave her before she leaves you for someone that looks like her genchink character
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>>89626 (OP)>I really feel like she chares about that stupid fictional character more than me.>>89629>if a guy did this retarded shit he would be a incel social rejectHi, this happened to my male bff of 6 years recently.To cut it short, he started getting only more deranged overtime. It drained my soul, made me paranoid and insane. Dump this retard whore lest you learn my lesson the hard way. It's not worth it.
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>>89626 (OP)UPDATEI didin't really get to say what i wanted tonight, because she apologised about some snca fight we had (yes it was because of the genchink charactarer). It wasn't really a fight, but she got pissy at me because i said it's retarded that she's sperging out because someone on preddit dot com said her ship is invalid o algo.
But yea, she apologised for being a retard, i told her that she's
obsessed with the character and that it's not healthy, she said she's sorry if she ever made me feel uncomfy or some brap, and that's kind of it. I won't break up with her _for now_ , but i'll wait for another retarded spergout
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>>89633Op listen to this nigger for the love of God
№89690[Quote]
>>89684pussied out award
soon enough there will be another conflict she makes up and you will feel this way all over again
№89691[Quote]
>>89634extremely high conflict and starts fight over the smallest shit
generally will be fun for the first few months, but will slowly collapse as the BPD shows
relationships are saveable if they agree to therapy - but if refused then its over.
do not try to think you can "fix her"
bpds are very bad with boundaries - will look you dead in the eye and say
>yes i should be allowed to control your lifeespecially for things that cause feelings of insecurity
>>89640seconding the horny thing
very hot in bed, kinky and sexually explorative, attentive to your pleasure
imo wasnt worth it, overall toll on my mental health was too high
tldr, cant recommend long term. if you want to feel nice and have hot sex short term go for it - but don't expect anything to last. unlike OP, you must know when to give up
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>>89691I definitely miss the sex, but the peace of mind and stability of a vanilla is worth much much more
Especially if you want kids one day
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>she's going on and on about his death for 3 days now. She also cried about it too. Talked about how she wishes he was real so she could hug him
yeah bro you're better off being single than being with her, also is there a reason why you can't date your best friend, if I was you I'd break your current GF off and get with the other girl
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>>89633tsmt
>OG content or something njeuinfiuenf №89704[Quote]
>>89684Why are you choosing to be with someone you barely tolerate? Its not like you're a married couple with kids and a house and your trying to stay together for the sake of the kids, idk how long you've been together but I'm assuming its not long. The longer you stay with her the more you have to lose when you eventually break up, just rip the bandaid off now while you still don't have many commitments to her
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>>89684Forgot to say she mentioned that she feels shit for being a yume while having a whole ass boyfriend. So , maybe there is hope. She has been going to therapy before i even met her, so i'm still hanging on by a single thread. One singular one.
>why you faggot, you're better off without her. This isn't healthyI know, but i still hold hope for some reason. Don't get me wrong, she doesn't act like a bitch 90% of the time but, it happens. I guess i'm waiting for her to take her schizo behaviour to another level just so i could drop her
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>>89704It's been like 6 months, soon 7.
It's not that i barely tolerate her, it's just that she sometimes acts like a bitch. And we usually solve it quickly. Well not allways but, usually a day or two
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>>89647read these: >>86903 >>87392
If you're a careful 'teen and unsure of extreme stuff like castor oil or fasting just take the antihelminthics only. (but the effect may possibly be weaker)
also count the dosage. it's usually taken once, then you wait and possibly repeat after 2 weeks
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>>89702
>get with the other girlShe has a boyfriend (my best buddy) Plus, even if they weren't together, i don't see her like that
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Nigger nobody cares abt your shitcord relationship with a dime a dozen retarded bpdwhore. Anyways If u respected and actually loved her u would drop the “girl bestfriend” (what straight man has a girl best friend r u serious nigga). Get your fucking priorities straight and listen to your gf
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>>89940wtf is wrong with u niggers I hope your entire group collapses. Girl with boyfriend with a boy best friend is Jewish cuckery.
>>89714>I guess i'm waiting for her to take her schizo behaviour to another level just so i could drop herwhy?
she is bound to cheat on u u sound like shit.
№89946[Quote]
>>89945abide by everything she says if u actually care about her I’d drop whoever tf for my gf because she is the only person in the world worth something to me. U are a shit for brains nigger.
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matter of fact u cant even spell properly, u are a fucking nigger and u are no better than her. I hope u both die in a grease fire. No wonder she likes a fictional character more than u u boring ass illiterate nigger
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>>89626 (OP)Brimmy thread
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>>89945>>89944>>89946>>89947Retarded niggerbabble leakage
You sound like a pussywhipped doormat
Giving me the ick
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brimmy thread
niggerleakage
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>>89727it makes me geg how the wormpill niggers infiltrate every thread lol
№90456[Quote]
That "girl" is a mushroom vessel of the cosmic fungus satan network run away immidieately
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>>89944Did you even read the thread fully ? I'm very sure that i mentioned that my girl bestfriend introduced me to my current girlfriend. If it wasn't for her, we wouldn't have met at all. There's no reason why she should be jealous of her.
You really sound like the type of person that's a submissive little dormat. You're the type of person that would stop being friends with someone you've known for 7 years just because your girlfriend told you not to hang out with them. You're a nigger and you've never even been close to a vagina.
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>>90472Tbh yea, i will, eventually. I'm just waiting for the righ moment i guess. I can't just do it out of the blue when there isn't a problem activelly going on. I'm waiting for a bigger spergout when it eould be socially acceptable to break up. It's a coaly decision, i know, but it is what it is. I have to learn how to be more unforgiving sometimes
I just can't stand how she acts nowadays. Things were better like 2 or 3 months ago.
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>>89690I don't dissagree with you at all. Next time i hope i'll be less forgiving and break it off. I'm just waiting for something that would make the breakup more reasonable
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>>90474shes going to suicide bait and your whole friendgroup will be torn apart unelss they are day ones or rn's
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>>90477Oh they're day ones, and everyone is aware of her faggotry
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>>90477Even if she suicide baited i don't think i'd care tbh. She can if yhe wants to, not my problem
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>>91203Meant that as in, she can ACK. I wouldn't care much. Sure it would be sad to part from someone because they were being a retard, and then they ACK, but that's her problem.
Tho, dhe wouldn't ACK. I know dis because she's a pussy
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>yumeshipping are you dating a 12 year old? ive only ever seen children use that word after i went out of my way to bully them online
>>89626 (OP)anyways op, dont wait for a larger spergout, just bring up the pattern of behavior and say you dont feel comfortable in a relationship any more, the longer you stay the worse it will get
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>>89626 (OP)if she yumeships just leave her
as a yumeshipper i doubt she will gaf if she's serious about it and she's not worth wasting your time on. if she becomes so obsessed with it that she forgets to take care of herself, it's her problem, not yours. don't let her be a burden to you.
and yes, i may also be a yumeshipper but i'm not a weird nigger about it and i still make sure to take care of myself and environment
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>>91376I know i know. There's no point in waiting for a bigger spergout. I'll bring up those things probably soon. It's kinda been a slowburn tbh. By that i mean, it's just been gettimg worse and worse, and it's just a matter of time until i just tell her. The yumeshipling shitndoesn't even affect me much now. Now it's just thr jealousy, and the obsession over me. By obsession i mean, she's purposefully trying to be funny if were out with that female friend i mentioned. I also don't like how she demands that we should talk a lot. A couple of days i was too tired because of class 'n other shiet, snd she had a spergout because i didin't talk to her for a couple of hours
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>>91402I know that there's normal yumeshippers, i know one irl, I just can't get why she can't be normal abt it.
I kinda view yumeshipping like clebrity crushes. It just means that they'd cheat if they meet the right person for it. Of course, no one looks like a genchink character, but i'm not comfortable with it since she's so obsessed with the character
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You need to kill her
№91632[Quote]
Wtf sounds exactly like my bitch ex she fucking cuts herself too and brag about it like it's something cool. Why are bitches so fucking retarded why dont you just fucking beat her until she becomes normal again?
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>>91626Killing her may be the only way
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>>91681Abundance of them on xitter