/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

they just cant relate to you is all. You aren't doing anything wrong it's probably just something they can't relate, respect, or understand.

For example lets say you learn an instrument, thats something everybody knows about and would find interesting because they can hear you play or talk about it. Everyone is into music unless you're muslim.
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Now lets talk about some random snca thats interesting to me like idk pointers in programming languages and how easy they are to understand, like nigga its just an address that to another value that you can manipulate. Pointers are different however for other languages and for some you can't even manipulate at all in python or java (idk if you actually can, I dont remember)
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You see what im trying to say?
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You could also be completely be autistic and not realizing that some people don't jump for joy when they hear you talk about some skill snca or has no interest in. Maybe you are just a really boring person and don't realize it. I'm terminally online and play 24/7 but people online and irl love interacting with me because I'm funny or come up with interesting things to talk about and have strong opinions on certain things.

if you look good people will give a shit about whatever snca topic you care about, i've experienced this myself

>>88446 (OP)
try joining your snca hobby communities, preferably irl (if they exist doe)

>>88462

Das right

>>88446 (OP)
It definitely is a peer problem though, and online friends aren't real anyways. People online are friends to play games or validate xey identity or something, and so these men are very very similar to the women you meet irl.
Most people are interested in shit nobody cares about (except for the normgroid) the best you can do is
1) find a friend with an identical interest
2) absorb by osmosis the snca other people are talking about
3) talk about your special interest without any consideration for the listener
Because wompas are extremely susceptible to peer pressure they will always pick option 2, whereas men go for strategy 1 and 3, so being in a feminine environment doesnt do you any good
If you're lucky (which is unlikely) you're seen as a mascot / male pet they keep around to kick once in a while, otherwise you are a revolting sub-5
Individually women aren't that impressive or evil but put together in a group they become a lot worse
But if you still want to become a socialite you need to find a wrinkly boomer woman with lots of friend an listen & learn.

the strategy is to get in touch with pooners etc they're most likely as retarded as you and will happily listen to your babble

>>88512
>Talking about your special interest without considering the listener

I've always gone with option 1. Find someone else thats interested in your SNCA ramblings, and then sperg out with them. You might even luck out and hit a gold vein because they have other friends that are interested in the SNCA. To find these people go to places that they normally hang out. Its a bit like with trying to get a girl, if you want a bookworm girlfriend, you go to the library, not to the club (whorehouse). If you're interested in for example history, go have a look if theres a history/politics club, talk to the people there and see if theres anyone else interested in history. Clubmaxx to maximise exposure to people, its not too common to find people with nice interests so you have to pan through a lot of dust before finding a gem.

I do option 2 on the side, just by being in crowded areas or in large groups you will hear the conversations about normie goyslop. I don't get how the foidim can make any friends like that, it sounds immensely boring and tiring to be in a circle of fake friends where nobody has anything in common, but you all pretend to be interested in the same raisin.

If you are a more introverted person or have interests common with introverted people, you can't wait for someone else to approach you. You will have to go find them and approach them yourself. The oversocialised normies tend to have only surface level interests.

>>88460
>For example lets say you learn an instrument, thats something everybody knows about and would find interesting because they can hear you play or talk about it. Everyone is into music unless you're muslim.
That's partly my problem. I have a multitude of hobbies but my main one is art (and music is my newest one). I'm /int/ so normies glaze me, ask me for free shit, why I don't drop out of uni to become an artist, and bullshit buisness advice I've never asked for INSTEAD of genuine discussion about art or drawing or Loomis or Da Vinci being accused of sodomy or the newest artfight drama or whateverthefuck. So I started telling people about my more normie hobbies like keeping mice, shrimp, hiking, needlefelting (which is unknown or gives the same response as art)… etc. The point is I'm not into super abstract programming stuff beyond using Linux, oxxing and datahoarding. Tbh I'm extremely tech unsavvy if anything.
<inb4 I'm not gonna pmw I don't need to be recognisable in each thread I make
<also idk if this is the norm but artists irl are so fucking annoying and stressful to talk to, I held art shows for like 3 or 4 artists because I worked in a museum as the only worker. Is it even worth it?
>If you're lucky (which is unlikely) you're seen as a mascot / male pet they keep around to kick once in a while, otherwise you are a revolting sub-5
I'm a wompa
> the strategy is to get in touch with pooners etc they're most likely as retarded as you and will happily listen to your babble
I'm in a balkan discord [fandom] group and there's a pooner that goes to my collage and I was thinking of meeting up with her but also last time we were in vc I had to listen to her use male pronouns with her squeaky voice ranting about how "Israel is not a name it's a cope, they're gonna win Eurovision cause that always happens" and other typical sjw stuff. Should I really meet up with her still? I had fun meeting up with another cosplayer once but I feel like I would always need to have a mask on and validate xer pronouns, but also we are a lot closer in interest than anyone I have ever met irl so should I still do it?
>>88501
I'm trying but I live in a Balkan cockroach city.
>If you're interested in for example history, go have a look if theres a history/politics club, talk to the people there and see if theres anyone else interested in history. Clubmaxx to maximise exposure to people, its not too common to find people with nice interests so you have to pan through a lot of dust before finding a gem.
That's a good idea. On my recent walks with my dad I saw some guys fishing and climbing trees if I had as much social skills as my dad I would have asked them more about the fish (I like fishing too this time it was legitimately a social skill issue because I didn't even think of it as a possibility). I will try hitting up more people in nerdy events if there ever is one.
I think one of my problems is that I'm definitely a "A jack of all trades but master of none" situation with my interests.

>>88460
>For example lets say you learn an instrument, thats something everybody knows about and would find interesting because they can hear you play or talk about it. Everyone is into music unless you're muslim.
That's partly my problem. I have a multitude of hobbies but my main one is art (and music is my newest one). I'm /int/ so normies glaze me, ask me for free shit, why I don't drop out of uni to become an artist, and bullshit buisness advice I've never asked for INSTEAD of genuine discussion about art or drawing or Loomis or Da Vinci being accused of sodomy or the newest artfight drama or whateverthefuck. So I started telling people about my more normie hobbies like keeping mice, shrimp, hiking, needlefelting (which is unknown or gives the same response as art)… etc. The point is I'm not into super abstract programming stuff beyond using Linux, oxxing and datahoarding. Tbh I'm extremely tech unsavvy if anything.
<inb4 I'm not gonna pmw I don't need to be recognisable in each thread I make
<also idk if this is the norm but artists irl are so fucking annoying and stressful to talk to, I held art shows for like 3 or 4 artists because I worked in a museum as the only worker. Is it even worth it?
>If you're lucky (which is unlikely) you're seen as a mascot / male pet they keep around to kick once in a while, otherwise you are a revolting sub-5
I'm a wompa
> the strategy is to get in touch with pooners etc they're most likely as retarded as you and will happily listen to your babble
I'm in a balkan discord [fandom] group and there's a pooner that goes to my collage and I was thinking of meeting up with her but also last time we were in vc I had to listen to her use male pronouns with her squeaky voice ranting about how "Israel is not a name it's a cope, they're gonna win Eurovision cause that always happens" and other typical sjw stuff. Should I really meet up with her still? I had fun meeting up with another cosplayer once but I feel like I would always need to have a mask on and validate xer pronouns, but also we are a lot closer in interest than anyone I have ever met irl so should I still do it?
>>88501
I'm trying but I live in a Balkan cockroach city.
>If you're interested in for example history, go have a look if theres a history/politics club, talk to the people there and see if theres anyone else interested in history. Clubmaxx to maximise exposure to people, its not too common to find people with nice interests so you have to pan through a lot of dust before finding a gem.
That's a good idea. On my recent walks with my dad I saw some guys fishing and climbing trees if I had as much social skills as my dad I would have asked them more about the fish (I like fishing too this time it was legitimately a social skill issue because I didn't even think of it as a possibility). I will try hitting up more people in nerdy events if there ever is one.
I think one of my problems is that I'm definitely a "A jack of all trades but master of none" situation with my interests.
I feel like I have no desier to talk to anyone either because I don't see any benifit other fullfilling this vauge duty to have social skills

Forgive me I posted it twice and alt tabbed so now I can't delete the copy. Jannies pls fix dis

>>88642
>wompa
I think your problem isn't having no one to talk to, because fuckin anyone is willing to listen, but not being validated for your hobbies.
The strat for women is very simple; just look good.
If you're a butthole slag FAT art dyke nobody is willing to listen to you, the only difference between that and the sub-5 experience is that you're still able to have sex and have other arthoe friends.
Its always a good thing to looksmaxx, and if you looks good as a woman few people will not listen
even if they have no interest initially, they will put in effort and listen intently and engage if you have decent SMV
men will do this to get in your pants obviously, but women will also engage with you to raise their own SMv
>>88643
change your own diaper

>>88652
Attentionfried cunt, I already said that normies glaze me. I don't want validation but rather someone on my level, you don't get that because you have no hobbies and therefore are sex obsessed. Kys.

>>88642
meet up with xer you might as well